Hey all.
So it started a few years ago, I met a girl round one of my ex's house and me and this girl clicked as mates right away.
We met up a couple of times before December 2014
But it was end of 2014 we got together
I had been on olanzapine for a few years due to drug induced problems but never saw a shrink again till 2015.
Before we became a couple we talked about our pasts and I opened up everything.
And we both agreed no lies in this relationship.
The first lie from her was that night when I asked if she had ever been engaged ( she was married the whole
Time. But they split a couple of years before this )
A bit about her past:
She had cheated on her boy friend I knew but when I asked if she had cheated she said "yes" and I asked if it was on the guy I knew, she said "no" she later told
Me it was him.
We told each other the number of people we have slept with.
I didn't believe her number as she had slept with her ex's mates, her mates husband and so on.
After being together for 3-4 months I came to hers and found a pair of socks that weren't mine. She said "yes they are yours" I was like "no, there huge"
She then said they were her step dads as she wears his when she stays there. Again I later found out he is the same size foot as me.
I let this slide.
And before she got pregnant, I wanted to write something down in a pad. Before giving me the pad she tore out some pages and tore them up. When she went out I checked the bin for them. They weren't there. She took them with her.
And when she got
Home I asked what she done with them and she said "there in the bin"
They weren't.
And then when she came back from holiday with her mates we had an argument. She went into the bedroom and I was in the front room. When I walked into the bedroom she was tapping her phone screen where you have to tap to delete a message. And as I got to her she clicked on a message from my brother and said she was texting him. She wasn't.
I demanded to see her phone and she kept refusing then finally agreed, to which I said "ok, I'll look at your deleted messages" she scream "actually no, give it back"
A couple of days later she came
In saying "I'm going to my sisters step mum to see them both. Look at my
Phone, go on"
She left with lipstick on, and her lipstick only stays on for 15-20 mins before it needs reapplying. Before she left she made it clear she wasn't taking her bag, just her phone.
2 hours later she came back with lipstick on as dark as when she left.
I know her, what she did was by saying "I'm not taking anything other than my phone" she thought when she comes back with lipstick on she would think that I think "oh she couldn't have been doing anything with a guy"
And that day we went shopping and saw her sister, and my ex partner looked surprised and said to her "oh, how's your mum?"
She had just been round to see her sister and her sisters mum!
And after this we booked a hotel for us both. We were checking her emails but no confirmation email came through so I said check your spam. She said " not yet"
I said "why?"
"Not yet!"
Anyway we went to the kitchen where I put washing up gloves on to wash up some dishes.
As soon as they were on she left and I followed and would you believe it, she was checking then, but no emails showed. I think she deleted them fast.
Ad later when I asked why she did that she said "I opened it in front of you"
A few other things have happened. And she would play on the fact I was on olanzapine even though my
Shrink said to me that I don't need it ( I have since then stopped it.
Is this stuff suspicious to you guys?
So it started a few years ago, I met a girl round one of my ex's house and me and this girl clicked as mates right away.
We met up a couple of times before December 2014
But it was end of 2014 we got together
I had been on olanzapine for a few years due to drug induced problems but never saw a shrink again till 2015.
Before we became a couple we talked about our pasts and I opened up everything.
And we both agreed no lies in this relationship.
The first lie from her was that night when I asked if she had ever been engaged ( she was married the whole
Time. But they split a couple of years before this )
A bit about her past:
She had cheated on her boy friend I knew but when I asked if she had cheated she said "yes" and I asked if it was on the guy I knew, she said "no" she later told
Me it was him.
We told each other the number of people we have slept with.
I didn't believe her number as she had slept with her ex's mates, her mates husband and so on.
After being together for 3-4 months I came to hers and found a pair of socks that weren't mine. She said "yes they are yours" I was like "no, there huge"
She then said they were her step dads as she wears his when she stays there. Again I later found out he is the same size foot as me.
I let this slide.
And before she got pregnant, I wanted to write something down in a pad. Before giving me the pad she tore out some pages and tore them up. When she went out I checked the bin for them. They weren't there. She took them with her.
And when she got
Home I asked what she done with them and she said "there in the bin"
They weren't.
And then when she came back from holiday with her mates we had an argument. She went into the bedroom and I was in the front room. When I walked into the bedroom she was tapping her phone screen where you have to tap to delete a message. And as I got to her she clicked on a message from my brother and said she was texting him. She wasn't.
I demanded to see her phone and she kept refusing then finally agreed, to which I said "ok, I'll look at your deleted messages" she scream "actually no, give it back"
A couple of days later she came
In saying "I'm going to my sisters step mum to see them both. Look at my
Phone, go on"
She left with lipstick on, and her lipstick only stays on for 15-20 mins before it needs reapplying. Before she left she made it clear she wasn't taking her bag, just her phone.
2 hours later she came back with lipstick on as dark as when she left.
I know her, what she did was by saying "I'm not taking anything other than my phone" she thought when she comes back with lipstick on she would think that I think "oh she couldn't have been doing anything with a guy"
And that day we went shopping and saw her sister, and my ex partner looked surprised and said to her "oh, how's your mum?"
She had just been round to see her sister and her sisters mum!
And after this we booked a hotel for us both. We were checking her emails but no confirmation email came through so I said check your spam. She said " not yet"
I said "why?"
"Not yet!"
Anyway we went to the kitchen where I put washing up gloves on to wash up some dishes.
As soon as they were on she left and I followed and would you believe it, she was checking then, but no emails showed. I think she deleted them fast.
Ad later when I asked why she did that she said "I opened it in front of you"
A few other things have happened. And she would play on the fact I was on olanzapine even though my
Shrink said to me that I don't need it ( I have since then stopped it.
Is this stuff suspicious to you guys?
