No, it was the right move. Do you feel better about the situation now?
Has she reached out at all since the Instagram thing? If not, don't worry about it. You're only being mean if she tries to continue the friendship and you ignore her.
I'm trying to think about this situation using my own experience, since I have a male friend who recently pulled this same move on me. Shutting you down sexually doesn't mean she necessarily wants the friendship to end, it means I don't see you that way so stop hitting on me.
Anyone suggested the old fashioned approach? Dick picks to her and her daughter, first one up the stairs...
I guess you can gain from my experience haha. Now your guy is probably thinking this "if she doesn't see me this way then I'm wasting my time". In a way he is and I am as well because it's sorta torturing yourself. That's why polarizing is best in these situations. Just spill it out and express how you feel. Do you not flirt with this friend of yours at all? My friend totally made moves on me first.
He's more than likely loose his attraction towards you and find someone who will fulfill his desires. Only then you and my friend may start playing BS games again. HA... You were the one talking shit earlier. Only now your in a similar situation. Pfff