This is my 3rd year in college and to date I have not managed to "hook up" with any girls. Hell, not even a kiss or a hug. I'm not going for model-looking girls either, a 6/10 is fine since I'm around that range. Seriously, how do you do it? I talk to girls during my classes at times but I can tell they're not interested. How do you approach a girl when they don't even look at your face as you pass by? I don't get girls.
I'll admit that my social skills aren't great. But I'm not autistic or lie within the autism spectrum. I think the thing is that there about 30 guys interested in a decent-looking girl. So the girl can choose the cream of the crop. While little average me gets rejected. I've only ever asked a girl out twice during my three years. Both stated that they have boyfriends. How can I turn this around? I haven't had sex in 3 and a 1/2 years now. And seeing these slim girls with DD tits is just tantalizing.
The entire page was tl;dr but based off your original post I can completely relate to you brother. I was just like that in high school and some of college too. Shy, hungry for pussy, not good with girls and a bit under-confident. I went from not getting laid for 4 years after I lost my virginity to fucking a new chick(or two) every week to where I am now - settling down with one girl at a time and if things dont work out, being able to find a new one within a week. I don't have a ton of time to give you a pep talk so I'm gonna break this down for you nice and simple.
Option 1)
1a. Get your ass to the gym... If you want a girl that puts a ton of effort into her body then you need to do the same. Go 3 times per week, ideally.
1b. Buy yourself some new clothes, or at the very least start wearing something that fit you and dont have any stains, wrinkles, holes or tears.
1c. Start shaving every day, get a nice haircut, start styling your hair and take care of your damn body. No girl is gonna want a guy that's not hygienic.
2. If you're only approaching 1 girl per year you're doing something wrong. It sounds like you get nervous when it comes to talking to women. What you gotta do to fix that is any attractive girl you run into on the street, at school, at your local coffee shop - talk to them. It'll desensitize you to the whole thing. Start up a conversation with any and every girl you see on the streets that you find to be attractive and that is
in your league within reason (if you're a 6 then approach girls that are 5's to 8's). Try to get their number if you can, if the answer is no don't be a creeper, just leave them alone.
3a. Getting a number: Just talk to these girls as if they are HUMAN BEINGS. a) Find something to start a conversation with them about: something you have in common, compliment them on something you noticed about their outfit or their hair/makeup (don't sound like a perv or a creeper!), b) maintain eye contact, smile, introduce yourself, c) try to flirt, tell a joke, banter a bit, ask about her, talk about stuff you have in common, d) *this is important* let her know that you think she is attractive by giving her a compliment (a "you're beautiful btw" will do) and what she says here is important. If she says you're good looking too then you're in, if she is hesitant to even thank you, something is wrong. Watch her body language to see if she is or isnt interested. She might tell you she has a bf here. e) If all is going well then just be straight up with them and ask if they would like to go out sometime or just ask for the number.
3b. Just walk up to them and say "I think you're pretty cute and am wondering if you'd like to go out sometime" - if the answer is yes, smile and ask for her number.
4. Talk to them as if you would anyone else. Hi how are you, what are you up to, ask about her, find stuff out, you know the drill. Secure a day for you guys to hangout and you're in.