I’m a straight male, why do I want to suck dick?

[xtcgrrrl]

Can't reach it lol I am not flexible enough.. Maybe those circus people who can fit into a small box are able to do it, or if you have a monstrous cock.

I had a boyfriend in college who actually succeeded at doing this! But he said he could only get the tip in his mouth and it hurt his back to do it so he never tried it again

 

[ageingpartyfiend]

I had a boyfriend in college who actually succeeded at doing this! But he said he could only get the tip in his mouth and it hurt his back to do it so he never tried it again

Imagine turning up to the hospital with ya back all seized up in a certain position and having to explain.....

 

[ketquest]

People who swing both ways are bi.

Not to me... It's not micro labeling mate, I am not LGBTQSADOJAOFJAOSDJAOSDKALSKVORIU, I don't "identify as (insert here anything). Bisexual is someone who is gay, but also feels the exact same feelings for the other sex too. Are you straight? If yes, imagine feeling the same way you feel for a girl you like, but with a man. That's gay.

Like xtgrrrl said, just a straight dude who eventually get aroused by a dick. Explain what's gay about that? Would love to hear. If you could suck your own dick you would, don't lie to me...

 

[Doctor Steve Brule]

It's 2023, I guess I'm gay for watching lesbian porn and never wanting a dang prennis in my mouth.

 

[xtcgrrrl]

I got a good laugh some years ago when Pride was coming up, and an older lesbian i know said "yay, time to learn some new words again" in a very bored voice when the topic came up.

That IS funny. I get that labels can be affirming for some people. I just don’t feel the need, myself

 

[ageingpartyfiend]

Not to me... It's not micro labeling mate, I am not LGBTQSADOJAOFJAOSDJAOSDKALSKVORIU, I don't "identify as (insert here anything). Bisexual is someone who is gay, but also feels the exact same feelings for the other sex too. Are you straight? If yes, imagine feeling the same way you feel for a girl you like, but with a man. That's gay.

Like xtgrrrl said, just a straight dude who eventually get aroused by a dick. Explain what's gay about that? Would love to hear. If you could suck your own dick you would, don't lie to me...

But, almost all straight men masturbate, but most wouldn't wank off another guy right? I wouldn't anyway. I'm not represed or in denial. Just boringly straight (in that way)

Just devil's advocating, please forgive. idgaf about labels at all really, 'human being' being enough for me usually

 

[ketquest]

@HumanityIsTheDevil

"A bisexual is someone who has sexual feelings for both men and women."


Sexual feeling is different from romantic feelings.


What might cause arousal has nothing to do with being gay. I don't look at a dude and think "hummmm how handsome this guy, look at that butt, would like to fuck it, kiss him all over, etc..", but a hot woman definitely.

I discovered sexual pleasure very early myself, like 10 -11 yo, I remember getting a boner and messing with my dick, I would have an orgasm and it was very interesting. I did not even know what was it, it was just like playing with a toy which felt good. You don't even know what sex is, or have sexual thoughts. Remembering of it now, it's funny having an orgasm and not ejaculating, I think that by 14 was the 1st time I really ejaculated .

100% of my male with male sex stuff were with a couple of close friends. 2 guys. I mean after I turned 18 with 1 friend, and when I Was 16 with another friend from school. Like BFF, we would always spend the weekend together playing video games. We were both virgins were not very popular with the girls, we would go out clubbing and we would pick up girls at the party, but at 16yo you know you are not taking the girls home, even if wanted too badly... So you get home with blue sore balls, have to unload. At that time the only porn you would get were playboys, and some porn comics, we would jerk off to that, like together in the same room. Then one day we were just measuring dicks, grabbed each other dicks, and started jerking off. It was just to cum and unload, there were no romantic feelings. We weren't able to fuck girls, so we helped each other out lol... We even lost virginity together going to a whorehouse. And to be honest it was a bit disappointing because when you are a virgin you create this whole heavenly fantasy and expectation of fucking a pussy, but in reality it's not the best thing in the universe you thought would be. And obviously was not that great because of condom, so even though I Was finally fucking a pussy, I wasn't not feeling it 100% on my skin.



I always been a horny guy, I easily get a hard on out of nowhere. My dick gets very wet, I would not even need to use lube, my underwear gets all wet, it gets through my jeans even. If I am having sex with a girl who makes me crazy, I cum so much it's like a firefighter hose lol... It's very interesting the relationship of the amount of cum Vs. how a girl make you feel during sex. Even the strength of the ejaculation, it might burst very far , or just drip.

I noticed this happened when I reached my 30s, during adolescence and 20s it was always a lot of cum, like It could reach 3 meters away or more lol. Seriously.

Damn jus talking about all that already made me hot lol...

I get like that so easily, I am 41 yo by the way, but I look like early 30s.

I just love it so much

 

[Frog Dreams]

Why get hung up over labels? People like what they like. Wanting to suck dick just means you want to suck dick. If you don’t identify as bisexual, then you’re just a straight dude who likes oral sex with men on occasion

I'm not hung up over labels any more than you are or @ketquest is.

There's how you identify and then there's what you are. I could identify as a potato, but I'm not a potato.

It doesn't matter if people are bisexual or gay.

It's honestly a little biphobic to be so afraid of being bisexual that you have to insist you're straight even if you like performing fellatio.

I don't care either way... Why would I?

I'm just trying to help the guy embrace who he is.

No reason to be ashamed.

I'm bisexual. Nothing wrong with it.

...

I used to be able to suck my dick. Just the tip. It's amazing sucking your own dick because you're both giving a blowjob and receiving one at the same time. When you lick someone else's nob, you can't feel the sensation of your tongue on their dick... Anyway, I tried to do it for the first time in years last week. Couldn't reach. Getting old, I guess. Oh well. I have someone to do it for me.

Sexual feeling is different from romantic feelings.

The word is bisexual, not biromantic.

 

[ketquest]

@Frog Dreams

I am not ashamed of anything mate.

I already explained very clearly my version of it, and how I see it and assimilate it. Xtcgrrrl understood it right off the bat.


It seems to me you are way more hung up on labels, you are labelling me and assuming I am "repressed, ashamed, need to come out" lol I don't feel any of those things.


I wish I could remember which study showed that the great majority of men got aroused when shown naked men with hard dicks and stuff, all men who participated classified themselves as straight, they connected electrodes or something like that on their dicks to detect arousal.

 

[Fire&Water]

It's 2023, I guess I'm gay for watching lesbian porn and never wanting a dang prennis in my mouth.

I hate that
dudes wandering in and fucking up the whole scene ...

 

[Doctor Steve Brule]

I hate that
dudes wandering in and fucking up the whole scene ...

Lol

 

[Frog Dreams]

I am not ashamed of anything mate.

That's good. Nobody should self-shame about anything. Shame is useless.

I think it was actually you that introduced the word shame to this discussion, in another thread. EDIT: No, sorry, it was @boozeboy.

I'm not saying you should be ashamed. I'm saying the complete opposite. You should embrace yourself, (genital) warts and all.

Xtcgrrrl understood it right off the bat.


It seems to me you are way more hung up on labels

Why get hung up over labels? People like what they like. Wanting to suck dick just means you want to suck dick. If you don’t identify as bisexual, then you’re just a straight dude who likes oral sex with men on occasion

We're both using/rejecting labels.

With all due respect to @xtcgrrrl, what she said makes no sense. Read it again.

If you don't want to use labels, why refer to yourself as straight?

You're posting on the internet saying I'm a straight guy that likes to suck dick. That's not what straight means. What do you honestly expect the response to be?

I'm not invested in this discussion, I was just trying to help you.

All the best, brother.

 

[xtcgrrrl]

That's good. Nobody should self-shame about anything. Shame is useless.

I think it was actually you that introduced the word shame to this discussion, in another thread. EDIT: No, sorry, it was @boozeboy.

I'm not saying you should be ashamed. I'm saying the complete opposite. You should embrace yourself, (genital) warts and all.





We're both using/rejecting labels.

With all due respect to @xtcgrrrl, what she said makes no sense. Read it again.

If you don't want to use labels, why refer to yourself as straight?

You're posting on the internet saying I'm a straight guy that likes to suck dick. That's not what straight means. What do you honestly expect the response to be?

I'm not invested in this discussion, I was just trying to help you.

All the best, brother.

My point wasn’t “don’t use labels” as much as it was “don’t worry about them so much” lol

 

[CFC]

I'm a gay male and I don't want to suck dick. Used to find them gross, now I'm kinda neutral

Honestly, I probably wouldn't overthink it all, though naturally we are all apt to do so from time to time. Sexuality is a great big mess, best keep it that way I think

 

[Whitey69]

I'm a gay male and I don't want to suck dick. Used to find them gross, now I'm kinda neutral

Honestly, I probably wouldn't overthink it all, though naturally we are all apt to do so from time to time. Sexuality is a great big mess, best keep it that way I think

Maybe there was a mix up at birth and op got some of ur gay

 

[someguyontheinternet]

It’s pretty gay to suck dick man no way around it. Right up there with musicals and weird smells. Doesn’t mean you should change everything and become fairy or whatever. Its a full on gay / homosexual act. Be grateful.

Which smells are gay, precisely?

 

[Frog Dreams]

My point wasn’t “don’t use labels” as much as it was “don’t worry about them so much” lol

I'm not worried.

I'm not going on the internet saying I find certain penises pretty and saying I want to suck them, then getting triggered by people suggesting I might be bisexual.

Who is worried?

I don't actually believe in these type of labels. Sexuality is a spectrum. Everyone is at least mildly bisexual. I only use this sort of language with other people. Inside my head, there are no labels. Sexuality doesn't exist.

 

[xtcgrrrl]

Sexuality is a great big mess, best keep it that way I think

A FUN great big mess!

 

[Foreigner]

I'm not worried.

I'm not going on the internet saying I find certain penises pretty and saying I want to suck them, then getting triggered by people suggesting I might be bisexual.

Who is worried?

I don't actually believe in these type of labels. Sexuality is a spectrum. Everyone is at least mildly bisexual. I only use this sort of language with other people. Inside my head, there are no labels. Sexuality doesn't exist.

You're not bisexual unless you say you're bisexual. Behaviors are different from identities. A guy sucking another guy's dick doesn't mean that he's gay or bi or on the bisexual spectrum. You have no idea what his internal world is like or his motivations or why he's doing what he's doing.

There are countless cultures from over the centuries that have ritualized same-sex genital stuff like by passing male power onto younger generations. The cock is where the male power is, so it's going to be used and fetishized and ritualized for all kinds of reasons that may or may not have anything to do with sexuality.

I've met straight guys who are attracted to male power. They want to be around men and do joint sexual activities with men like share a woman together. They aren't necessarily sexually attracted to men but they are into the male power dynamic.

There are so many reasons. It can't just be boiled down to three sexual labels. I agree with the above poster that sexuality is messy and we should just stop trying to categorize everything under the sun. It doesn't work.

 

[Mr. Krinkle]

yea but taking it in the ass is gay no matter how you try to look at it

it's gay