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I’m a straight male, why do I want to suck dick?

ketquest said:
The "problem" with vaginas

There is no problem with vaginas... aside from the monthly blood and the women attached to them. ;)

My wife has a tight vagina. You could crack a walnut in there. Still, on a good day, I can go for an hour plus.

TheUltimateFixx said:
He isn't necessarily, just because he likes it tight. Some guys require more vigorous stimulation.

What would make him bisexual is if he gets turned on by naked blokes. If he doesn't then he isn't.

Uh, I think Humanity was replying to the OP. The title of the thread is "why do I want to suck dick"... If you wanna suck a dick, and you like the ladies, you're bisexual. No going around that.

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As for tight assholes versus tight vaginas, assholes are only tight at the entrance. There are no muscles to grip onto your dick inside. And assholes can get loose over the years, too.

Vaginas - in general - are way tighter than assholes... assuming no (recent) vaginal births.
 
If you wanna suck a dick, and you like the ladies, you're bisexual. No going around that.
Yup. I dunno why so many people seem to be so hung up on it. As in yeah I dicked another guy but I'm totally straight. Yeah I sucked the tonsils off this other woman but I'm totally straight. We all know bisexuality is a common side effect of too much alcohol consumption riiiight -? ;)
 
@Frog Dreams

Buy a couple of Fleshlights (the original ones), there are plenty of types from tight to loose, tons of different internal textures. buy the suction cup accessory so you can attach it to a wall and fuck it. There is also another accessory which is a heater you leave inside for some minutes, to warm it up. Fill it with lub and go for it, man I am telling you, it's heaven. They have multi textures so depending of how much you insert your dick you gonna have several sensations, very good for edging. There are some that are so good that you can even cum in 30 seconds if you want... I personally think they are better than real vaginas,


Of course that fucking a real woman you gonna have the human element and stuff, but from the perspective of just fucking a hole, Fleshlights are delightful. And with the tech improving each year, it will only get better. And the sensation is different depending of the angle you fuck it, on it;s side, upside down etc... There are some automated ones wich spin and have suction.
 
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@Frog Dreams

"if you wanna suck dick you are bisexual"

I don't agree with that, bisexual implies you are gay but also feel affection and hots for women. You look at man and woman the same way, and have the same feelings.

I already said this, but if I Get turned on by a hard dick that looks like mine and I find it pretty, and feel like sucking it, it's just that. I don't wanna hug this guy, I don't wanna kiss this guy, I don't wanna cuddle with this guy. I just wanna cum.
 
@ketquest

Before I completely came to terms with my own sexuality, I also found dicks like mine attractive and was suppressing attraction to dicks that didn't look like me.

The reason for this: I had grown accustomed, from a very early age, jerking off my own dick. There were no barriers between my attraction to dicks that looked like my dick, because I'd been wanking it for a long time.

You are bisexual.

Hugging and kissing has less to do with sexuality than putting a penis in your mouth.

It's okay. You don't need to find ways around it. Just embrace it.

Everyone is bisexual.

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I have no interest in fucking fleshlights, particularly if they are so good that I will inevitably prefer them to vaginas. Fuck that. I'm not going to fuck a sex doll either.

Personally, I think there is zero chance I'd like them more than vaginas.

Using a fleshlight is just masturbation. Sex will always be WAY better than masturbation for me.

I like the human connection. I like the warmth of a body next to mine. I like to be able to play with assholes / tits while I'm fucking. I like to pleasure someone else. I like to cum on people.

Fleshlights do not appeal to me. Each to their own.

Vaginas are perfect. I don't need anything else.
 
But yeah, I'm 100% str8 tho
Wanna Know how I know you’re gay :ROFLMAO:

It’s an extremely gay thing to suck a man’s dick. Doesn’t mean your gay lol. What’s gay is maybe if you wanna suck man dick even more than breath or opiates or hunger. (This draws some comparisons between 12 step n pray the gay ) Perhaps gay people have a phallic amygdala. Tbh this has made me kinda question why it is even such a central core component of our society. Is it cause gays get to flaunt there casual numerous sexual acts that put to shame (prolly) anything we have done recently not the mention the quantity and frequency that theM dudes are being gay to each other. As gay as it sounds, it is rather fortunate to be gay. In the United States at least, women are more available and more cool depending on what continent your on and what you look like. Even those chicks though , 1in a million is likely to be as horny and perverted and gay as even the most moderately gay gays. THE POINT stands. Our culture is whack as fuck you shouldn’t have to talk in a rediculous voice cause your voice box is dick bruised or whatever. Like wise anyone (the intermittently inclined fellatio providers for example such as op ) should be able to wear whatever kinda slutty or flamboyant queerwry to whatever musical you want. Very strange certain things ended up being gay. The damn gays nearly got meth all too themselves. Imagine the stories if only gay people had meth and we were unaware of it. We would only have weird insane story’s of funny pipes and weird rocks that turn every gathering into an orgy. I bet I sound a lil either gay or maybe like I hate gays haha. I have known few but they were pretty close. Some real wisdom my Brazilian friend said that in his culture sexuality is a spectrum and it’s dynamically changing all the time. I believe that.
 
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Sexuality is a lot more fluid and harder to categorise than labels such as simply saying bisexual if they want to suck dick. There's all sorts of labels that go into this area. Ever heard of bi-orally curious? Some people have an oral fixation, which turns them on, some may have an oral fixation which they find sucking on something soothing and relaxing (not even needing to be sexual), and others just maybe they watched so much porn it's seeped into their subconscious, and it's almost as if that's actually really exactly what they want done to them. Euphoric, horny drugs, can then make such people fantasise about that sort of thing regardless of their actual sexuality.
 
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Sexuality is a lot more fluid and harder to categorise than labels such as simply saying bisexual if they want to suck dick. There's all sorts of labels that go into this area. Ever heard of bi-orally curious? Some people have an oral fixation, which turns them on, and others just maybe they watched too much porn and it's seeped into their subconscious, almost as if that's actually really what they want done to them.
What’s the antidote to porn overload? Besides abstaining from meth and psychotic compulsive masturbation? I’m really concerned about the spiritual nature of it and all the weird goon hypnosis shit. I heard once the aliens get to harvest that type of life force and it lowers our vibrations, allegedly. Could be demons , aliens, could even be whoever bankrolls that industry would somehow benefit from us trying to jerk it all the time . What good comes from that ? Is it a sex substitute? Basically is fml 🤦‍♂️
 
@Frog Dreams

I have to disagree with you buddy... Bisexual means you love men and women the same. There is no difference for you. You feel the same attraction when you see both.

Following the same example, if you showed me your dick and I find it looks like mine, I am getting turned on by that frame. The owner is irrelevant. I don't mind if you are ugly, handsome, ripped, chubby, the rest of you does not attract me. Get it?

And receiving anal sex, I am not into it other than when I feel that I am about to cum soon, some stimulation there will make me have a very intense orgasm, but I just need the head of the dick fucking me, it's enough to make pressure over the prostate. Maybe in 1min cum, that's it.

I don't feel turned on or desire being fucked as a woman like, some dude laying pipe on me hard.

Well, I hope I made myself clear...

PS: I said "problem" with vaginas, between quotations. They are not problematic lol, I love a beautiful pink pussy.

Let me show you an example of what I find a 10 out of 10:

-SNIP- [PORN IS NOT ALLOWED IN SLR]

I see a woman like that my first instinct is to jump face first on that perfect pussy.

And I am not saying you will give up on vaginas for a fleshlight mate, it's just a toy for masturbation. Try it. Will you never masturbate hand only again.
 
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@Frog Dreams

I have to disagree with you buddy... Bisexual means you love men and women the same. There is no difference for you. You feel the same attraction when you see both.

Following the same example, if you showed me your dick and I find it looks like mine, I am getting turned on by that frame. The owner is irrelevant. I don't mind if you are ugly, handsome, ripped, chubby, the rest of you does not attract me. Get it?

And receiving anal sex, I am not into it other than when I feel that I am about to cum soon, some stimulation there will make me have a very intense orgasm, but I just need the head of the dick fucking me, it's enough to make pressure over the prostate. Maybe in 1min cum, that's it.

I don't feel turned on or desire being fucked as a woman like, some dude laying pipe on me hard.

Well, I hope I made myself clear...
Why get hung up over labels? People like what they like. Wanting to suck dick just means you want to suck dick. If you don’t identify as bisexual, then you’re just a straight dude who likes oral sex with men on occasion
 
Look, if men could suck their own dick when masturbating, they ALL would to that. 100%

What's the difference sucking another guy then?
 
What’s the antidote to porn overload? Besides abstaining from meth and psychotic compulsive masturbation? I’m really concerned about the spiritual nature of it and all the weird goon hypnosis shit so the aliens get to harvest the perversion and it lowers our vibrations, allegedly .
Look, if men could suck their own dick when masturbating, they ALL would to that. 100%

What's the difference sucking another guy then?
Are you unable to suck your own my friend ?
 
@Frog Dreams

"if you wanna suck dick you are bisexual"

I don't agree with that, bisexual implies you are gay but also feel affection and hots for women. You look at man and woman the same way, and have the same feelings.

I already said this, but if I Get turned on by a hard dick that looks like mine and I find it pretty, and feel like sucking it, it's just that. I don't wanna hug this guy, I don't wanna kiss this guy, I don't wanna cuddle with this guy. I just wanna cum.

It’s pretty gay to suck dick man no way around it. Right up there with musicals and weird smells. Doesn’t mean you should change everything and become fairy or whatever. Its a full on gay / homosexual act. Be grateful.
 
It’s pretty gay to suck dick man no way around it. Right up there with musicals and weird smells. Doesn’t mean you should change everything and become fairy or whatever. Its a full on gay / homosexual act. Be grateful.

nope
 
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