TheFrogEffect
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- Nov 13, 2020
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Solid advice. I struggle with bipolar II and ADHD. My psychiatrist that I used to see actually thought I might fall on the autism spectrum as well. Which I never considered until he pointed out all the personality traits I have that scream ASD. I lost my insurance and with it, access to medication to treat said bipolar and ADHD. I struggle with accepting that I am the way that I am and so I turn to drugs.Sorry, as I said, pretty bad at detecting sarcasm.
Yes, as cheesy as it sounds, accepting who you are is the only way to ever get anywhere in life. If you spend your life hating yourself, your quirks, your looks and/or your choices, you will never be able to be happy in any way. This deep dissatisfaction with oneself can only lead to an unstable relationship. I have had many issues with that myself, not about drugs, but behaviour. I got ASD(Aspies), I'm highly OCD, I'm neurotic as fuck, I'm paraschizo, I've felt shame for what I am half my life, until I said fuck it. I cannot be someone else, I have to be proud of whatever I am. Whatever I cannot change, I make my own, and only that helped me get anywhere in life eventually, actually lead a pretty normal life, with an amazing job
In addition, I left a longtime employer because they closed our local office and I could not relocate to a different state, so I've been struggling for years to find another job that I find fulfilling even in the slightest. That job doing auto claims was super complex and no two days ever turned out the same. It was incredibly satisfying. Now I'm flying through job after job trying to find something that can fulfill me and nothing does. I feel like there is something deeply wrong with me. Why can't I just hold down a boring, mundane job like so many other people do? It drives me crazy that I am this way.