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How to deep throat?

@binge artist, you're trying to derail the thread with some crap about sex and love in my grandparents day wtf?

If a girl can't deepthroat its not a deal breaker for me, there are other ways to give good head. But when a girl can do it well and likes you grabbing her hair and pushing her face into your crotch and kinda gags on it a little bit and theres tons of saliva going everywhere, thats FUCKING HOT.

plenty of good advice, practice makes perfect thaidie, im sure you're gonna make your dude very happy!
 
I've been with women who can and can't and it doesn't bother me that much. Swallowing on the other hand is a different story and for a different thread...
 
The key to deepthroating is to RELAX. If ur not completely comfortable with the person or settng its not gonna happen. But with a lot of practice it is possible to learn, trust me. I had big problems with it in the past but my boo helped me relax and practice and now I can do it!<3
 
i used to always have trouble deep throating but i was giving my man head one day and it went all the way in nice and easy i hardly noticed, and i was tryna work out why it was so easy. and found that if i was breathing in (through the nose of course) it helped open my throat, and i could get the dick all the way down no trouble then when i needed to breath out just come back up a bit and then everytime you breathe in (nice and slow and maybe hold it a bit) you go all the way down again, worked a charm for me n like you i always had troubles with it before, n my bf definitely noticed the diff, as while i've always given great head he was just like wow whatever your doing diff, keep doing it
 
Practice makes perfect, like everyone else is saying.

Not being able to deep throat isn't a turn off at all, Its great but i've had good head without it. Just don't force it. I had a girl Throw up on me. Insta limp dick.
 
all my female friends say deepthroating takes practice. practice on a bottle or something (that's what they do).
 
haha...now I feel so...OLD! 8o

But the old school approach is this:

Marry the sweet, prudish girl who does nothing but the missionary...and only when she HAS to (to make babies, of course).

Boink the dirty little harlot who know how to do all the other stuff behind the wife's back.

This is the way most of our grandparents did it. And if you notice, if they're still alive, they're also STILL married. Then, compare this to the philosophy followed by our "free love 60's & 70's" parents. In the case of most of us, they divorced before we went to high school.

Just food for thought...

Honestly, who would want to marry someone like that. it means you'd never have a fulfilling sex life. i think its important to have a partner who is sexually experimental, a stale sex life can ruin a relationship.

i honestly can't tell if your been serious or just trolling. Anyway dude, you can keep nancy christian from your local church, who noly ever does missionary when she wants to reproduce. i'll have a fun girl who is crazy in bed:D
 
And guys, in your opinion, if a girl can't get your dick very far into her mouth, is that a major turn off??

In my experience, only about a quarter to a third of women can deep throat. As a guy, if you're going to find the inability to deep throat a turn off, then you'd better prepare to be pretty disappointed.

If a girl can do it, it's a turn on, but not being able to do it isn't something I find a turn off. It doesn't even feel that great, it's more of a visual effect, and if you want a nice visual effect, go watch a rainbow ;) =D
 
if you make a fist with your left hand with your thumb underneath your fingers and squeeze it kinda takes away the gag reflex. or at least i tried it cause i always gagged brushing my teeth and that actually stopped it. it works!
 
Mmmmmm I'm excellent at sucking cock and I am good at deep throating. I get told I'm good at eating snatch too but this is not the thread for that and I am much better at sucking a cock and I probably prefer sucking cock but I wouldn't say no to eating a woman out with a male lover/boyfriend.

You wanted advice on how to deep throat so I am writing it.

You have to want to deep throat a cock and have a HUNGER that you want to swallow that cock! Suck it like you love it and him or like it's the last sex either of you will be getting for a long time.

No, Deep throating is not necessary but I find it really fun and I don't just do it to anyone. I only do it to a partner/boyfriend and if I could have slept with my then BF's cock in my mouth and mine in his in a 69 I would have gladly done that! I wanted him to make a copy of his penis in one of those make your own dildo kits so I could suck on it and be reminded of him and of His cock and how it felt in my mouth and throat.

I've never been with a horse hung guy but friends of mine have and they said how while some people can suck a HH (horse hung) cock most can't and how a HH cock is rather boring since very few can take it in their mouth/deep throat one, you can't really stroke one that well, and not everyone can take one in their anus or vagina or even wants to.

Keep sucking his cock and keep in mind that if he's big it may seem hard now like the first time but it does get easier.

If you are into bottoming or being submissive for the whole SM/B&D or Dom/sub thing become submissive and let him "use" your mouth for his pleasure or fuck your mouth, while he wears leather/denim or an outfit of your choice or while you dress up some, while you are on your knees or sitting below him and sucking his cock.

Maybe slap his cock on your face some? Doing this certainly makes me horny and getting told I'm a good cocksucker by a boyfriend just makes me want to keep on sucking him and let him pound his balls against my stache, goatee, and furry chin depending on which position we are in, as he fucks my mouth and throat. I know that as a woman you don't have facial hair but if any men are reading this and are into sucking cock my ex BF loved it when I had a very long biker stache and I'd rub it all over his cock head and balls!

Or have him sit up in a chair or lie down on a bed and you are the one that is giving him pleasure. Maybe tie his hands or tie him up/cuff with shackles and cuffs spread eagle with a blindfold too? ;)

Also lick his balls and his piss slit and remember to breathe through your nose! Find out what spots on his cock are sensitive it's different for every guy.

If he has a foreskin lick the inside of it. When you suck his cock suck it slowly and do not do what you see women in straight porns doing when they suck cock where they suck on it very fast or suck only on the head and ignore the rest of the penis.

Also use your mouth, tongue, and lips. It's OK to finger his asshole, finger/tap his taint, or play with his nuts with your hand but when you are sucking him do not let it turn into jack off I have had some men blow me and they will start sucking and then they'll basically wind up stroking my cock the rest of the time instead of sucking it until I shove my big cock back in their mouth. If you are into rimming/eating ass maybe rim him and then lick his balls and then suck his cock again?

As you suck on his balls gently stretch them with your mouth. I love ball stretching with rope, leather, or a man's mouth and low hangers like mine are fun to stretch by hand, leather/rope, or by mouth!

If he likes having his Perineum or taint stimulated put a vibrator against it while you blow him.

Heh, also when you feel like you are going to dry heave or your eyes water up or your nose starts to run, do not worry as you just have him ease up and breathe deep and then go back to sucking his cock!

Keep him on the EDGE of ejaculation and/or orgasm for hours or days if you can with your mouth!

Yes this is possible my ex and I did this and when I have sex with a boyfriend I like to do this if I am sucking his cock or being sucked by him.

You can learn how to relax your gag reflex like when you brush your teeth brush your tongue, try with a finger or a dildo.

This may be counter productive though since while I can suck a nice long thick cock I do gag and feel like I'm gonna dry heave when I brush my tongue and dildos taste nasty even if they are made out of silicone.

I don't condone swallowing unless you know that your partner isn't going to give you HIV or other STDs and you're in a monogamous relationship. Facials are safer as long as you do not get cum in your eyes and do not have broken skin on your face.

Woah, that was all a little bit too much mate... I can't read into this thread any more.. it was all kinda hot.. then that turned it...

I didn't want to read an erotic gay story whilst goin thru this thread. im seriously gagging... that fucking left a stain in my head... I got nothing against gays etc... but like, straight guys don't wanna hear a gay love tale.

To the OP: Good luck with your problem... And Binge Artist, dude your comments would be useful if we lived like 60years ago - but we don't. Unfortunately, people are alot less prudish, and even if we wanted that vanilla life you see old people live - its not gonna happen.
 
^ haven't laughed so hard for a while. Thanks to both Mr Ibis and Preisttheycalledhim for that. i didn't really find the detailed description disturbing, but i thought it was quite funny the amount of graphic detail he went into.
I think my little heterosexual world has been shattered.

BTW, getting deep throat from a girl is a huge turn on for me. Its always a present surprise if a girl can do it, and do it well. That said, its not a turn off if she can't do it. I always appreciate the effort a woman goes to if she's giving head.
 
The trick is to swallow as you go down to avoid the gag response >_>
 
Wow, what's with all the prudes on this thread? This is Bluelight guys! It's OK for a girl to want to be good in bed and it's equally fine for someone to give her thorough, honest advice. PriestTheyCalledHim - thank you for a very informative post, I've definitely picked up a few tricks! For those whose heterosexual bubble was shattered - it's about time. If people can't be explicit in SLR, where the hell can they be?? 8)
 
You've gotta do it a whole lot... sometimes it even might make you puke. Also keep the deep throating up for as long as possible before you gag. Same way guys train themselves to not cumm fast.
 
deepthroating is an easy thing and i believe anyone can do it...
one of the main things to do is look at the curve in the penis and adjust your angle depending on how it is curved
for guys curved upwards it helps if the person giving head is in a 69 like position...if they curve down the best way would be facing straight towards your partner and...left side and right side for those curved those ways..
thats all the tips i have

also...i dont know if its just me but...if i was going out with a guy who cant deepthroat me it would be a major turnoff...

~GH~
 
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