None of my business obviously and no worries if you don't feel comfortable answering - I'm just very curious about parents who make a decision not to completely hide their drug use from their children, because I'm sure it's a tricky thing to navigate
My son didn't know about my past drug use till he was 16 going on 17, he knew I'd done drugs before that age but I didn't go into detail as it was mainly when I went raving as he'd be at his dad's when I done drugs
After the age of 17 he no longer wanted to go to his dad's as much, I met a bloke who also done K and my son was fine with me doing it at my ex's house, he once caught me fucked off my face as he came home early from his dad's when I'd thought I could get away with doing it at home lol
Anyway by now he's 17 and a half, he's not going to his dad's much at all but he's going to college, so I took K when he's at college, then of course lockdown happens, I've now got a bit of a K habit I take it few times a month, I have to do it sneakily as he don't like me on it, he's a bit worried as thinks drugs are bad, well he thinks they should be used in moderation
He smokes weed sometimes but wants to make money, not get into drugs and end up like me using pills to sleep, having anxiety and taking K
I've brought him up to know what drugs are what they can do, what they are like, the good and the bad and he ain't interested one bit
Now you ask anyone who's hidden drugs and drug use from their child, all that child wants is to use, they find it more appealing it's the big no no, their parents tell them not to so what do they want to do? Drugs
But because my son knows about it he couldn't be less interested, I've told him about K holes and he can't believe people take that shit and actually want to achieve the K hole lol
So now me and my son have said I can do K once a fortnight, yes I've been naughty and had sneaky lines in between but I fucking love that stuff, I'm an anxious person and it makes me forget
I have generalised anxiety disorder and all I can think about is how cruel the world is, all the animals suffering, the poor polar bears being emaciated and losing they're icey homes, all the kangaroos and koala bears being burnt to death in Australia and all the starving abused animals during lockdown that either have no home or are a abused by nasty people
I don't know what sort of GAD makes animal lovers like me get so fucking upset and depressed about the cruelty those animals suffer but I can hardly cope with this world and K is my escape
"son, you know how you've been taught to obey the law and stay out of trouble - well actually some of those laws are just ridiculous and wrong and I'm personally a fan of some illegal things" ...is something like I imagine the conversation going
This is hilarious I read your message out to my son and he also laughed at this, it's basically what I said, but I didn't sit him down, it was a few comments here and there, some jokes and stuff about drugs and one day being pissed and telling him all about K, I hardly drink you see, and this was the first time I was drunk in front of him and man did I have some funny story's to tell him about me on K, back then I barely done it, it's only in the last year I've done it this much
He's got a good head on his shoulders, I get complemented on how I've brought him up, honest only yesterday while looking at motorbikes the bloke helping him set up insurance said to me "well done on how you've brought him up, he's intelligent and don't take no shit"
His college teachers tell me, random people tell me, his school used to tell me
I'm proud of him, he's worked hard at a fast food place he saved 2 grand and just bought his motorbike he's been wanting for a very long time, he gets it tomorrow and he's also aggreed to stop his furlough early and return to work so that he has a definate job to go back too
Thanks for asking, its a pleasure to answer rather than people judging me I like to explain how and why I let him know about drugs