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having a small penis

All this anxiety over having a small penis... I imagine most people here thinking that they're in this category are only a bit smaller than the average size? If that's the case, the only time it's going to be an impediment is if you want to become a porn star. Other than that, if you're having sex with someone who loves you, and you love them, then it's not going to be an issue. It's only in cases of micropenis (under 2.5 inches erect) that any real sort of problem might happen (unless you happen to have a sexual encounter with a size queen who is totally lacking in tact & empathy).

As for having a larger than average dick, the only real advantage (except in cases involving size queens) is that you've got a better chance of making it as a porn star, if that's what you want to do. It also has some big drawbacks (no pun intended, well not much!) - some women will take one look and go "no way is that coming anywhere near me!"; that's the sort of reaction that can also be a big blow to a fragile male ego. Even if they agree to sex, it may end up being a one-off case as not every woman thinks it's a huge turn on to suffer from cystitis for a couple of days after sex and may decide that any pleasure to be had with a bigger than average dick isn't worth the price (in terms of things like cystitis, bruising, sore jaw etc afterwards).

As a rule, I've found that women are much more taken with men who have a degree of self-confidence and an ability to communicate rather than any physical attribute. You can have a huge dick, but if you have no social skills, you'll never have the chance to use it.
 
cxsx said:
penis size isn't important when you're talking about trying to have a great relationship w/ someone. because SEX is not what holds a relationship together. i can almost promise that if sex is the primary factor in any given relationship, it will become the very thing that makes the relationship fall apart. the couple will more than likely begin to dispise having sex w/ eachother and they'll stop.

while a big cock and deep thrusts dont hold a relationship together, they usually STILL FEEL GOOD!!! that is... IF.. you're not trying to keep a relationship w/ a guy who has a big cock and thrusts deep based totally on the sex. cos then you'll start to hate it.

small cock guys: do not fret - those hung studs aren't good for too much more than a few gasps and whimpers.

i find it funny that you posted this considering seeing what you wrote in past threads8(
 
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yeah what really sucks is being in a loving relationship with mostly great sex, even though one might not have the largest penis, and knowing that even though the sex is great the girl feels that larger penises feel better, and she is still flirtatious with an attractive intelligent witty and talented owner of a large penis who is a more experienced lay than oneself and open for business. and it sucks to know that she will willingly forgo pursuin this guy so that she can just be with you, but that you will never be able to give it to her like they can.

yeah, dick size sucks.
 
Im working with a 6 incher with some girth and I never get complaints. But I have a good friend that his shit cant be over or close to 4 inches I feel real bad for him. We run trains on skuts sometimes and he's aalways back there saying "how does that feel" "does it hurt" I laugh everytime he says that even if im in mid stroke
 
You'll never guess who has a small penis....*sigh* and he's one of the hottest actors nowadays. I cross the line on this one lol.
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Jude Law tny 1
 
fastandbulbous said:
All this anxiety over having a small penis... I imagine most people here thinking that they're in this category are only a bit smaller than the average size? If that's the case, the only time it's going to be an impediment is if you want to become a porn star. Other than that, if you're having sex with someone who loves you, and you love them, then it's not going to be an issue. It's only in cases of micropenis (under 2.5 inches erect) that any real sort of problem might happen (unless you happen to have a sexual encounter with a size queen who is totally lacking in tact & empathy).

As for having a larger than average dick, the only real advantage (except in cases involving size queens) is that you've got a better chance of making it as a porn star, if that's what you want to do. It also has some big drawbacks (no pun intended, well not much!) - some women will take one look and go "no way is that coming anywhere near me!"; that's the sort of reaction that can also be a big blow to a fragile male ego. Even if they agree to sex, it may end up being a one-off case as not every woman thinks it's a huge turn on to suffer from cystitis for a couple of days after sex and may decide that any pleasure to be had with a bigger than average dick isn't worth the price (in terms of things like cystitis, bruising, sore jaw etc afterwards).

As a rule, I've found that women are much more taken with men who have a degree of self-confidence and an ability to communicate rather than any physical attribute. You can have a huge dick, but if you have no social skills, you'll never have the chance to use it.

I totally agree with everything you said.
 
Just dont' date loose women with large vaginas. How can you spot them? Don't they tend to have large, child-bearing hips/big asses?
 
i think i've got a small dick, its not really large - but measures to 6" errect.. its quite thin.

I've never had a girl 'complain'... ive only had chicks surprised and tell me that they didnt expect me to know what i was doing... ;)

I'm not ashamed of it really - watching porn in reality puts a bit of a thorn in ur side coz ur thinking 'awww, i want one like that'.

It's not the size of the hammer, but the nail your throwing it at.
 
Don't feel bad man. Look at 'super-stud' Brad Pitts little fella.:D

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4.5 inches is not too short for most women. That length would not be an issue for me at all, and I would prefer it be that size than over 7", which I find painful.

However, I really like width. A narrow/thin penis is not pleasurable for me, and I MUST have satisfying penetration -- I dont care about oral, and manual is take it or leave it for me.

If you're really thin, which you don't say or quantify so I can't comment on you personally, that could be a problem -- for me personally, at least.

Width is so much more important than length though...
 
MildKandy said:
I already did I was responding to the above, back off little guy


Do you ever have anything to say other than "lol" or the ever popular "hehe"?
Give me a friggen break 8(
 
well...

Amazing how the human mind works. 100 replies to this thread, and no one knows of a solution except for a sugar-coated "deal with it buddy"


Which is a very good thing to do, since living in acceptance is the only way to live one's life.

But instead of "dealing with it", why not try to actually solve the problem?

And how could the collective knowledge of the Bluelight hive failed to find a true solution?

You tell me. 8( :(


So buddy, let's look at the things in a scientific, bio-mechanical way. %)

So the penis is made of:

1-Soft tissue (similar to ear lobes)
2-Spongious tissue
3-Skin
4-Tied to several ligaments
5-Tied to several muscles


Biomechanicaly, it is obvious that pretty much all other body parts containing these type of tissues can be modified to change their appearance, properties and size.


Every ligament in the body can be stretched, sometimes to great length while still keeping their support fonction. Just think about yoga, or pretty much any type of activity.
Every tendon can be stretched with enough tension and heat.
Most muscles can be stretched a little bit

So the obvious question is, why doesn't this apply to the penis?

Also, penis size depends on the amount of blood it contains. As shown by your forearms and other parts, vascularity can be improved by exercice and light stress to the veins.

The Kegel muscle and the BulboCavernous muscle can be stretched AND get MUCH stronger, thus giving a better erection.


You see where I'm going?

All body parts can be changed, giving the right exercice and intention. This is 100% pure fact, pure science and pure logic.

So the Matrix-esque question, of course, is


Why could you stretch every part of your body except your penis?
Why could you strengthen every part of your body except your penis muscles?
Why could you increase the vascularity everywhere except on your penis?


Very stupid questions, indeed. The short answer is, you can change your penis if you want, if you have the patience and dedication, and decide to not listen to the hordes of sheeps around you who do everything to avoid change and improve their lives.

Just go to www.thundersplace.com
, a 5+ years old community of 10 000+ members doing Penis Enlargment (PE) techniques, with progress photos of hunreds of them, videos etc.

Nothing to pay, free as in free beer, register and you have access to all the forums (pics, videos etc).

Sounds hard to believe? Why? Because since your birth every doctor and women have been telling you "you cannot change your penis, deal with it"?

Well my friend, this is another Matrix of lies and ignorance.

Just go there and you'll find pics of people who went from 4.5 to 7inches.

Which, of course took at least 2 years of 30-60 min of exercices (heat, various stretching, Kegels, Lig strech, hanging, Edging, Ballooning and other techniques).

Nothing is magical, just work for it. Surgery is a dangerous and will give you a bigger but not fitter tool, pills are laughable (don't go on these boards and start talking about magic recipes and pills, you'll get murdered).

No magic, just simple anatomy and work.



Me? I love my average-length penis (6.1'), and deal with it very well. But you know what? I decided to start a standard, newbie program of PE 6 weeks ago. You know, warm-up (10 min hot-wrap or shower), 15 min stretching, 10 min jelqing and cool down, 4-5 times a week.

And my penis has never looked, been and felt healthier. This is only when you start this for real that you really realize how much tension we have deeply buried in there (like pretty much everywhere in our bodies). 6 weeks and I have gained 0.15 inches in length and girth (which is a lot in so little time, they call this newbie gains), but the real deal is that erections are even better and easier than before, sensitivity is up, vascularity is way better, my curve to the left has diminished and my PC muscles is better.

Showers and cold used to really shorten my penis and make it turtle inside, but not anymore. Only 6 weeks, and it now stays long, soft and warm all the time. Slowly but surely, my veins have been unclogged, the small cavities in the penis bigger, softer and easier to strech and fill with blood.



The point is? I'm not doing this to have a monster dick. But you know what? Working out my penis in a safe, slow and controlled way (you don't need pumps and weights and pills and whatever to do this) has been one of the best things in my life. My penis looks and feels much better, and after stopping for 4 weeks (gonna start again soon) I haven't lost any gains.



So my friend, you decide what you do now. But there is a way, a long one, though, if you want to gain 1+ inches.

Just don't listen to all the naysayers who will post after me with their "You don't have any scientific proof for that", "You must have a small penis", "What a loss of time" and bullshit like that. Just step out of the Matrix, and think for yourself buddy.

For your information, increase in length and girth have become secondary to me. The increase in suppless, responsiveness and hardness is the real deal.

I don't have a small penis, thank you.
Time spent in a meditative state while doing the exercices is not time lost, in my book.
All organs of the body can be changed with enough time and the right work, why not your penis?


Do what you want with this information. I don't care, and will laugh of your negative replies.


PS: And having a bigger, harder dick that is more sensitive and vascular DOES matter in sex, or at least with 2/2 girls. I guess I'll have to wait longer to see how much, though.

Have fun

PSS: Really, don't believe their lies.
 
Be extremely careful you don't rupture the Tunica Albuginia.

The thing is that the corpus cavernosum (the area that fills with blood) can take a near unlimited amount of blood. It's the tunica that caps it's size, it's a sheath with a maximum size that limits the degree to which the corpus cavernosum can expand. Odds are your exercises are relaxing the tunica to allow for more volume. Be extremely careful, a ruptured tunica can lead to immense swelling, which pinches off the vessels necessary for blood drainage, more blood flows in but can't flow out.
 
The Tunica is the last thing that gets stretched, as it is the most robust part of the penis.

Gains in the first 6 months are made by the tendons and ligs, who don't have their natural suppless in most individuals.

This is why the motto of PE is 'slowly but surely'. It should never be painful, but rather pleasant, like a good back-stretch.

And this is why anyone wanting to do this should spend the next 20 hours on this website.
 
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