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guys, do you prefer full figured women?

Originally posted by jerzeezfinest:

EXACTLY!!!! I'm 5'3 and I weigh anywhere from 120-130 (my weight goes back n forth so much its not even funny...
*******I kinda used to be in the same boat. one day I was 120, the next 112. that was years ago. nowdays the most ive weighed was 145, the least(as of last month) was 138.*******
on friday I can weigh 128 and by monday weigh 121...its crazy). I dont look heavy...I've been told that I'm too skinny. Its all about bone structure, I have big bones (lol, its not an excuse for being fat, because i'm not fat...I'M JUST BIG BONED!).
*******I like big boned women, they arent so fragle and I can cuddle with em without fear of squashing them. anyways back in college I saw one woman who was 5'4 and she said she weighed 140! she looked 120 to me! I can bet she had muscles since she carried half my grocery bags quite a distance in light rain with one arm and umbrella in other*********
I have basically NO fat on my hips by they are still 36in. Someone said 36-30-36 is the perfect proportion, well, thats me.
******I kinda agree too. although anywhere from 34a-28-34 to 40b-36-40 is fine*******
Even though I'm pretty much happy with my figure, I'm not happy with my weight...when it comes to guys trying to pick me up and shit--because they completely misjudge how solid I really am. I really dont let anyone pick me up because they'd be suprised by how heavy I am, not fat, heavy.
*******wont they be the same supprised if you just tell em yer weight? I was like wow when that 5'4 woman said shes 140! she could even weigh 170 and not look too bad!*********
So, I'm pretty curvy, and I appreciate that on other women as well. I'm not attracted to really skinny girls, I think its nasty--I'd rather her have some meat on her...not fat, but healthy. I like small breasts
********me too, but I dont like large ones. guess its every man's preference*******
(but big ones are okay too...), nice hips, proportioned waist... but again, it all depends on each girl individually--you cant limit yourself to a specific body type... I deffinately think girl #2 in the original post is much hotter than girl #1.
**********the full figured one? yup I agree******
[ 24 March 2002: Message edited by: jerzeezfinest ]
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It goes against every instinct in our bodies and brains. I don't know why designers choose these Ikea-esque bodies to drape their clothes on on runways; it is doing the clothes a huge disservice. Perhaps the conspiracy is that they're trying to save on fabric.
They may look good in a cocktail dress and that's it, and only for the first couple seconds.
Then your body gets this weak withdrawing feeling as you scan her figure and one of three messages gets flashed in your brain: First, that you might break her, and second, that she'll never last through the winter, and thirdly, that she'll never be able to nourish and deliver a child.
[ 24 March 2002: Message edited by: liquidocean ][/QB]
I agree 100% my biological instinct(if you can call it that in my case, heh) when I see pictures(not porn) of petite women in magazines such as seventeen, maxim, FHM, cosmopolitan, for 3 seconds I think her outfit and face are cute then the next thought occurs to me "too thin" I dont get other thoughts, except well "she wont be good for cuddling"
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^^^ Maybe i'm obsessed with reproduction, but my thoughts are that this woman is not suitable mating material. I like birthing hips, i like powerful, muscular girth. I like flesh. I want a woman who will be able to breed a hardy race of warriors to plunder the planet, not an anemic person who will barely survive the next winter. How will she feed the infants? With the cow's teats? :)
I agree, it's hard to cuddle with all those sharp bones poking you. Besides, when we're laying down, gravity makes our bodies pretty much look the same.
Kyk, shannabanana, you may find attractive what you find attractive, but don't underestimate the influence our social perceptions of beauty have on ourselves and other people. You may be liberated; not everyone has gone that far.
 
no kidding. I used to be in the same boat as you.....as a freshman, I was like 5'6 and weighed 110! I didnt get many comments, I guess the women get the most comments, although some men said I need to workout and the women were supprised i weighed *less* than them! I told them I want to gain weight. I got my wish but still not happy. im 5'8 and 140 but I want to be 160! The best thing to do is dedicate time to eating. eat till yer stomach hurts then eat again in a few hours. dont exercise too much(for now)
Yea I guess women do tend to get looked at more about their weight, which is wrong to begin with. I never said i wanted to gain wieght though, i am happy with my body, this is what was given to me, and i see it as long as i take care of it...i dont really care what others think. I guess to each his own...
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You know, skinny girls are pretty decent to cuddle with anyways.
I think girls are just naturally soft no matter what. The last girl i was with was like 5'4 105 pounds, but she still had a big soft butt and really soft skin.
The girl i am with now is very similar, slim, but very soft. You folks are mistaken when you say "I wouldn't want all those god damn bones and shit".
Everyone's bones are (should) be covered with skin, and in general as you all know girls just have soft skin, so there's no fucking way you'd get poked.
Now i think the REAL discussion we should be having is whether you like small or large breats.
Small but firm here.
 
Maybe i'm obsessed with reproduction, but my thoughts are that this woman is not suitable mating material.
******I see. you must want kids bad but you dont want to mate for that. dont worry, theres other ways, such as invito infertilization*******
I like birthing hips, i like powerful, muscular girth. I like flesh.
*****so basically you like a strong man? :) *******
I agree, it's hard to cuddle with all those sharp bones poking you. Besides, when we're laying down, gravity makes our bodies pretty much look the same.
******well you dont feel the weight, but mass and waist size dont change********
Schmacky, irreguardless of a mans weight, they pay much more attention to a woman's although I do tell men that they are too thin as well. theres not alot of anorexic men, most have nice muscles :)
 
Originally posted by Underpants:
[QB]You know, skinny girls are pretty decent to cuddle with anyways.
******maybe if you cant hold a 160lb woman cause you are too weak or something? in my school Ive seen skinny women cuddle with *two* men at once! kinda funny id say. lifting up two men is a different story though******
I think girls are just naturally soft no matter what. The last girl i was with was like 5'4 105 pounds, but she still had a big soft butt and really soft skin.
*****well most women are soft except these who workout every day*******
The girl i am with now is very similar, slim, but very soft. You folks are mistaken when you say "I wouldn't want all those god damn bones and shit".
*****the last time I slow danced with a skinny woman, I could feel her ribs when I held her waist*****
Everyone's bones are (should) be covered with skin, and in general as you all know girls just have soft skin, so there's no fucking way you'd get poked.
****skinny women have so little flesh you can feel their bones as if it was just beneath their skin. kinda like putting a tablecloth and then you can feel the oak table beneath the cloth******
Now i think the REAL discussion we should be having is whether you like small or large breats.
Small but firm here.
****me? I have no preference, since I dont like beasts, all I say is large ones arent attractive****
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please stop using quotes of mine for sound bites, my words can speak for themselves.
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oh sorry then. the quotes is so others can see what my reply is in response to yours and others. how should my replys be then?
 
i dont really have time to read all the other posts in this thread right this second but Id just like to make the point that just because alot of guys find skinny girls attractive doesnt mean we all do, nor does it preclude us from liking girls who are not rake thin.
Personally I like a woman with curvy figure, girls its not a bad thing if parts of you stick out, curves GOOOOOD (as long as they dont stick out disproportionately). In fact i like this more than i like skinny girls. Having body shape is good. Curves good. :)
C.
 
this thread is starting to disturb me. the topic itself is interesting--however the format is umm...annoying...b/c...
computer collector--you don't have to requote EVERY POST in this thread in order to make your comments. we can read, we can scroll up and down. so...a small quote here and there is find, don't RE-quote everyone's entire post
~*~kristen~*~
 
C_C, incorporate the point you're responding to in your point, like Kyk did with my 'fashion industry' comment. It can be implied, we 'get it'. I personally don't like people using my words unless they're adding something in the same spirit or adding a new viewpoint on something.
 
I guess this forum is very different. in every other forum Ive posted in, we always quoted off each other "like this" and posted our replies at the bottom or between the quotes
 
Everyone has their own views and we should respect that. My girlfriend is Anorexic, yet I find her to be very attractive even though she needs to put on weight and will be more attractive when she does (she is not that bad now). I want to help her get better and I want to help ensure that others don’t go down this path. It is really hard for her, and hence for me, to deal with but I love her for who she is so life goes on. We both work hard everyday to normalize her life. This obsession is not something I would wish on my worst enemy. All shapes and sizes are attractive, some to one and others to someone else. Most importantly, the focus should go onto being healthy. If you are quite large, yet eat well and have a healthy lifestyle then you should be happy, equally if you are skinny. I think that this forum is getting counter productive for all involved. The guys who like skinny girls are getting ass raped and the not-so-skinny girls are getting depressed and angry, and neither is right.
It's time to respect ourselves for who we are and not for what other people think. I have a very good saying to wrap up with:
You have to be able to love yourself before you can love others.
So get down and start loving yourselves, and in the process making this a better place.
 
Computer_Collector: When was the last time you "cuddled" with someone you would consider being a "skinny girl".
They're seriously very pleasiing to touch, much like all girls are. Soft.
mmmm.
 
I'm not saying that I think only slender women are attractive. I'm just saying that I am not going to worry about trying to meet every man's idea of what is attractive. Personally, I just think a woman (or a man) needs to be healthy. As in, eating a well-balanced diet (not just salad) and getting adequate exercise.
 
I wanted to say that it heartens me that this didn't turn in to a complete slagging of skinny girls because it is seen as the politically correct thing to do. People come in all shapes in sizes. People have preferences for all shapes and sizes. Be yourself and be honest about what you find sexy. Have no shame about either.
 
It seems to me that often what is attractive in a body is good health. Bigger people who are also tone and firm can be really hot. Rolls of fat are not hot. Skinny people with no muscle tone are similarly not hot. It's not just about numbers and sizes, it's also about the color of the complexion, the gloss of the hair, the sparkle in the eye, the way the person carries their body. I am definitely curvy at 37-27-38, but have found myself attracted to little people and bigger people, both men and women. I like bodies that have been to the gym and have been well cared for. Last year my neice and a Japanese exchange student were moaning that they each wished for qualities that the other had. My neice is platinum blonde, 5'10" and strongly built, with huge breasts -- not fat, but certainly not petite. The Japanese girl had long black hair,and is teeny, tiny with no breasts. In my opinion they are both beautiful girls, for very different individual reasons. It seemed so stupid to me for them each to whine about how much they hated their own bodies and wanted the other person's features. Another side note,all the 17-year-old boys that I play with sometimes prefer girls with tits and asses. They complain about the super-skinny girls -- not good for spoonin'. I also think that, despite a person's very individual predilections for body type, personality and commonality of worldview can overcome those preferences and we often find ourselves with a person who just doesn't fit our paradigm of perfect physical beauty.
 
well said. The reason I dont find skinny women as attractive stems from the fact it looks like they are anorexic, even if they are not
 
C_C, what is it, you have a prejudice against women who have eating disorders?
Or a prejudice against women that look like they have eating disorders?
What about women with ideal bodies who are bulemic but you can't tell?
The only thing i know is you want a warm, lumpy body to cuddle with.
Nice reply Old Roller, you pretty much summed that up. I've seen many opposites wish for the other's features and wondered why that can't appreciate themselves like i can. How old is your niece? :)
 
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