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Fun things that you can do when you're single!

glitterbizkit

glitterbizkit

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So... I've been single for a long time, and practically all my friends are in relationships. Only a little while back it used to get me really down, but very recently I've decided to take full opportunity of all the things I can do that people in relationships can't. I'm going to take advantage of this while I can, before some lucky man manages to get me to settle down! So, SLR singletons, let's inspire each other!

- Go to bars alone, sit with a book and have eye-sex with random handsome gentlemen
- Go travelling alone
- Go to the movies, any day of the week, to watch any film I want
- Start a career as a camgirl - or, at least, post nude pics on bluelight ;)
- Go on lots and lots of dates just for the fun of it

... What else?
 
Why with a book? Security lets you bring a book into a bar anyways? Eye-sex with girls at bars and clubs is really fun. Probably one of my favorite things to do out. :)

Another fun thing is to download a couple podcasts from your favorite artists and drive around a big city alone listening to them. Some weed along with it can make it one of the most irie experiences.

I also like movie hopping, going from one movie to another on a single ticket.

Oh and camming is fun. Just not as fun as a guy.
 
I like reading :) I was thinking more a pub type of bar than a club type, so I'd want something to occupy my time with besides drinking and eye-sex. Don't think I'm at the stage of confidence where I'd be able to go to a club on my own!
 
You need to find single friends, or new friends that ignore u once there in a relationship.
 
Why a book though? I enjoy me a nice read but I think if I saw a cute girl reading in a pub I'd be a little put off and wonder why she's doing something like that in such a social climate. Especially because you'd spend more time looking at people than you would reading the book. I'd also be turned on depending on what you're reading, girls reading books gets my juices flowing knowing they're intelligent :p

You should also hop social groups if you have the freedom to do so, hanging out with a bunch of relatios and being the 5th or 7th or 9th wheel hurts - i should know, my best friends are all in relationships..... Find other acquaintances and hang out with them?
 
i read the paper at my local watering hole all the time. but it's a dive with a ton of regulars. i've also been known to sit on a bar patio and read a book and have a few beers on a nice day.

anyway, i like this thread. as a freshly divorced single dad, on the prowl again, i can honestly say that i am loving my freedom. i play a lot of golf with my boys, been to a bunch of sporting events (which are always filled with hot tail), beat off a lot, been playing a lot of bar ping pong tourney's, been to a few shows, have some trips planned, etc etc etc.

i've also found that the simple art of sitting in my underware at my house doing absolutely nothing is a wonderful thing.

it's not as easy as it sounds though. i work all week and have my kid every weekend, so i don't have as much time for myself as i'd like, but i can't complain. life is good.

i'm in no rush to be in a relationship, but if something rad were to come my way i wouldn't be totally opposed to it.
 
I was in a 4 year relationship that ended recently. I've missed her a lot, but I have been taking advantage of all the free time I have.

Try to enjoy being single for the time being. When you're single you get to do whatever you want, whenever you want, for however long you choose. Try to enjoy working on yourself :)
 
You get the pleasure of doing absolutely nothing with no one to ask where you are and what you are doing. That feels good, (wo)man.
 
Let's try to remain focused on the topic at hand please.

:)
 
The best thing about being single is that you can do what the hell you want and when you want.
Use your time to do the stuff you have always wanted to do cos once you are back in a relationship you probably won't get the chance to.
I love being single now as I can go where I want, when I want and do what I want without having to explain myself to anyone, bliss.
 
I feel so, so sorry for my friends in relationships. A friend of mine, 21, is due to get married in February next year. My best friend is living with his girlfriend. My other best mate is absolutely WHIPPED by his girlfriend.

All 3 of them: miserable. At first I looked at them and felt somewhat lonely, then I realised "attempt4, stop being such a pathetic cunt, you've got the advantage here. You also look pretty great today, mate" and the tables soon turned.
Now they all long for my position. They look at other girls in the street and feel tied down, annoyed! Its not that they dont love their girlfriends, just that they dont have that sweet, sweet freedom!

They used to say to me "Man its great having sex when I want, bet you wished you could go home tonight and get it when you want" but the lulz hav reversed and now I wind them up by going and chatting some girl they point out as being hot in the bar and say "Yeah, it really is great being able to do what and who I want without having to answer to anybody innit blud"

Single ftw

The vast majority of relationships WILL end. But hey, im optimistic like that. At least you dont have that looming over your head; the fear of a probable nasty breakup!
You can do things alone, which is often better than in company.
You do not depend on a partner and are not hapless without them.
You are self-sufficient and emotionally stable - relationships tend to breed emotional instability with the inevitable fighting and breakups etc.
 
They'll be swapping stories on boys nights at the bar for ages.

:D
 
Masturbate!

Just focus on getting money and having fun. You may end up finding someone along the way, and if not at least you had fun and made a bunch of money that you don't have to worry about someone else spending. You also don't have to listen to someone's bullshit problems all the time, so there's that. It leaves a lot of free time to work, and go fishing, and clean your guns.
 
When I'm single I just basically do what I want to or go where I want to alone. I also am not dating someone or in a relationship so I don't spend as much money going out with someone.

Attempt4-I also see what you're talking about with my friends. A lot of them are tied down to someone and that person basically controls their life and they give that woman freedoms that they don't get.
 
after a 3.5 year relationship, this thread is enlightening, haha need to learn how to enjoy my free time, without filling it with more drug and porn use haha.
start saving my money and spending it on myself, I cant remember the last "gift" I bought myself haha
 
artic said:
Masturbate!

Just focus on getting money and having fun. You may end up finding someone along the way, and if not at least you had fun and made a bunch of money that you don't have to worry about someone else spending. You also don't have to listen to someone's bullshit problems all the time, so there's that. It leaves a lot of free time to work, and go fishing, and clean your guns.
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damn it, you beat me to it


lol "beat"
 
^ people can masturbate while in relationships, too, y'know. :\

i've been happily coupled for sometime but things i miss about being single:

1. travelling whenever and where ever i wanna go.
2. dancing all night long.
3. eating whatever i want for dinner.
4. having the bed all. to. myself.
5. shameless flirting.
 
*masturbation accompanied by dirty texts/pictures (so much less effort than sex)
*eye-fucking
*wanting to wear 4" heels again
*Fawkes' suggestion of shameless flirting
*admiring the male/female form
*hanging out with guys all the time
*sleeping in the middle of my bed and hogging all the covers
*buying diamonds for myself =)

I would like to have sex again, eventually.


I need to partake in the solo movie.
 
Fawkes said:
4. having the bed all. to. myself.
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That's a good one! This is something I appreciate every night. Even when bringing guys home lately, I've preferred them to leave soon after, or at least stick to their side of the bed (although cuddles are nice if you really fancy the person).
 
I'm not following why you couldn't go out dancing all night long even in a relationship. Are you not allowed to go out for any reason?
 
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