@Neuroborean
The problem is the way we define what constitutes a soft/hard drug. In my opinion a hard drug shouldn't be defined by the strength of its high, but by the social, financial and mental-health implications that it will ultimately cause, because Heroin for example is an incredibly unspectacular high but the reason it is considered a hard drug is because once you have reached the point of no return, you are dependent on opioids for life since your brain has adapted so much to exogenous opioid consumption that you can't function anymore without them. It's the long-term consequences that make them hard drugs. The way they change you on a very deep level.
This is something that all hard drugs have in common in my opinion: they don't really FEEL like you'd expect hard drugs to feel like. The high they give you feels surprisingly natural. I remember the first couple times I popped tilidine pills (I still think Tilidine gives one of the cleanest and most motivating opioid euphoria out of all opioids that I have tried, but only when tolerance is practically zero) and I thought to myself "THIS is how normal people must feel like. THIS is how it must be to have normal levels of endorphin in your system. THIS is how I should feel every single day!".
What makes hard drugs so dangerous is that they don't really make me feel as if I'm on drugs (except when I take huge doses or IV cocaine) and that's what makes them so super dangerous. You totally underestimate their addictive potential because it feels so natural. Even shooting heroin which many non-heroin users imagine must feel like some kind of orgasmic, otherwordly high, is surprisingly "natural" in the way it makes you feel. I thought "What? That's what turns people into junkies? No way I'm gonna end up like them. I mean it feels kinda good but no way will I sell all my belongings, steal and scam people out of their money for this kind of high. Just ain't worth all the trouble". I always compared an opioid high to a long drawn out afterglow that you get right after you orgasm. Pretty nice feeling, but not exactly what you expect when you start taking it.
My addiction developed so slowly, I was a functioning weekend chipper for 6 years, occasionally snorting, smoking and shooting up, until my heroin use suddenly escalated (for no reason at all btw. No traumatic blow of fate that caused my addiction, which is another myth. It just suddenly happened) and it didn't take long until I was engaged in pretty serious criminal acts, including breaking into pharmacies at night with other junkies, online fraud where I was basically scamming thousands of euros every month from people on ebay, battery that landed me in prison for two years, etc. THAT is what makes these drugs hard. Btw, the criminal stuff wouldn't exist if opioids were legal but that is another story.
This type of shit doesn't happen with weed.
P.S:. don't get me wrong, I LOVE opioids and don't wanna mto show that it's niss them for the rest of my life. My issue is only the legal status and all the problems that come with it. I'm ok being dependent on them for the rest of my life as long as they balance me out, make me high and fill this hole in me that healthy people don't seem to have. That's why I'm in maintenance therapy now. I get all the benefits of taking opioids without ruining my life. Just goes ot the substance causing all the trouble.