Lots of good info and advice here after reading through the first few pages. Just wanted to inject some of my own personal two cents' regarding opiate addiction.
First off, personally, I've never met or known anyone who had begun to use opiates recreationally that did not eventually get ensnared in a much deeper seeded addiction. I'm not saying staying away from addiction is not possible, but from personal experience as well as just knowing a ton of other people, it's not common. At all.
I was also addicted far before withdrawals set in. It all started out with getting a few Percocets here and there from my brother and then eventually led to me getting with an Oxycontin connect. The funny thing was, I had heard all of the dangers and was actually incredibly apprehensive my first time using it. All it took was that one action to use it ONE time and then I was off and running. Something so wonderful could never be so harmful and dangerous, right?
Fast forward a few years later one night when I was really desperate and I tried to smash my left hand in with a hammer so I could go to the emergency room and get some stuff "legally". The worst part (funny part now, really, as fucked up as that sounds) is that I didn't even break anything. My fucking hand just hurt like fuck for a week. In retrospect, I should have tried to snap the finger in two instead of pulverizing the bone matter with a ball peen hammer. And that's just the addict in me thinking...
Think it can't happen to you?
Congratulations!
Your conscience has already got you in its thrall. An addicts conscience is the most manipulating, convincing, dangerously conniving fucking thing. My girlfriend actually asked me this morning why I or any other opiate addict's didn't just call someone when they felt like relapsing (I'm two weeks clean today and going back to the Suboxone doc later on, but have been in a constant struggle of getting clean, relapsing, getting clean, relapsing for the past year). You know, so they could talk you out of not going to get a fix.
I just started laughing then responded by asking her if she ever maybe just considered having a cup of bleach with her chocolate chip cookies. You know, so she wouldn't drink milk. Of course, she didn't get the reference, but I know anyone who's an addict will. A bit extreme, but I think it illustrates the point quite nicely. And also manages to broach the topic of chocolate chip cookies (which reminds me I should go buy some).
Calling someone before going to get a relapse fix, or even just ANY fix, is a novel concept, but I would never do something like that knowing it would eventually end with me not getting high. Once you've decided you're going to, you're off and running. Unless you get arrested or hit by a bus or something while trying to score. That's addiction.
In regards to alcohol, personally, once I slip up and start drinking and thinking I can just do that, my drunken state of mind turns out being a mortal lock to eventually become obsessed with scoring some drugs. It doesn't matter if you're addicted to opiates, alcohol, benzos -- whatever -- you have the disease of addiction, and it will never go away.
If you want to get clean but don't have insurance or anything, go to your local emergency room and tell them you want to get placed into a detox. A free bed detox. I just got out of a free bed detox and quite honestly, it was infinitely better than the one I had to pay $5,000 for (AFTER insurance) about a year ago. They will help you, even if you have a bottle of whiskey in your bag that you're sampling in the bathroom to ease the anxiety. There's a lot of people who are going to look down on you, but there are also a lot of people -- whether they've had friends or family try and get clean or even them themselves -- that will treat you with an unparalleled kindness and respect. Going into rehab is tough and it's even tougher if you decide to go there willingly.
If you're reading this, though, and think it can't happen to you -- at least in regards to opiates -- I would think again. Like many have already said, once a month quickly turns into once a week and once a week quickly turns into you convincing yourself to smash your fucking finger in with a hammer because the payout will be worth it.
Fail to respect your addiction (opiates ESPECIALLY), and it's going to rip EVERYTHING meaningful away from you and beat your fucking ass down to your knees. Without you even realizing it.
If you're going to continue on using opiates though, and I'm pretty sure you most certainly will, at the very LEAST, just be aware of your addiction. In the hopes that you can recognize it before that shit gets TOO dire.
Good luck and be safe!