Hi folks. I've had two periods of attending fellowship meetings. The first when i was in treatment as a teenager when i wasnt even close to being ready to quit. I thought i was ready to quit heroin but i felt i had some partying left to do to make up for the years i had missed through heroin addiction.
Meetings did very little for me at that time. I had no concept of the 'higher power' and was absolutely not ready to be rigourously honest with another person. Never mind myself. I enjoyed listening to shares that I identified with but that was it. I left treatment and picked up where i left off.
Fast forward 15 years and i'm a broken human being with nothing left and i decided that i was desperate enough to go back. This time it was a very different experience. I did what they said i should do and experienced some wonderful things. I'm not a religious person but i understand why people find faith in the 'spiritual experience' they have. I understand now that it was likely just intense relief and a deflation of the ego that brought about those amazing sensations but at that suggestible time you could have told me it was lucifer himself and i would have worshiped him. Fortunately i had pretty good and level headed people around me in the meetings i went to who told me to relish the freedom rather than try to attribute a source to it.
I'm 7 years on now and a bit jaded and probably a little bit more cynical but there is so much bad advice in some of the meetings that i feel a responsibility to be there to help pass on the good instructions i was given. If you're a few years on and you're attending meetings to see what you can get from them i feel that you've missed the point a little. I dont believe stopping going to meetings would cause me to relapse. I learned some great stuff in those places about maintenaince of the spirit and have a duty to drop by in case someone else needs to know those things too. I see it as more of a psychological program now. A disease? I'm not so sure. A compulsive disorder perhaps? It doesnt really matter i suppose. If you find your way into a meeting the likelihood is that you need help. If it comes in th shape of the 12 steps when nothing else has worked then grab hold of it until you can walk on your own two feet. If you do learn to walk on your own two feet then drop by every now and then to see if anyone wants what you have. If it doesnt happen for you or you dont fancy it just walk on by and try something else. Hope everyone is well and keeping safe. Take care ?
Meetings did very little for me at that time. I had no concept of the 'higher power' and was absolutely not ready to be rigourously honest with another person. Never mind myself. I enjoyed listening to shares that I identified with but that was it. I left treatment and picked up where i left off.
Fast forward 15 years and i'm a broken human being with nothing left and i decided that i was desperate enough to go back. This time it was a very different experience. I did what they said i should do and experienced some wonderful things. I'm not a religious person but i understand why people find faith in the 'spiritual experience' they have. I understand now that it was likely just intense relief and a deflation of the ego that brought about those amazing sensations but at that suggestible time you could have told me it was lucifer himself and i would have worshiped him. Fortunately i had pretty good and level headed people around me in the meetings i went to who told me to relish the freedom rather than try to attribute a source to it.
I'm 7 years on now and a bit jaded and probably a little bit more cynical but there is so much bad advice in some of the meetings that i feel a responsibility to be there to help pass on the good instructions i was given. If you're a few years on and you're attending meetings to see what you can get from them i feel that you've missed the point a little. I dont believe stopping going to meetings would cause me to relapse. I learned some great stuff in those places about maintenaince of the spirit and have a duty to drop by in case someone else needs to know those things too. I see it as more of a psychological program now. A disease? I'm not so sure. A compulsive disorder perhaps? It doesnt really matter i suppose. If you find your way into a meeting the likelihood is that you need help. If it comes in th shape of the 12 steps when nothing else has worked then grab hold of it until you can walk on your own two feet. If you do learn to walk on your own two feet then drop by every now and then to see if anyone wants what you have. If it doesnt happen for you or you dont fancy it just walk on by and try something else. Hope everyone is well and keeping safe. Take care ?