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Sex I prefer masturbation over sex

It's not uncommon, but this condition is born of having an "extensive masturbation history." It's also a mindset out of which you can work yourself for her, and I would imagine you'd like to do that.
No, it's born from his hand knowing what his dick likes better than his sexual partners.

That usually equates to a pussy that's not tight enough to make him get off.

I myself, have had the unfortunate situation of fucking woman with a loose pussy and not being able to come. It was usually resolved by her giving me a blowjob.

Or if she would give up that anal.

Anal sex never failed to get me to come like a fucking locomotive.
 
No, it's born from his hand knowing what his dick likes better than his sexual partners.

That usually equates to a pussy that's not tight enough to make him get off.

I myself, have had the unfortunate situation of fucking woman with a loose pussy and not being able to come. It was usually resolved by her giving me a blowjob.

Or if she would give up that anal.

Anal sex never failed to get me to come like a fucking locomotive.



I've never encountered a loose pussy and I've banged some hoes let me tell ya

Maybe you have a little dick?
 
I've never encountered a loose pussy and I've banged some hoes let me tell ya

Maybe you have a little dick?
Nah it's legit 7 and 1/2 and almost 6 in around.

Most women tell me I'm the biggest they've ever had.

And it's not that I encounter loose pussy frequently because that's not the case. But if you're banging milfs that had some kids that they delivered vaginally, those big headed motherfuckers make sure that pussy ain't the tightest it could be.

My ex-wife pushed out two of those big headed motherfuckers, it took damn near a decade of fucking kegels for her to get that back.
 
My right arm is in a cast for 6 weeks from breaking my wrist, so I've been getting to know the "clumsy stranger" quite well. :ROFLMAO:

That being said, it's actually much easier than trying to write, open jars or even wipe my friggin' bunghole! (Though it's amazing how creatively adaptive we can get when we need to.)
 
Interestingly enough, it seems like for females, masturbation doesn’t affect us the same. Not too long ago I was researching how to become multi-orgasmic, and one of the articles I read stated that you should start with making yourself cum. (Link to the article for anyone who is curious)


Then do it several times in a row…it’s like exercising a muscle, you get better at it with practice. And it does seem to be true, at least in my experience. I did this for days on end for a while and it seemed like what the article said was true, the pelvic floor is trainable. And for women, there’s no refractory period. And right now, since I’ve been having frequent sex (YAYYYY) I’ve been able to cum every time, and often multiple times! Part of it is also probably that I’m not on any SSRIs and other meds that we’re having an inhibitory effect. And part is definitely due to the skill of my partner. But whatever the case, women, apparently, can masturbate a ton AND ALSO have immensely satisfying sex.

I think communication is key, here. If you verbalize your wants/needs, then it may make all the difference. Perhaps start by showing her how you prefer to be touched? If you can teach her to masturbate you just like you would do to yourself, that’s a start. It may help make you more motivated to reciprocate, and you can go from there?
Yes, women are the reverse of men in that frequent orgasms lead to easier, stronger & more orgasms. But you want to avoid vibration & other masturbation techniques that cannot be duplicated by sex & will lead to desensitisation. Personally I don’t enjoy masturbation much (except for lying under the faucet on full blast in a tub - NOT those detachable shower heads). Penetration is always the best for me & I prefer g-spot orgasms (manual stimulation of my g-spot isn’t pleasurable, though).

Most of the men I know under age 35, with the problem becoming exponentially worse the younger the man, have been severely damaged by porn abuse. They often require Cialis to get & stay hard during sex, & take a long time to come. I also know men who've given themselves variococeles (varicose veins on the testes) due to excessive edging. Fertility issues are rife. No surprise as porn lowers testosterone.
 
If you've been on a SSRI for most of your adult life like I was then orgasms suck literally and seemingly permanent, have been off any medication besides Kratom for almost a year now and no healing in sight.

I'd instantly trade orgasms for drugs. Not only more intense but also hours vs seconds.
The kratom is likely contributing to your lack of recovery. I can’t orgasm on opiates & they lower testosterone & libido. How long were you on SSRIs, which ones at what dose? Any improvement since you posted this comment?

When coming off SSRIs or opiates my libido & ability to orgasm comes back very quickly and strongly, and I was on both at high doses for many years (separately).
 
Slowly wean off the SSRI if medically advisable and doc said ok

Loosing the use of your c@ck and experiencing powerful sexual pleasure is a crime against humanity

It’s the most pleasurable experience of natural life

SSRI totally kill sexual pleasure, just as benzodiazepine do….which I’m weaning off of now, cause it’s effecting my sexual pleasure experience

Hell fckn no
Benzos have zero effect on me sexually & I’ve been on diazepam since 2007 for muscle tension. Have tried most other benzos too.
 
Nah, there's nothing wrong with that.
And at least you won't spawn crotch goblins that'll continue to overpopulate and destroy the planet.
The West is collapsing due in large part to low birthrates. Indoctrination with such anti-human, anti-nativist propaganda being a significant factor.
 
Nah it's legit 7 and 1/2 and almost 6 in around.

Most women tell me I'm the biggest they've ever had.

And it's not that I encounter loose pussy frequently because that's not the case. But if you're banging milfs that had some kids that they delivered vaginally, those big headed motherfuckers make sure that pussy ain't the tightest it could be.

My ex-wife pushed out two of those big headed motherfuckers, it took damn near a decade of fucking kegels for her to get that back.
Are you circumcised? And plenty of women are just as tight after birth. It’s all about muscle tone.
 
Lmao what? They must have been using a cockring or having someone stand on their nuts, surely?
Nope! Virgin men using just their hands. One guy said he tried to jizz & piss simultaneously, causing fluids to go IN to one testicle, leading to pain, much swelling, & eventually the variococele.
 
The West is collapsing due in large part to low birthrates. Indoctrination with such anti-human, anti-nativist propaganda being a significant factor.

Um, not sure where you got your information, but birthrates in the West have been INCREASING and the world is already over-populated. The last thing we need is more people having kids.
Also, the reason the West (well, lets face it, just America) is going to shit having anything to do with birthrates is a WILD take.
Also, also, opinions being *indoctrination*....uh...are you okay? (seriously)
 
Um, not sure where you got your information, but birthrates in the West have been INCREASING and the world is already over-populated. The last thing we need is more people having kids.
Also, the reason the West (well, lets face it, just America) is going to shit having anything to do with birthrates is a WILD take.
Also, also, opinions being *indoctrination*....uh...are you okay? (seriously)
You are misinformed, as any basic Internet search will reveal. The problem is that for over a century now, the wrong type of people have been having most of the children, while the right type of people have been having ever fewer.

The West = all white people of European descent.
 
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