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Advice Pussy too loose?

Dating_Meth said:
Some background info: I’m a 44 year old female, and have given birth 3 times. My youngest is 14. I started smoking meth a few times a month back in May. I’ve heard and read about how great the sex is with it. I finally gave in and hooked up with a friend last night because he’s been constantly telling me how great it would be. Wrong!

He no sooner got it in and asked me “Have you been using your toy a lot?” I said yes and asked him why. He said “I can tell. You’re just really loose.” I was shocked, embarrassed, and offended. I don’t have a dildo, but a clit suction toy.

He’d been drinking hard liquor and was high also. He kept pulling out and saying he couldn’t stay in because he was going soft and I was too wet. In the middle of this he starts watching porn on his phone while trying to fuck me. I called it quits. I was so turned off.

My question is how do I know if I’m too loose, and more importantly how do I fix it?! I’ve only had sex with 4 other men and none of them have ever said that. I know that I was really wet because in the beginning I was super turned on. Every other time in my life I’ve always had to use lube. He made sure to tell me as I was leaving this morning to do some exercises to tighten up. I feel disgusting and embarrassed. It just blows because I was so excited about it! Please help.
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i dunno if your pussy is cavernous or not, but that man did not act respectfully at all and you likely have nothing to fear but your poor selection in sexual partner.
 
Dating_Meth said:
Some background info: I’m a 44 year old female, and have given birth 3 times. My youngest is 14. I started smoking meth a few times a month back in May. I’ve heard and read about how great the sex is with it. I finally gave in and hooked up with a friend last night because he’s been constantly telling me how great it would be. Wrong!

He no sooner got it in and asked me “Have you been using your toy a lot?” I said yes and asked him why. He said “I can tell. You’re just really loose.” I was shocked, embarrassed, and offended. I don’t have a dildo, but a clit suction toy.

He’d been drinking hard liquor and was high also. He kept pulling out and saying he couldn’t stay in because he was going soft and I was too wet. In the middle of this he starts watching porn on his phone while trying to fuck me. I called it quits. I was so turned off.

My question is how do I know if I’m too loose, and more importantly how do I fix it?! I’ve only had sex with 4 other men and none of them have ever said that. I know that I was really wet because in the beginning I was super turned on. Every other time in my life I’ve always had to use lube. He made sure to tell me as I was leaving this morning to do some exercises to tighten up. I feel disgusting and embarrassed. It just blows because I was so excited about it! Please help.
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Hmm, he sounds like an insensitive/insecure bellend tbh. He probably went soft simply because he was using meth lol.

My advice if you're going to have methsex: find a guy with a bigger dick, or one with some viagra so he can actually get hard. But more importantly, a man with some better manners who has a little more respect for your feelings and less so his pride/ego.
 
assclass said:
i dunno if your pussy is cavernous or not, but that man did not act respectfully at all and you likely have nothing to fear but your poor selection in sexual partner.
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You have a way with words, man.

Dude OP slept with is an asshole who likely blamed his whiskey dick on her. So you’re right that she could probably choose a better partner next time, but damn dude… Be nice!
 
assclass said:
i dunno if your pussy is cavernous or not, but that man did not act respectfully at all and you likely have nothing to fear but your poor selection in sexual partner.
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LOL@"cavernous". I was on and off with this guy for 20 years and so in between he was off with other women.. One time he told me about this chick and how "her pussy was in dire straits" 😂


Mysterie said:
find a guy who prematurely ejaculates and you have found your match .
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@darvocet21 !!!!
 
low shot bro low shot

brolette

bralette, oh fuck here i go again...

:devilish:
where the fuck is the eggplant emoji when you need it?

AbbeyLee said:
What? Darvocet? He said it earlier!!
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my attention span is way too short to read other replies to threads >.>

wink wink nudge nudge

i'm almost at 5k posts, he said in sexy desperation.

fuck we're kinda syncing in postcount

but i'm a slow burner

i'm 'cool' like that :cool:

edit: touche again my good sir or madam.
 
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lets keep it on topic guys

and i just got one more post closer to fucking you. /s
 
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AbbeyLee said:
Here ya go. It was in the What Song Fits Your Mood thread.

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i thought i would reach my prime in my 60's

but i didn't realise it was about my sex life.

awkiessss.

sorry mods i'm still posting and fucking my own shit up.
 
jasperkent said:
I've had sex with plenty of women in their 40s and 50s, some of whom were mothers of multiple children, and NONE of them had what I'd call a "loose pussy."
Also, I've never even HEARD of a pussy that was "too wet." That's like saying a guy's dick was "too hard."
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too wet for me would be having to buy a new mattress every night.

but if i was slightly richer than i am, i think i could live with that?
 
arrall said:
This.
He was probably trying to find a scapegoat for his sexual dysfunction.
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I was just thinking about this. In all my time (and I've slept with a few more men than the OP) none have come up with that brilliant excuse. I wasn't sure if this was a troll post at first and was being a bit flippant about "big vagina". I'd love to message this guy 😏
 
Dating_Meth said:
Some background info: I’m a 44 year old female, and have given birth 3 times. My youngest is 14. I started smoking meth a few times a month back in May. I’ve heard and read about how great the sex is with it. I finally gave in and hooked up with a friend last night because he’s been constantly telling me how great it would be. Wrong!

He no sooner got it in and asked me “Have you been using your toy a lot?” I said yes and asked him why. He said “I can tell. You’re just really loose.” I was shocked, embarrassed, and offended. I don’t have a dildo, but a clit suction toy.

He’d been drinking hard liquor and was high also. He kept pulling out and saying he couldn’t stay in because he was going soft and I was too wet. In the middle of this he starts watching porn on his phone while trying to fuck me. I called it quits. I was so turned off.

My question is how do I know if I’m too loose, and more importantly how do I fix it?! I’ve only had sex with 4 other men and none of them have ever said that. I know that I was really wet because in the beginning I was super turned on. Every other time in my life I’ve always had to use lube. He made sure to tell me as I was leaving this morning to do some exercises to tighten up. I feel disgusting and embarrassed. It just blows because I was so excited about it! Please help.
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Fuck that asshole!
most guys are losing their minds when you have a wet pussy!

the whole sex makes you loose thing is a myth

we push babies out of our vaj’s and they snap back

nature knows what its doing when they build things

the jackass is probably addicted to porn and can only get off to his hand and the computer screen and tried to put that shit on you because he was embarrassed

fuck him

a real man would never say that shit to a woman

don’t feel bad about yourself it’s his hang up about not being able to stay hard and he took it out on you
what an asshole

thats no friend either I would dead that friendship

I’m hoping he comes clean about it and apologizes when he has some time to think about it sober

if you are concerned about being too loose which you probably aren’t anyway he probably just an asshole do kegels they strengthen the pelvic floor and with continued practice will tighten your vag and give you stronger orgasms

there is also a tightening surgery but I’m sure this is not really your problem

I just googled it and know for a fact what I already knew the dude is out of his mind and really is cruel making you feel bad about yourself
fuck him
His karma is shot

“It is not possible to have a loose vagina because vaginas are elastic and meant to stretch. Your vagina can become slightly looser with age or childbirth, but won’t necessarily be “loose.”’
www.healthline.com

Loose Vagina: Meaning, Changes Over Time, Pelvic Exercises

When it comes to the vulva, there are a lot of myths and misconceptions. The concept of a “loose” vagina is one of them. Here’s what you need to know.
www.healthline.com www.healthline.com
 
The porn thing is pretty typical meth behavior. I almost prefer porn to sex when high on stimulants. The combination of porn with sex on meth is great but both people have to be into it. My partner can be hit or miss when I suggest watching porn, I let her decide whether we do it and i always pay more attention to her than the porn.

As far as being too loose, I’m leaning towards him probably being smaller than average.
 
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