Some background info: I’m a 44 year old female, and have given birth 3 times. My youngest is 14. I started smoking meth a few times a month back in May. I’ve heard and read about how great the sex is with it. I finally gave in and hooked up with a friend last night because he’s been constantly telling me how great it would be. Wrong!
He no sooner got it in and asked me “Have you been using your toy a lot?” I said yes and asked him why. He said “I can tell. You’re just really loose.” I was shocked, embarrassed, and offended. I don’t have a dildo, but a clit suction toy.
He’d been drinking hard liquor and was high also. He kept pulling out and saying he couldn’t stay in because he was going soft and I was too wet. In the middle of this he starts watching porn on his phone while trying to fuck me. I called it quits. I was so turned off.
My question is how do I know if I’m too loose, and more importantly how do I fix it?! I’ve only had sex with 4 other men and none of them have ever said that. I know that I was really wet because in the beginning I was super turned on. Every other time in my life I’ve always had to use lube. He made sure to tell me as I was leaving this morning to do some exercises to tighten up. I feel disgusting and embarrassed. It just blows because I was so excited about it! Please help.
Fuck that asshole!
most guys are losing their minds when you have a wet pussy!
the whole sex makes you loose thing is a myth
we push babies out of our vaj’s and they snap back
nature knows what its doing when they build things
the jackass is probably addicted to porn and can only get off to his hand and the computer screen and tried to put that shit on you because he was embarrassed
fuck him
a real man would never say that shit to a woman
don’t feel bad about yourself it’s his hang up about not being able to stay hard and he took it out on you
what an asshole
thats no friend either I would dead that friendship
I’m hoping he comes clean about it and apologizes when he has some time to think about it sober
if you are concerned about being too loose which you probably aren’t anyway he probably just an asshole do kegels they strengthen the pelvic floor and with continued practice will tighten your vag and give you stronger orgasms
there is also a tightening surgery but I’m sure this is not really your problem
I just googled it and know for a fact what I already knew the dude is out of his mind and really is cruel making you feel bad about yourself
fuck him
His karma is shot
“It is not possible to have a loose vagina because vaginas are elastic and meant to stretch. Your vagina can become slightly looser with age or childbirth, but won’t necessarily be “loose.”’
When it comes to the vulva, there are a lot of myths and misconceptions. The concept of a “loose” vagina is one of them. Here’s what you need to know.
www.healthline.com