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Advice Pussy too loose?

Dating_Meth

Dating_Meth

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Some background info: I’m a 44 year old female, and have given birth 3 times. My youngest is 14. I started smoking meth a few times a month back in May. I’ve heard and read about how great the sex is with it. I finally gave in and hooked up with a friend last night because he’s been constantly telling me how great it would be. Wrong!

He no sooner got it in and asked me “Have you been using your toy a lot?” I said yes and asked him why. He said “I can tell. You’re just really loose.” I was shocked, embarrassed, and offended. I don’t have a dildo, but a clit suction toy.

He’d been drinking hard liquor and was high also. He kept pulling out and saying he couldn’t stay in because he was going soft and I was too wet. In the middle of this he starts watching porn on his phone while trying to fuck me. I called it quits. I was so turned off.

My question is how do I know if I’m too loose, and more importantly how do I fix it?! I’ve only had sex with 4 other men and none of them have ever said that. I know that I was really wet because in the beginning I was super turned on. Every other time in my life I’ve always had to use lube. He made sure to tell me as I was leaving this morning to do some exercises to tighten up. I feel disgusting and embarrassed. It just blows because I was so excited about it! Please help.
 
Snafu in the Void said:
That guy is an idiot and and an asshole. Vaginas don't get stretched out by toys like an old tshirt. There is some natural variance regarding size.

But either way I honestly can't believe he would say that in the moment.
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There are big and small but yeah the thing is muscle. The fact he did go on about it suggests it *was* his problem. Confident men don't act like that.
 
AbbeyLee said:
Well it's hard to know if you have a big vagina or he has a little dick. Him on meth and booze make me lean towards the latter though. He was probably horny but couldn't blow and blamed you in frustration 🙄

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I was married to my ex for 16 years and he never once even hinted that I’m too loose. He also never tried to watch porn on a phone beside my head while still trying to have sex. The whole thing was such a disappointment.
 
Yeah he sounds like a total dickhead, he's probably just insecure. I think you can do kegals if u want to though or there's this thing you can buy that's like weights lol...I went through an insecure/paranoid stage about it lol...if they fall out then you'll know maybe but I think there's different weights like starter, intermediate etc 🤣 im baked
 
iTry91 said:
Yeah he sounds like a total dickhead, he's probably just insecure. I think you can do kegals if u want to though or there's this thing you can buy that's like weights lol...I went through an insecure/paranoid stage about it lol...if they fall out then you'll know maybe but I think there's different weights like starter, intermediate etc 🤣 im baked
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I do kegels every time I pee.
 
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