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Is there any man who is 165/ 5'5 and has had an attractive girlfriend?

Good point. Also if you're using the foil and brown powder, this is the top priority - stop any way you can right now.
Nah life is shit without the brown powder

No friends
No gf

Only problems and misery

Ever since I started smoking the brown powder, I feel happy and that I enjoy life
 
Same kind of answers I always get at the end of the day

Not that people have bad intentions or don't want to help, but it is all bs, and the fact remains most women perceive me as deformed

I am on a goal to ask out a 100 women. Thus far I ve had 3 rejections. I ll update this thread every 10 rejections

I just need to confirm for myself that I am repulsive to. Women so that then I have a legit excuse to stay on heroin for the rest of my life

That sucks to hear.

With bitter expectations like that, women can probably tell and your "bad energy" may be a bigger problem than your height. They sense stuff like that. You can't get around it. It becomes part of what you're presenting. Like someone said, it's a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Men sense stuff like this too but women are usually better so men usually need to be cautious and keep in mind that they're not in control of the impression they make.

Women are easily deceived in some regards but not this one.

Maybe love is too great a prospect to throw away at the whim of your current emotional state. Maybe you should try to keep it open. Maybe you can even be on heroin and still have love in your life?
 
I'm 5'5" and I have dated 2 guys who were 5'6" long term (1 for 2.5 years the other for 7 year) and I am quite confident that I'm at least a solid 8 to 8.5, great body except very small breasts (was an AA until I had kids, went up to a B while pregnant and breastfeeding, then down to a solid A cup). I'm 38 and married with 2 kids now so dont a shit about my looks quite as much as in my younger days lol and dont care about this I do not find shortish men to be repulsive and neither of the 5'6" men I dated had any problen with the ladies. First impressions count but they arent everything and really I think something like height will have more impact ONS that long term relationships bc I might be a bit turned off at first by your height but your personality and character can easily override that and turn it around. Thats what happened with the 2 5'6"ers i dated. Confidence and self esteem are going to make you a lot more attractive. Also, being handy and able, a good provider, know how to fix things, being strong...all those can make up for height. Its a evolutionary biological imperative, an instinct, for women to be attracted to men who will be able to protect and provide for them, taller men are perceived as being stronger protectors and shorter men being weaker but its really not a fact, just a perception. Hit the gym and bulk up a bit, that might help you be perceived as stronger and probably boost yourself esteem and so be beneficial in more ways that one!
 
Hey :)
I got super sad reading your post! Mainly because you seem to genuinely believe that you don’t have a chance with women based on your height, which is so far from the truth. I’m 5 feet tall, and I have only ever had a rule that I don’t want a man who’s shorter than me lol. My current boyfriend is 6’1 and like 200 pounds (I’m 5 feet tall & 115 pounds) so he’s definitely the biggest guy I’ve ever been with, and I have absolutely dated some hot guys your same height. I wish you the best of lucky, really. Nobody deserves to be lonely or feel that their height will prevent them from finding a loving and healthy relationship. 💜
 
All the girls here supposedly don't have a problem dating a guy who is 5 5 yet they all date guys 6 1 and above.

I asked for honest answers for once and as always I get the same shit. Why can't women admit 5 5 is a deal breaker and plain simply gross and unattractive.

Thank God at least people didn't say yet it's all in my head
 
Your insecurity is the fact but you aren't by no means short.
Ask yourself this, what type of person are you interested in because when I think of what I go for height isn't on the list.
You have mentioned you dance salsa thats awesome! Theres so many things you have mentioned that height doesnt affect.
There is hope, there is always hope.

Start with online dating, most females would rather a guy they could relate or talk to over and physical features, I can tell you this!
I use to be hot but im still the same person just had more attention back then.

NR xx
 
Your insecurity is the fact but you aren't by no means short.
Ask yourself this, what type of person are you interested in because when I think of what I go for height isn't on the list.
You have mentioned you dance salsa thats awesome! Theres so many things you have mentioned that height doesnt affect.
There is hope, there is always hope.

Start with online dating, most females would rather a guy they could relate or talk to over and physical features, I can tell you this!
I use to be hot but im still the same person just had more attention back then.

NR xx
I know you are actually unaware and not mocking me so I wont get pissed

But it is online dating that fucked my self esteem

Every girl on tinder writing 181+,183+,185+, I am 178 so nos hotter than that etc
 
I asked for honest answers for once and as always I get the same shit.

I’m sure you’ve got enough perspective. By the standards of the Forum you’ve received quite a few varied and high quality responses and as a thread starter, attracted a bunch of people up to discuss your issues and help if they can.

Your last post makes it sound like you just want responses that validate the idea that women are predominately concerned about a guys looks with special attention paid to height.

I’m sorry, but we don’t really run “All women are …” threads any more though we have heaps in the archives.

People in this particular sub-forum are here primarily to help people find ways to solve problems and that’s what it for.
 
Took me forever to calculate all these bronze age numbers into cm.
I'm about 5'11, if I understand correctly (180cm), which is pretty tiny here,
so there's a lot of women taller than me.

If you're worried about your height, you will seem like someone who is very insecure around women, that's something you can't repress, it just happens. that might be why you have such issues. You want to be confident and calm, don't be afraid of who you are. Nobody is perfect, and nobody chose the way they were born. Be happy with who you are, and all these silly things like height won't even matter
 
Nah life is shit without the brown powder

No friends
No gf

Only problems and misery

Ever since I started smoking the brown powder, I feel happy and that I enjoy life
Well sir, THAT might be the problem here. Nothing to do with your height.......

now is this demonic coincidence or you are telling it to make me feel good? hahaha
Errrr, I told you the exact same thing only a matter of hours ago....why is it all of a sudden considered a "demonic coincidence" that someone else says the exact same thing?
 
I actually find shorter men attractive, especially if they have a good personality - caring, protective, honest, "manly"... etc. In fact I would go as far to say I'm probably more attracted to shorter men than really tall although if the personality and vibe is there I wouldn't let something like height put me off. I don't wear heels much. My dad was a short man and had great character I'm 5'5 think he was about the same or slightly taller. There's definitely something to be said for the shorter hard man lol for some reason it gets me going especially when compared to those guys you see who obviously take steroids and look strong but are really just big shite bags 😆
 
now is this demonic coincidence or you are telling it to make me feel good? hahaha
You have the race car driver build my man. I'm serious. Go look up the average height of race car drivers and you'll see almost none of them are anywhere near 6 foot tall. Women love race car drivers. They're attracted to the danger.

You just need to pick up racing as a hobby. You'll be dropping panties in no time. It works for me.
 
Your insecurity is the fact but you aren't by no means short.


Start with online dating,

NR xx
Sorry but unfortunately for guys, that IS below average for a man by European / Caucasian standards. If you're say Japanese, Mexican or several other ethnicities then that same height is a normal height ; but you're compared to people of your OWN background as well as the people that surround you. And the poor devil ended up in the country with the tallest people on earth.

I used to go for cycling trips in the Netherlands and really enjoyed it and people were so friendly, but at the same time 9 out of 10 of the fucking GIRLS were taller than me. Just being in company gave me a fucking inferiority complex.
I stopped going to bars because all the guys were towering a literal head and shoulders above me,
I felt ridiculous, like a kid among grown - ups.
Try ordering a drink and finding out you have to shout or elbow your way through because your physical presence is so insignificant nobody even notices you're standing behind them. As for trying to pull, the only girls trying to flirt with me were the type who looked like they couldn't get fucked for love nor money and I was like sorry I'm not THAT desperate yet.

And online dating as a first resort?? You gotta be kidding. Put your height as anything below at minimum 5'9'' and regardless of your other attributes, women will swipe you into oblivion. Short guys need to lie about their stature the way any female over 25 needs to lie about her age to pull online.

OP' s got my total sympathy and the women commenting on this trying to be nice don't know what they're talking about. If I had a pound for every time I got reassured by some girl that I was attractive and sexy and handsome / pretty, only to watch her squirm trying to come up with something polite when I asked straight up 'so if you think I'm so hot, would YOU wanna go with me'....

.... Women who claim it's all about personality and inches don't matter are being insincere. Yeah it DOES bloody matter because you only get the chance to show your wonderful personality to someone who's attracted to you in the first place, and first impressions go purely on looks. That's just a fact.
 
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Some people are attracted to their own body type and some people are attracted to their opposite body type. It's more important to figure out your own preferences before you go labeling everyone else's preference. It's rather convenient of the OP to completely leave out his own details of his own preferences. It's almost as if he doesn't know what he wants and then decides to blame others for his own failure.

I prefer shorter, stout builds over tall and lanky. The gender is not relevant.
 
Sorry but unfortunately for guys, that IS below average for a man by European / Caucasian standards. If you're say Japanese, Mexican or several other ethnicities then that same height is a normal height ; but you're compared to people of your OWN background as well as the people that surround you. And the poor devil ended up in the country with the tallest people on earth.

I used to go for cycling trips in the Netherlands and really enjoyed it and people were so friendly, but at the same time 9 out of 10 of the fucking GIRLS were taller than me. Just being in company gave me a fucking inferiority complex.
I stopped going to bars because all the guys were towering a literal head and shoulders above me,
I felt ridiculous, like a kid among grown - ups.
Try ordering a drink and finding out you have to shout or elbow your way through because your physical presence is so insignificant nobody even notices you're standing behind them. As for trying to pull, the only girls trying to flirt with me were the type who looked like they couldn't get fucked for love nor money and I was like sorry I'm not THAT desperate yet.

And online dating as a first resort?? You gotta be kidding. Put your height as anything below at minimum 5'9'' and regardless of your other attributes, women will swipe you into oblivion. Short guys need to lie about their stature the way any female over 25 needs to lie about her age to pull online.

OP' s got my total sympathy and the women commenting on this trying to be nice don't know what they're talking about. If I had a pound for every time I got reassured by some girl that I was attractive and sexy and handsome / pretty, only to watch her squirm trying to come up with something polite when I asked straight up 'so if you think I'm so hot, would YOU wanna go with me'....

.... Women who claim it's all about personality and inches don't matter are being insincere. Yeah it DOES bloody matter because you only get the chance to show your wonderful personality to someone who's attracted to you in the first place, and first impressions go purely on looks. That's just a fact.
Don't lump this woman in to " just saying it to be nice " I have had the most delicious experiences with ( and committed to ) 3 men in my life that were all my height ( 62 inces tall ) and one was actually an inch or two shorter than me. I see nothing wrong with a short man. It's all BS anyway. If we can't get laid or snag a SO in this day and age there is something wrong with us....it isn't how tall we are.
 
Some people are attracted to their own body type and some people are attracted to their opposite body type. It's more important to figure out your own preferences before you go labeling everyone else's preference. It's rather convenient of the OP to completely leave out his own details of his own preferences. It's almost as if he doesn't know what he wants and then decides to blame others for his own failure.

I prefer shorter, stout builds over tall and lanky. The gender is not relevant.
What exactly is convenient for me and what did I not mention

I stated very clearly what I want in a woman on my first post, read more carefully
 
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