"Toxic masculinity" is a meme, like "woke", and at best is a confining label, at worst is making it "Us versus them" tribal animal bologna
Dudes are dicks for a diverse range of reasons. If you think they're dicks because they have dicks, you dont understand humans. Understand childhood trauma, and learning bad habits from your parents, friends, media, abusive relationships. Much like drug addicts, calling them names like "toxic" wont make them disappear, and if anything, is furthering the divide. Drug addicts dont quit their shit until we have people who can meet us halfway and truly understand our journey. People are confused, scared, and hurt. "Toxic males" are, if anything, the best examples of this. Teach them by example. Discuss things with patience and sympathy. If you were a dick and most of your perception of the opposite sex was them posting on social media about how you are "toxic", you'd just go further down the rabbit hole.
People want things to be simple. Life isn't simple. Labels are useful as long as you are aware they are wide generalizations used for convenience of conversation, not actual psychological labels.
If you want to talk about humans as a whole being toxic, now that's a discussion I can get behind
Dudes are dicks for a diverse range of reasons. If you think they're dicks because they have dicks, you dont understand humans. Understand childhood trauma, and learning bad habits from your parents, friends, media, abusive relationships. Much like drug addicts, calling them names like "toxic" wont make them disappear, and if anything, is furthering the divide. Drug addicts dont quit their shit until we have people who can meet us halfway and truly understand our journey. People are confused, scared, and hurt. "Toxic males" are, if anything, the best examples of this. Teach them by example. Discuss things with patience and sympathy. If you were a dick and most of your perception of the opposite sex was them posting on social media about how you are "toxic", you'd just go further down the rabbit hole.
People want things to be simple. Life isn't simple. Labels are useful as long as you are aware they are wide generalizations used for convenience of conversation, not actual psychological labels.
If you want to talk about humans as a whole being toxic, now that's a discussion I can get behind
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