cj
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I can really see how getting a sponsor could be a huge help. Really does seem like one of the best things the 12-step fellowships have going for them. Unfortunately, I haven't found a guy I feel comfortable with. A couple years ago (when I was really working the NA program) I let someone foist a sponsor on me and that turned into a disaster. Since then I've been pretty gun shy. Maybe I should look more carefully. Even as things were going down yesterday I was thinking how I wished there was someone I could call and lean on.
Even just a close frieND or family member you can call would work the same. I am an advocate of taking the good stuff from the 12 steps while leaving the trash.