omnipresenthuman
Bluelighter
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- Apr 19, 2013
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if you're in your 20's or younger you gotta make the decision very soon about what you want to do with your body...if you're a gay guy, and you're just too shy or closeted to do anything about it until you're in your 40's/50's (basically when your life is in order and your parents are too old to even notice what you're doing, if they're not already dead) then you're FUCKING CRAZY in this day and age. you're just going to kick yourself when you get that old because esp. for gay guys it's just a lot easier to get action when you're younger, and that's the truth
but to the op's question, wanting to suck a phallic object doesn't make you gay exactly, but if you actually wanna suck a real dick and get cum in your mouth, then that at least means you like gay sex acts.
If that's the case, then you're just getting down to semantics, honestly...most people think that if you perform any gay sex acts voluntarily then you're gay. I personally think you have to be at least bi if you engage in gay sex acts at all.
I don't think it's nearly as big a deal as getting fucked by or fucking a gay guy, but you're still dealing with dicks and cumming, so it's pretty gay if you go through with it.
At the same time though, it really just depends on what you self identify as. You might just be a straight guy with a fetish for giving guys blowjobs on the sly...however, I think that would be lying to yourself. That would make you automatically bi in my book. Just be honest with yourself and what you're into. If you're really bi you can be with girls or guys, back and forth...I personally have never gone down on pussy and am disgusted thinking about it, so whatever floats your boat..
besides, giving blowjobs is not that hard lol, it's pretty damn easy after you do it a few times. just make sure you wanna do it though, because if you do, there's definitely a chance you're getting a torrent of cum in your mouth, which some 'straight' guys aren't psychologically ready for
but to the op's question, wanting to suck a phallic object doesn't make you gay exactly, but if you actually wanna suck a real dick and get cum in your mouth, then that at least means you like gay sex acts.
If that's the case, then you're just getting down to semantics, honestly...most people think that if you perform any gay sex acts voluntarily then you're gay. I personally think you have to be at least bi if you engage in gay sex acts at all.
I don't think it's nearly as big a deal as getting fucked by or fucking a gay guy, but you're still dealing with dicks and cumming, so it's pretty gay if you go through with it.
At the same time though, it really just depends on what you self identify as. You might just be a straight guy with a fetish for giving guys blowjobs on the sly...however, I think that would be lying to yourself. That would make you automatically bi in my book. Just be honest with yourself and what you're into. If you're really bi you can be with girls or guys, back and forth...I personally have never gone down on pussy and am disgusted thinking about it, so whatever floats your boat..
besides, giving blowjobs is not that hard lol, it's pretty damn easy after you do it a few times. just make sure you wanna do it though, because if you do, there's definitely a chance you're getting a torrent of cum in your mouth, which some 'straight' guys aren't psychologically ready for
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