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Why do i want to suck c**k? I'm straight.

Corazon said:
epic first post.

you seem to be high and fantasizing. have fun
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I would agree if this was a one off thing. However, he said that he has these ideas basically all the time so clearly this is a lot more than someone having a strange, drug induced sexual fantasy. Also, if anybody who has these ideas on a consistent basis whether on drugs or not is gay. OP clearly is actually homosexual because he thinks about this stuff all the time and even said that he just sits around jerking off to these fantasies a lot of the time
 
But im scared one the whole im straight issue two the actual act nobody will consult me on it
 
N0 W4RN1NG said:
Nah dude, I think you're a little bi. I have never wanted to put a penis in my mouth. Not hating on you, if that's your thing that's cool.

Labels are dumb anyways. But if you want to be honest with yourself, perhaps "straight" wouldn't be the label to use.

Are you from like a very religious background or something?
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Yeah , I'm pretty easy going with some freaky stuff (no butt stuff though on me ..no dildo on me etc..bc I want a female..no Trans etc etc) ..my point is I've had my dirty fantasies I use to be ashamed of and not one was with a guy or a dick other than mine lol..

nothing wrong with bi/bi curious/maybe only when you're not getting enough or watching too much porn idk but if you want cock in your mouth you're not 100% straight ..

again that's fine but you should probably come to terms with this just saying..

Also I know it's your life but do you don't deny or hide There's no need for that ..I'm not saying tell everyone your gay or bi but no need to play the straight guy if you're not ..it's great being straight to me bc I'm straight but to gays/bi I'm sure they love it bc that's them ,,

just do what makes you happy and ignore others BS anger/unreasonable hate /ignorance.. But I'm pretty sure you can find a cock if you want ..there's gotta be gay clubs near you..there ya go (be safe?) .
 
TheGraduate-It sounds like you're bisexual. Just accept it, and enjoy yourself. That's what I've basically done, and so have both of my male ex's who are also bisexual.

As far as meeting someone for sex goes, try going to an GLBT bar or dance club, or you could always try going on various sites. But if you want to be submissive or even passive for oral sex don't let anyone force you into doing something you do not want to do.
 
I wouldn't worry about labels...I don't understand why other guys are so fast to call a guy gay if he wants to have sex with another man...I mean they don't do it with women. And I'm gay and have thought about going down/fucking a girl many times, sooo it's whatever. The way I look at it sex is sex, but I do not have an emotional attachment to women like I do w/ men..With women it's more of just about fucking, men, I want to have a relationship with. People get to caught up with labels, just go with it, do what you like as long as you are not hurting anyone.
 
I think it's quite difficult to watch cocks being sucked (in porn) and have your partner/wife suck your own without wondering what it's like to a) suck one, and b) have yours sucked by a man.

I was once told by a friend that he'd been to a sex party and unexpectedly found himself being sucked by a man - and finding it was the best blowjob of his life. If you think about it, that makes sense.

At the end of the day, ask yourself the question: will anybody die if I try it? If not, go for it.
 
Yeah, I wouldn't worry about the labels. Let other ppl trifle over what they want to make of it and just enjoy yourself in all the ways you want to.
 
atourist said:
I think it's quite difficult to watch cocks being sucked (in porn) and have your partner/wife suck your own without wondering what it's like to a) suck one, and b) have yours sucked by a man.

I was once told by a friend that he'd been to a sex party and unexpectedly found himself being sucked by a man - and finding it was the best blowjob of his life. If you think about it, that makes sense.

At the end of the day, ask yourself the question: will anybody die if I try it? If not, go for it.
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Guys who go to orgies generally do not care who they are hooking up with as long as they have someplace to put their dick. I don't do the whole orgy thing but that's what I've always assumed. Nothing against your friend, just saying that the people who go to those types of things usually are much less picky if you will about who is sucking on their penis and many could not care less who it is. Ever hear of furries? People dress up in costumes and you have no idea who your going home with, it could be a girl, a guy, a transsexual but the point is to simply not care. Some folks are just like that but it just isn't something I'd be into
 
As long as she looks like a female and has had the chop. As long as u cum it doesn't matter whether there human or something else.
 
Everyone wants to throw a label on every aspect of ones thoughts, words, actions or feelings.
Let's rearrange the content of this post.
If a lesbian has oral sex with a man, is she now bi or straight ?
If a gay man has oral sex with a woman, is he now bi or straight ?
The answer to either question is a sexual act doesn't require a label or make you anything.
You are you and being yourself doesn't always require a label
 
I don't understand anything outside of being bisexual, I never came out at all so I don't understand the gay or straight culture but I have been with straight guys who experimented more than once and they felt safe with me because of my experience. I have no clue why I am hated for my ways but I seem to be. But I like it... it is a form of power. I have a split tongue from when I was goth and to hear that I can handle a lot more than most and do better than anyone else just makes me feel like "yeah!"

However, the straight men who I experimented with are still straight and don't equate to anything but that but I am oblivious to that. I am and always have seen myself as different than both you and gay people. I feel like I am both of you, especially when straight men are always demonized and gay men are compared to pedophiles, it makes me angry because most of my friends are straight men. I think the worry is both from the macho culture and the fact that gay people tend to size everyone up to see if they are gay and every straight guy I know that experimented with one of them were humiliated and everyone they knew were told about it when it is personal. People also have fantasies too.

I wouldn't worry but I can't relate to how you guys relate to or see each other. I know I am looked at like a sneaky, disease infested creep who lives like brokeback mountain but I treat bisexuals who do that stuff like trash, it isn't cool to hurt people and that type tends to prey on gay men and straight women. Most of them are actually closet gay men but I know I have been treated differently and I can just relate to the idea that I am invisible or dishonest to most of the monosexuals (that is what we call you). I have privileges to both of you too. I see the fights and stomping ground wars you guys have as insane. Matthew Shepard, yeah, that was an uproar but that three month war over Duck Dynasty... LOL sorry but I just don't get it. So, I don't victim stance myself like gay people do when it comes to identity politics.

I have a perfectly sexually healthy attitude too. I tend to have a lot of luck with bisexual men and women and I tend to find ones like myself who don't call ourselves anything but what we really are. It's a shame you guys have that complex but I am not monosexual so I don't understand. I think you guys see each other as polar opposites and us bi people are a smash to it. Plus, porn makes bisexual women appealing but in real life they are just like any other girlfriend. I am not macho or femme either so I tend to think that whole complex is based on that whole thing you guys have. I just want people to stop denying my orientation exists and starts seeing us a gay or perverted.
 
I sort of get it. I'm gay and I sometimes fantasize about fucking women but I know I'd be grossed out if I actually did it... because I did it one time... on LSD. Didn't like it. I had to be THAT fucked up to even try it.
So, If you decide to try this out don't be shocked if you're grossed out. And hey, if it's just a fantasy that's fine too right? If we indulged all of our fantasies we'd run the risk of getting numb to sexy things. Example... I used to really like to blow guys when I was young. I've done it a lot and now it's boring to me.
 
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TheGraduate said:
Hi, I'm 21 years old and male who is straight. But lately i've been wanting to try something new. I have this urge to want to suck a cock. It first started when i had thoughts of sucking my own dick and thinking how cool that would be. Now, I'm having more and more thoughts about me sucking cock. I don't know what it is. Sometimes i feel gross after i masturbate to transsexual porn. I just want a big cock to suck and i think i will be good at it. It turns me on that i will make someone happy. I don't know what to do. I'm losing it!! Any thoughts? Had any of you felt like this? Please share with me your experiences if you tried it once. Thank you! I'm looking forward to reading your comments.
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This is very clever trolling
 
I hope you aren't ashamed about being gay or any associations with being gay for that matter. Anyone who judges you isn't a true friend, go out and find out for yourself, if you enjoy the urge than maybe you've discovered that you are actually not straight, or are bi-sexual. None of it matters as long as you are happy
 
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