Right, but a woman who does not shave at all would be much harrier than one might imagine. I imagine that it would put a lot of people off, a woman who is hairy under her arms and on her arms and legs and all around her vagina. And that would be a woman in her natural state, much in the same way a man is typically hairy as well. So, "I'm a man, born to be hairy" makes little sense to me.
And that's sort of my point -- that if a man and a woman, both of whom chose not to shave, were standing naked in front of you, then would you really have all that much trouble figuring out who is who? No, of course not. It would still be obvious to you who is the man and who is the woman, so then shaving one's body should not be a decisively "feminine" thing, and it shouldn't, isn't a defining feature of a man or woman; a woman shaves her body not because she is a woman but because many find it to be more aesthetically pleasing and because it is sort of a hygienic thing.
For those reasons, I choose to shave my body as well. I find it more aesthetically pleasing, and I find it to be somewhat cleaner. It doesn't make me feel any less manly, and it shouldn't change anyone's opinion of me or my manliness. I simply believe that it looks better, and it feels better. That's it, and that's all...