suicidal thoughts are just a normal part of my thought processess, probably because i've been like this for so long. i've been to 3 horrible psychologists, all of which have recommended anti depressants, every time id say they didnt work, theyd put me on something stronger... and they really didn't fix anything, just made me pissed off about going back there, i'll keep looking thoughdepression and suicidal ideation grind the emotions down . it is overwhelming and relentless .
it colors every facet of life . myself and others, plenty others, have gotten out of the pits of misery through the intervention of western psychiatric and/or psychological medicine .
i got my life back because of finally finding one competent and well informed Pdoc . you have to be your own advocate in these matters as finding a good one can get almost overwhelming .
ive been in the hospital once before also, it really made me feel worse about everything seeing my family like thatI live mostly for my family. I spent 28 days in the hospital last year after i attempted to take my life and I totally regret it
Try to see some humor in life... I posted this elswhere but may be helpful to you
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ewRdf9GWuSo
ive been doing the same thing for the last 2 months, day in day out, probably why everything seems to be getting worse getting away would be nicemy advice, take a month (it is summer, after all) and get out of dodge. Go camping or backpacking, just get away for a while. you may find that your viewpoint changes some. living the same thing every day is a major cause of depression.
and if that fails to work, just keep chugging. it will get better. i promise
ill keep that in mind, i;ve been hoping for a change sometime, ive been trying to change things in my life but it always ends the samedude...ages 13-18 were the most depressing years of my life. If I would have based life on those years and I would have killed myself then I would have missed a lot. Life gets a lot better once you pass 18. It's not even comparable. You don't really start living life IMO until you are 18. Go to college. Those were some great years of my life. Just remember that for most people life gets better as you get older. It definitely did for me. I was miserable at 16 and now at 28 I am much much happier and excited about life in ways that I wasn't when i was 16.
oh, and if the anti-depressants arent working, they may actually be harming you. They all say it is a possibility. quit em, and talk to your doctor
i may be the old lady on this thread. 16 was a long time ago. but i remember it being very painful, awkward, difficult. people tell you do do what you love, but i didn't even know what i loved until my mid twenties, when i found a niche and made a real contribution. until then, i was pretty miserable unless i was completely on my lips, and even then sometimes. becoming self-sufficient is better than any anti-depressant. the feeling of empowerment is the ultimate rush! but it's not automatic, or instantaneous. i've rarely met anyone your age who has experienced it.
until very recently, certainly within the last century, it would not have been unusual at all for a person your age to be considered an adult. to perhaps be starting a family. certainly to be fully carrying your own weight, with extensive responsibilities to yourself and your family. as we become more technologically advanced, and require that everyone extend their schooling to adapt to a tech world, we keep our kids in a position of dependence for many years longer than is traditional, or maybe even natural. i think it's a major source of teen angst. just mho.
i think i'm here, and that we're all here, to discover our god/dessness. to realize that we are not separate entities, but are completely merged with each other and All-ness. cyc is absolutely correct to assert that death is inevitable. no need to choose it. it will choose you. but, i don't see how it could be the end. simple physics. matter and energy (us) are enterchangeable, but they never end. ever. the matter and energy that are you have been a million things before, and will be a million things after. death is no escape, just a transition.
i'll have my 40th birthday this summer, and i gotta tell ya, everything just keeps getting better. if i was still as miserable as i was in my teens, i'd probably have opted out years ago. twenties were a major improvement, but my thirties have been just incredible! i'm excited about what the next decade will bring.
i hope you find the courage to face your tomorrows until you get to a place where you look forward to them. i wish you peace.