Differences of opinions, Horses, Courses all that...
Friends and I have had this talk before. They are having fun each week, sometimes twice a week with at least 8 hr stints in there most times.
The missus and I are keeping it to once a month when we can, and fortnightly if the occasion merits it.
There *is* a differential of resposibility in the frequency, but the missus and I are in it for the long haul, and are trying to keep the damage at a minimum while trying to have as much fun as we can!
I dont spout on and on to them about our differences in opinion though, good on them for going out each week, having fun and maintaining a normal lifestyle I say, I just expect them not to judge me too harshly when I decide *not* to do it and just drink or whatever.
mmm_bikkies : Some people like to burn the flame brighter than others, but how long can you and your friends keep the pace? Judging from other peoples experiences that I know of, if you go hard all the time its a matter of *when* you burn out rather than whether you will.
The toll on your brain/body is a big price to pay in the long run.
For me, I find MDMA to be a fun, spiritual experience that re-writes what it means to be alive, but I dont think would trade my health for the culture I am growing to appreciate.
Some people do, but thats the choice they make and I can appreciate it either way. I'm envious for the amount of fun that they seem to have, even if it doesnt last forever.
I just hope that *if* you become jaded you still enjoy the music and nightlife!
-F