wow, this was really a surprise; a bad surprise. i remember remarking one time, or more than once likely, since i remember it at least once, to get to know tobala more and now that opportunity is gone.
i've always felt so personally disconnected from what happens online, as if it were a whole different reality, but tobala was one of those very exceptional few who had the power to remind me that he's real, genuinely real.
i don't yet know exactly how this has changed me, but i feel that it is seeding change for me right now and i know it will be for the better. thanks tobala, find the peace you're deserving of