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You need to sort your life out mate ?

The people who have said that to me are no longer part of my life. They were obviously drug users, too - still are. It's just that my drug of choice didn't really fit their criteria. Just a little hypocritical. I fucking hate it when someone says it (although it's been a good while since they did - as I have).
 
Treacle said:
The people who have said that to me are no longer part of my life.
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Same here, for better or worse.

Even if some of them may have genuine concerns (beyond the 'grow up, stop having fun and join the mainstream like me' thing that nomy rightly points out) that approach is no way to express them.
 
Then again, what do you know? You're 'just some druggy waster on the internet'. :\
 
Yeah a few times, usually by self righteous hypocritical critizing wankers who haven't a clue
 
rockstar 69 said:
Pffft, no offence Sam but your use was hardly an epidemic at 500mg a week. Hardly constitutes 'sorting your life out'.
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I know but what i meant by that was, K causes Cystitits and i didnt realise but i already had a condition causing it, i spent 3 weeks not being able to sit down for more than an hour and the pain was there nearly all day. I was pissing all the time and it was getting me down.

i think im 37 days clean of it now
 
My mother used to say such things.

I think she still wants to but knows there's little to no point.
My poor lil sis had a heart to heart with me the other week. She said she feels helpless watching me & she can't understand why I would wanna hit up coke. She said she thinks I'm gonna end up dead one day. That hit a nerve.

I still tried to justify it. God knows why.
Such a selfish practice I honestly hope I grow out of it one day.
 
Cornishman said:
My mother used to say such things.

I think she still wants to but knows there's little to no point.
My poor lil sis had a heart to heart with me the other week. She said she feels helpless watching me & she can't understand why I would wanna hit up coke. She said she thinks I'm gonna end up dead one day. That hit a nerve.

I still tried to justify it. God knows why.
Such a selfish practice I honestly hope I grow out of it one day.
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Did you tell your sis why you would want to do the coke? I think these are useful discussions to have, fwiw. And it sounds like your sister is capable of having a conversation. Give her a kiss from me and tell her how you feel!
 
Im in america so hopefully me chiming in on the european board isnt looked down on

But the name of this thread really hits hard on what ive been doing this weekend (well my days off work i mean by weekend)

Making the decision to get off heroin and get my life in order. It almost took my job last week and has really fucked up the relationship with my family so its now been 36 hours since my last shot. Not long i know but there comes a time mentally when you just know its time to throw the towel in
 
yoyo50 said:
i say it to my mates over fb, when they tell me they got drugs, and spent blah blah on gambling and at the same time moaning about having no cash etc, and im trying to stop drugs or what not
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It depends how you say it. If you're laughing when you say it, there's nothing wrong with that. I use it as a casual insult, just to annoy people. If you really mean it, then you may fall into the 'cunt' category. There's so many reasons why a person may do something - they might not even know why they do. Most of it is simply about getting a dopamine release, in any way possible. When I was a complete mess, I couldn't escape the clutches of that feeling - no matter who I upset.
 
If ur avin a good time and can't see the harm (until the harm as bin well n truly done), ur in the midst of a depresion that u can't see u've got a life worth sortin out or ur addicted and don't care about sortin ur life out, just ur nxt fix, it doesn't matter what anyone says, ur gonna think they're talkin outta their arse til u realise this aint how u wanna life for the rest of ur life, an only then will u sort urself out.
On the other hand u mite wanna carry on doin what ya doin, in which case crack on n enjoy n tell any busybodys to stick their 'sort urself' advice, well meanin or not, where the sun don't shine.
 
Mrs atm said as much to me more than once when I was at the hight of my stim abuse, I'd be turning up at family gatherings totally wired and only she knew, I'd be up for days on end becoming random more and more psychotic and we have 2 kids. Going to work wired and coming home worse than when I left as well as drinking like a fish:!

I did give up drugs and then it became clear I was still being random and psychotic and she really wanted me to seek help which initially I wouldn't do.

It was a learning process for both of us as I used to think the same thing about myself and couldn't understand why I wasn't able to "pull myself together", it very much depends on the situation and how the words are said, with people that are close it;s often just a sign of concern and frustration and not meant to be as simplistic and naive as it sounds.

That said with both addiction and mental illness there are plenty of ignorant people out there who hod the most outlandish views :\
 
knockando said:
Did you tell your sis why you would want to do the coke? I think these are useful discussions to have, fwiw. And it sounds like your sister is capable of having a conversation. Give her a kiss from me and tell her how you feel!
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Haha, I should get her to sign up. :p

I've tried to explain.
She's not keen on the stuff and struggles to understand why I would want to abuse it.

To be fair I'd be worried sick if she was banging up drugs too.
 
jones-in_J said:
Im in america so hopefully me chiming in on the european board isnt looked down on

its now been 36 hours since my last shot. Not long i know but there comes a time mentally when you just know its time to throw the towel in
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Not looked down on at all, and good luck. Hows it going?

atm23 said:
....I used to think the same thing about myself and couldn't understand why I wasn't able to "pull myself together", it very much depends on the situation and how the words are said, with people that are close it;s often just a sign of concern and frustration and not meant to be as simplistic and naive as it sounds.
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Absolutely. It's very much in the delivery. Saying: "Oh, sort your life out mate, your a mess." is a whole lot different to: "You really need to sort yourself out and get your life back on track. You're in a mess at the moment."
 
more Shrigley <3, and appropriate place I think (it's a greetings card)

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brimz said:
So would i Sam .

I think if it is coming from a genuine loved one then the intentions are good but from a stranger it is very insulting ?
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The bad thing is that even people who are close to you and have good intentions (desire your well-being), can be naive and ignorant in the way they approach the problem and end up making things worse.
 
Still get this from time to time which is highly annoying because once you have the fuckhead tag it's pretty hard to shake off. Had it last night from an old friend who I hadn't seen in ages and wasn't even under the influence of anything! I still stand by some people say those kinds of things to make themselves feel better about their own situations.
 
Unless it's said in jest by a long term friend then 'sort your life out mate' is guaranteed to piss me off.
For all they know I may like my lifestyle choices and so do not need to be told to sort it out.
Folk should just worry about their own lives and leave me to live mine the way that I want to.
 
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