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Would you rather tell your parents you were gay or did drugs?

wellllll.......my parents discovered the drug habit themselves, and they adjusted pretty fast, once theyd accepted i smoked pot it wasnt too big a deal that i was experimenting with other drugs....dad threw a shitty wen he read my diary and found out i was doing meth, but i think the main reason he was so mad was cos i insulted him rather majorly throughout the diary and mentioned guys id slept with and soing drugs in his house - a pride thing
mum wasnt all that surprised really by any of my drug-taking and only got upset wen i smashed up her house and stole off her and all that kinda fun druggie stuff
she always said that the worst thing i could do to her was to become a lesbian, or for my brother to be gay, and thats cos its a BIG no-no in her church, where if u ask me the rules seem a little fucked-up but who am i to argue if she thinks harming urself with drugs is better than happening to be attracted to sumone of the same gender
 
Well I just got home in a car my husband and I bought today using a wedding present from my parents to fund it, so I don't think they'd have problems with the gay thing once they're at that point. We're a bit past that bridge now. :)

As for the drugs, they don't know, but I don't consider it their business anyway. I never did any drugs while living with them or supported by them, only after I moved out.
 
I honestly have no idea. My dad is a "closet homophobe" - he has no reason to care, and he doesn't have anything overtly against gays, he even has some friends from college who were gay, but he thinks it's really gross and unnatural. It would break his heart if he found out I were *gasp* gay (I'm actually bi, but he doesn't know...). Both my parents would probably kill me if they found out I did drugs though. So I'm really not sure.
 
i'm fortunate to have very open minded parents. they're old hippies and they've done a bunch of drugs back in the day. i'd like to think they'd support me if they knew i was a drug user and/or gay. with one option, there's is rehab and with the other there's just gotta be understanding.
 
fake star said:
i've told my mom that i'm bisexual and that i do drugs. well, "do drugs" in the sense of smoke pot every now and then and have a few beers every so often. i don't think i'd want her to know any more than that (though i wonder sometimes how she couldn't).

whatever. yay for living on the opposite side of the country from my mother!
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yeah my parents know I'm bi and my mom knows that I used to use drugs and knows about most of the ones I've done in the past.
 
I've already got caught of IV drug use by my parents years ago. So there's no way I would let them think i'm gay (i'm straight).

A gay IV tweaker doesn't seem good.
 
My parents already know i do lot's of drugs so that doesn't bother me. Im straight as you can get but i was thinking of bringing home somebody and telling my homophobic dad that im gay just for added shock value =D .

But my parents have seen me coming home from chicks houses and on very rare occasions bringing them home when ive been wasted so i dunno if that would work. But i could always just say i was bisexual i guess just to fuck with my dads head.
 
I'd rather tell them I was a cyborg ninja from the not-so-distant future sent back in time to take advantage of the buy one, get one free Rodeo Cheeseburger deal Burgerking has going on.
 
They already know I do drugs, but I think if I told them I was gay they would somehow understand the drug use.
 
MissBehavin'_416 said:
Def. drugs. They know I "used to do'' them anyway
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same. plus i would have a really hard time telling my parents i was gay because i'm not and my parents know i'm not and so it wouldn't really make sense.
 
OH YEAH i would much rather tell my parents i use drugs then being gay...basically because they know i smoke pot and stuff anyway and they know im not gay so...
 
If I told my parents I'm gay, it's be pretty fucking hard to cover up all my heterosexual relationships to maintain that lie. On the other hand, they already know about most of my drug use, and are tolerant of it for the most part (they trust my judgement).
 
I'm willing to explain in a sensitive and intelligent manner anything pertaining to your drug use/abuse and/or your sexual preferences to your parents.
PM me. Keep your credit card handy.
 
I have to admit I'm jealous of all of you that are able to be so open about your drug use to your parents. Propaganda has pretty much taken control of my parents' views on drugs and I don't think anything would change their mind on that. They're pretty liberal about other things except for drug use, which now that I think of it actually could be part of the reason they appealed to me so much from the beginning.
 
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