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Would you rather tell your parents you were gay or did drugs?

I didn't tell them so much as not deny it as I was being taken to rehab, lol . . . the orientation speech has never had to come up, and at this point most likely will never ever have to, thank goodness . . .=D . . . I'd rather have told them about the drugs . . . THAT they can at least sort of understand . . .
 
candyslut said:
Is that why you haven't yet told them Dr Ozbreaker???

Hmphhhh....

*taps foot impatiently*
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Well yes, that, and the fact I haven't smoked any cock and neither really had the desire.

Should that change I'll be sure to call though!
 
I told my mum recently that I take extacy.
My aunt was in the room at the time and said that shes had extacy and that Im not on extacy... I said well yeah NOT THIS MINUTE but I do take it on weekends. hehe

Also im going to amsterdam this month and when I told mum the first thing she said was "why,, so you can smoke lots of pot?" to which I said "No mum, Ive told you I dont smoke pot. But I'll probably be taking lots of other drugs."

4 years ago If I spoke this way to my mum, I'd get a swift backhand across the face and nothign but bad looks for the next week or 2, followed by stern anti-drug abuse. Now she just accepts it and we get along alot better :D
 
been there done that...it was probably as big a deal telling my family I'm gay as it was to let them know I do drugs...but longterm, being gay goes down heaps better.

They're just too unfamiliar with drugs aside from the odd joint, and think it's all about being a junkie and dying in an alleyway somewhere.. 8(
 
since my parent knows all about my history of drug use (I took the liberty to omit the worst of the worst, of course) telling her about my drug use wouldn't even be an issue. telling my mom I was gay would be a suspicious contradiction to my way of life.
 
well i've already told my mom that i've used coke...and my dad has found a blade, straw
and a gram before...still they wouldn't like hearing how deep i got into the coke scene...
my parents are extremely smart and observant and they always have an idea of what
i'm doing before i tell them...although if it was crack, meth or heroin i used it would be a different story entirely...i don't know about my dad, but my mom prolly wouldn't be all
that affected if i told her i was gay...although my parents would never be convinced
that i was gay because i'm always with/talking about girls so yeah
 
Shit, my parents know about all the drugs I've done. In fact, I'd rather have them think I were gay then know about all the shit I've done, but sadly that's not the case. My stash and paraphenalia has been found so many times now I've lost count. It's real hard to convince a parent you weren't injecting anything after they find a syringe (It had no needle, and I honestly wasn't injecting anything. I was going to use it to plug some E), but I'm still to this day debating on whether or not I'd rather have them think I was using it for IVing or for plugging haha.

Now everything I do that's stupid my mom attributes to my past drug use. "Oh you forgot to do *insent chore here*? I guess if I did as much shit as you've done I'd have a bad memory too".

It's really starting to get old now, but I did this to myself so I just laugh and agree with her.
 
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I'd be disowned for either. My parents already threatened to send me to rehab because they caught me smoking pot, and they're also fundamentalist conservatives. So yeah, I'd be fucked either way. I'd honestly be sent to some sort of 'treatment center' if I was gay and they found out...sheesh.
 
I think my parents would better accept homosexuality than they would drug use but they're not going to be told anything by me for a looong time!
 
As I'm not gay, it's not an issue, but they'd be very upset either way -- although they were not that alarmed when I told them I've done marijuana in the past. But they'd be shocked if they knew about anything else.

My parents are conventional and have a double standard towards me compared to my brothers. For example, one brother is married to a Chinese girl while the other isn't married but lives with his girlfriend and they have a child out of wedlock. I know them well enough to realise they would find it much harder to accept either sort of thing from me as their only daughter.
 
Drugs.

at least that way in their minds id be able to "get off" them... then again they probably would laugh if i said i was gay and not believe me. 8(
 
I'm not gay, so drugs. They already know anyway. They took it bad for a week or two, afterwards the only thing I'd had to hear were wisecracks about heroin use.

Now, if I was a parent and my child(ren) would have to choose, I'd like it to be drugs. At least I could relate and share sources. Even if I were conservative, and not so liberal about drug use, I'd have to choose drugged children as opposed to homosexual children. It's sad, but we live in a homophobic society. Being gay closes many more doors than drug use does.
 
haha well my dad is gay and doesn't do drugs so I'd rather say drugs ;-)

honestly though, he knows I blaze all the time, and actually I rolled w/ his boyfriend (it was hilarious. good times).

anyway this is a dumbass thread topic.
 
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