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Would you rather tell your parents you were gay or did drugs?

Kandy K said:
my parents already think im a dyke lezbo that IV's dildos and bootybumps double dongs

could my life get any worse? well...for starters....well i dunno. my mom COULD get uglier. but my dad...not really.
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LOL...sorry, that had to be quoted! :) I'd rather tell them I'm gay, my mom at least, because if they found out I was using drugs again they would be devastated after all I put em thru.
 
Bit of a non issue for me. Mum knows full well that I take drugs, and she knows I'm not completly straight, so it would just be telling her shit she already knows. Drugs would be easier if I had to choose, cause I can educate mum on drugs (and have), whereas if I were gay, mum is enlightened and there wouldnt be anything to talk about, besides me not being able to carry on the family name. Though I know she knows I go both ways and plan to have kids one day.

Hmmmmm..... I'm rambling. Damn you pills!!!!!!
 
I got the fun of dealing with both those issues.

Telling them I did drugs, there were quite a few arguments over a period of about a month, but we sat down and cleared it all up, and now they're fine with it. It was pretty hard to start with, and I didn't say through choice.

Telling them I was gay, I did through choice after I met my current girlfriend. Mother was cool with it straight away, so were my dad and my sister. Mum gets on well with my gf and we've had no problems.

Looking back, before I told them either of the things, I was least looking forward to telling them I was gay, because I didn't want to be seen as a disappointment. Drugs I thought were less of an issue.

Now, however, I can discuss my relationship with my mother or comment on attractive women and it's easy for me, whereas drugs I feel a little awkward with for some reason. I feel fine telling them about stupid things I've seen on shrooms, or randomness on E, but coming home high, I hate. Maybe it's to do with them seeing me in a different state of mind. Dunno.

Turns out my parents had guessed that I was on drugs AND gay long before I told them.
 
drugs for sure, they already know ive tried different ones. They don't understand it but drug use can be temporary, sexual orientation is not.
 
Or you could just meet them half way and say your bi. My parents would without a doubt check me into rehab if I said I was gay or bi because they would think Im smokin somthin not right cus Im always chasin broads.
 
Drugs as my parents are far too oldschool to be able to handle the other.

Still it'll be interesting to see if this question would be an issue or not in 50 years time the way that culture is changing.
 
i'd 100% rather tell my mum i was gay.

i think deep down she wishes shes was a PFLAG mum :\ and I think my heterosexuality in some ways disappoints her :p

I also think she has a vague idea I do drugs and has asked me about it, but I get the feeling she's not really prepared for an affirmative answer, and would prefer to be in blissful ignorance....
 
Drugs. I think they suspect it anyways since they straight up have asked if I still do drugs before and they know that I used to be very active in the rave scene.

Telling them that I was gay would completely take them by surprise!
 
My folks are pretty openminded when it comes to sexual orientation, so definitely gay. Though i'm sure they'd think i'm on drugs for saying that. 8)
 
ozbreaker said:
Drugs as my parents are far too oldschool to be able to handle the other.
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Is that why you haven't yet told them Dr Ozbreaker???

Hmphhhh....

*taps foot impatiently*
 
jj27xx said:
LOL...sorry, that had to be quoted! :) I'd rather tell them I'm gay, my mom at least, because if they found out I was using drugs again they would be devastated after all I put em thru.
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thanks...the IV stands for intravaginal -_-;
 
i already told them years back, during a very very horrible time when my psycho ex boyfriend threatened to *reveal* everything about me to my rents when i broke up with him, something llike that shit. and to think he made me do EVERYTHING for the first time 8(
bwhahhahaha
 
i think my parents would be very happy if i would be a sober homo instead of a hetero semi-junkie, which they know of.
 
Drugs, my parents have an inkling I dabble anyway, they didnt even react badly to finding a bag of Salvia which to them must have looked like Weed, having explained and shown them it came with instructions they were convinced it was legal but it more than gives them to reason to suspect other drug use, especially with all those bottles of cough syrup lying around...!
 
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