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would you mind?

As long as the vajayjay isnt all stretched out... most men don't look at just the stretch marks..if he thinks ur cute and likes ur personality you'll have no worries.
if that iz a deal breaker then you obviously know your with the wrong guy.
 
I'd say a stretched vagina is more of a concern than stretched skin. I haven't had sex with a mother yet.
 
90% of girls I know (even thin girls!) have stretch marks of some form, ranging from barely noticeable to very noticeable. So hopefully most guys can deal with it (to an extent)
 
I have absolutely no issue with it at all.

I'm a dashing young fellow and have been with mother's, some with stretch marks aswell, and it never caused me an issue or turned me off at all. I've been with women who were very self-conscious about it, but they needn't be.

The woman behind the stretch marks more than make up for such an unimportant and inconsequential detail on the body.

Confidence is what makes us attractive, both in ourselves and the prospective mate.

Be confident in yourself, realise your beauty and stop worrying about such a minor aspect of yourself.

All the best.
 
I dated two guys in the past that were very critical of womens bodies, the type of guys that always have to point out the "hottest girl" and "look at that rack" "that chick is fat.." I HATE that number ONE and number TWO both of these dudes were horribly insecure with themselves and their own bodies(esp one certain part)! What the hell is up with that?? women get stretch marks because they have to give birth/life to assholes like these two dudes!!!!
I mean yes, stretch marks are not like the best looking things and if a guy is turned off by them they should keep their mouths shut....
If your so shallow that you really cant get around the whole stretch mark then be honest with yourself and move on; but theres nothing gained by saying anything critical about a womans body to her...usually that will backfire...
 
I've had a coupla women with stretch marks...one was really extensive - I found that such a shocker when I got her clothes off, coz the rest of her body was wow amazing...that was a bit of a turn off...and I've got this other friend who I fuck who has stretch marks AND a C-section scar...this was a turn off at first, but I hardly ever notice it now. It's so irrelevant.
 
girlgone11 said:
if you met a woman who was also a mother and she had stretch marks from having children ..guy's would that be a problem or turn off for you or would it not matter? Just wondering what guy's think about this.
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no it wouldn't bother me one bit, in fact i admire women with stretch marks. Because they've gone through 9 months carrying a child, then they've given birth to a child. Which from what i hear is not an easy thing. (glad i'm a man and won't have to go through what women have to go through). No women get my full respect for that.
 
"Those who matter don't mind, and those who mind don't matter."

I had a kid when I was 20 and gave her to a family. I didn't find out I was pregnant until the 5th month and had only gained 3 lbs up until then. So, then from month 5-full term, I gained 80 (I was terribly underweight to begin with). So my skin had no choice but to stretch-mark itself to all high hell. I was incredibly insecure about it when I was younger, and to be honest, I still greatly dislike them. However, I have never been kicked out of bed for my scars, and well...I've had my fair share of partners. And as I said above, if I heard or knew that one of my partners were dismayed by my stretch marks, I'd say, peace the fuck out, yo.

Even if I was a bazillionaire and had tons of extra money laying around, I would never get plastic surgery because I truly think that you should be seeing a psychologist, not a plastic surgeon, if you really think that you need to spend $30,000 to get rid of a few marks on your body that represent bringing a new life into this world.
 
I originally posted this to see what men thought about them I'm so happy with the replies and surprised that most men don't mind and to the girls out there who have them like I do I'm so glad for all your positive replies and like ^ said i don't love my scars either but my husband loves me scars n all so you go proud girls and after reading comments from y'all i really feel alot better about my marks thank y'all so much!
 
Stretch marks don't bother me at all. I dated a girl who was thin but had very wide hips and she had stretch marks on her hips and thighs and also on her breasts. Dated her for 3 years... biggest waste of 3 years of my life lol but na stretch marks don't matter.
 
Its much more about how the body feels that how it looks IMO.. As long as there aren't huge barrels of fat hanging off of your skin you shouldn't get any shit for it.
 
Men are evolution adapted, to desire mothers or women with stretch marks, these are PROOF OF FERTILITY.
Very important to genes needing to be passed on to not waste time with potentially barren women.

So I guess your stretch marks make you something of a fertility symbol, and this particular symbol is genetically engrained in men's psyches, and cannot be changed by culture and fashion.

However also men are adapted to seek nubility, that they may monopolise a womans fertile, and most fertile, years of adolescence through young adulthood. This means no stretch marks, skinny waist, big bum, medium firm perky breasts, very smooth skin and less body hair.



These are just two of the genetic strategies programmed into men, strategies for passing on ones genes, each male possesses a set of complementing, competing and even contradictory desires (programming) each with different strengths, and even some that will vary in strength.

The result is an unpredictable mess of sexual desire, with men going after all sorts, after their own sort, wife swapping, gang bangs, and cuckoldry (programming misfire).

Some men will most desire women who have proven fertility, like yourself, others will prefer a woman of unknown fertility but with more available childbearing years (remember at the time we evolved, our lifespans were much shorter).


So um yeah.

Me I'm attracted to nubility, stretch marks are not a turnon but early pregnancy is (my programming thinks that while the woman has proven her fertility by getting preggers, I can just kill the other mans baby and replace), however I would never NOT sleep with a woman because of stretch marks.
However if there were two totally equal women, one with, the other without, I would choose the one without.



Oh and yeah women have their own complete set of sexual desires and strategys, like sleeping with predatory alphas on the side so that her genes will be paired at least once with the genes that make a certain percentage of men be predators who sleep with taken women, and so increases the chances and strategies her children will be able to themselves use in passing on her genes.

Or the fact that because a woman can make so fewer children in her lifetime than a male, that she must be more picky in choosing the gene donors to complement her own genes, and must also be more committed to the care and survival of her children, thereby increasing the survivability of her gene line.
 
girlgone11 said:
If you met a woman who was also a mother and she had stretch marks from having children ..Guy's would that be a problem or turn off for you or would it not matter? Just wondering what Guy's think about this.
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I worked with a girl years ago that had 1 child when she was 15.......at the time when we worked together, she was 18. We starting hanging out & she was very forward on what she wanted so she took off her shirt (great looking tits) but when she pulled down her pants & panties, I almost vomited looking at those stretch marks, it made me sick but I hid my feelings well.........I just looked at her tits & eyes while we had sex & I would only let her ride me......she wasnt fat or anything either.......she was petite.

That was the only time I ever had sex with a woman with stretch marks, they are nasty..........
 
Stretch marks don't bother me and I prefer sex in the dark. Stretch marks? Where? I don't see any stretch marks. Oops, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to put that in your butt. It just slipped, again, hehe. I discovered once that some women are proud of their stretch marks. I wasn't aware of this until some years back. I was at a party that involved large amounts of alcohol and other substances and it went from being a party to being an orgy. My first and last one btw. There was a woman there that was quite a bit older than most of the other participants and she was very drunk, but she was always very drunk any time I ever ran into her, so that wasn't very remarkable. But what stands out in my mind is when she took her clothes off she had a lot of very large stretch marks. That wasn't very remarkable either, it's not like I had never seen stretch marks before. But what was remarkable is when without any prompting she loudly and proudly anounced to everyone in a drunken slur "...they're the flames of satan on my skin..." and she sounded serious about it too. I'll never forget that as long as I live. True story, I swear to god.
 
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My current girlfriend age 20 has them all over her stomach from being pregnant (my 2nd cousin is the father, but I didn't know he was my 2nd cousin until she told me lol) I don't really care at all she can't help it, and she is a beautiful girl, but got pregnant, so she has some war wounds from it. She is still skinny, nice boobs, and one of the most attractive faces ever with perfect teeth.

She looks like a 10 in her clothes, and about a 7 out due to pregnancy, but that is expected, and I can't hate. I have some in the middle of my back from growing too fast (I am 6 3) It is part of life, and she couldn't help it. I never am turned off by them, because it isn't her fault.
 
Strechmarks themselves? Hardly noticeable lesions in the skin from rapid change in size? Hell, I couldn't give less of a fuck about that.

Now the kids on the on the other hand... I'd really prefer to be on the loud end of a GAU-8/Avenger as an A-10 makes a pass than be involved with kids.
 
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