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girlgone11

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If you met a woman who was also a mother and she had stretch marks from having children ..Guy's would that be a problem or turn off for you or would it not matter? Just wondering what Guy's think about this.
 
You mean dating a women who was a mother?

Before I didn't mind, but after dating 2, in the future I probably won't.
 
I have a ton of stretch marks (mainly on my lower back) from weighing 52lbs more, once upon a time... lol.. and well that hasn't stopped anyone from sleeping with me, so I think it's fair to say, as long as the body is in good shape/proportion, it wont be held against you. :)
 
I don't know about the mother part as I'm not a mother but I know that guys love my stretchmarks and trust me I have them!!!
 
I do not mind stretch markings on a woman, I got stretch marks and tons of scars myself. I don't like being a hypocrite. I love kids too, just don't have any myself. Also, think of all the kinky stuff you can do with a new mothers jugs?
 
A moderate amount can be a turn on, the ones from childbirth, on an average woman, seem to be normal and not unsightly, something about slightly older, 30-40 y/o mothers turns me on..
 
Stretch marks would be the least of my worries; the shit kids that caused them would scare me away first, unless they are cool kids I guess and I were the right age to take care of them responsibly. Otherwise stretch marks wouldn't deter me. 30+ year old mothers also turn me on lol.
 
I don't have a problem with it. Many women that have gained and then lost a substantial amount of weight have stretch marks.

Of course, there is a socially contrived expectation that only the nearly flawless are fit enough to be desired or valued.

I think a good number of men--not boys--will appreciate you for who you are and what you have to offer above and beyond a minor physical blemish.

Being confident in who you are and what you have to offer, stretch marks and all, will make you an attractive and desired individual. This is all in my opinion of course.

:)
 
No wouldn't bother me if I was dating a mum who had stretch marks. (my wife has a few on her stomach from our kids).
 
I have a few on my thighs from losing a bunch of weight. I hate them too. I'm really white, so you can't see them that much. They fade with time, too.

OP, just a suggestion, but I think they have laser treatments if they bother you too much.
 
Mel22 said:
I think the fact that you have children would scare more men away initially than your stretch marks will.
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But then, those men don't really matter.

There are plenty of men who actually seem to be more attracted to mothers. As for the stretch marks, as long as you have confidence and are able to rock it then they won't notice really. When I was stripping I saw plenty of stretch marks on bellies, thighs, butts, etc. and those women still got plenty of positive attention.
 
munki said:
But then, those men don't really matter.

There are plenty of men who actually seem to be more attracted to mothers.
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I don't think they don't matter, I actually think it's perfectly reasonable to be honest.

Some people are simply not ready to take on the added responsibility of having children in their lives (whether theirs or not). The fact that they acknowledge and accept this and do not engage in something they are not ready for is certainly not a bad thing in my eyes.
 
Some men don't want a woman with children and some do or at least don't mind it and its all good. I was really just wondering what people thought about stretch marks, I put from having kids on there as kinda background info. I myself did get married to a wonderful Guy who was only 21 when we got married and i already had 2 kids he definitely does not mind my stretch marks however i am very insecure about them but i was just wondering did people find them turn offs but most the replys here have been positive about the stretch marks, the kids not so much.
 
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You know, girlgone11, I've dated 3 guys who had them too. They all lost a lot of weight before I met them. They did not bother me at all, so I imagine some guys think the same way. It's no biggie.

However, I think if they really bother you that you should take steps to remove them or at least lighten them. I don't know much about them, but I'm huge on plastic surgery if it makes you feel better about yourself. I thought I read that they have laser treatments, so it's not like you're cutting yourself open or anything. Just don't go to some third world country to have it done!
 
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