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Would you ever participate in an orgy?

Would you ever participate in an orgy?


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The poll is flawed. It needs to include: "Already do orgies, when possible"

The those who posted "I've done threesomes" = that is a threesome, not an orgy. Even 2 sets of swingers (M/F M/F) isn't an orgy - that's wife-swapping. Orgy is 5 and more people, in my book.

To the many boys who posted things like "Nope. I am not going to be in a room with other naked dudes makes me nervous". First, especially if you WATCH porn that shows guys fucking women, does that make you gay? **NO**! When you touch your own dick, that make you gay? NO. When you go to the mens room at a concert, work or other public place in which there are 2-3 other guys pissing, does THAT MAKE YOU GAY? no...

I've never seen any hetro guys being forced to have sex with guys at any sexual party or orgy. And if you're in a room watching a couple of women being banged - yeah, your dick is gonna wake up.
STDs : We all get something sooner or later of the basics, which means about 10 days of anti-biotics and or a shot. Hopefully you don't get Herpes and of course HIV/AIDs is the big one. But a wife, whose only had sex with her husband of 10 years - can still get STDs because her husband cheated on her ONE time with some guy (or woman) he meant on CL for an afternoon quickie or sharing a needle. The only time I ever got an STD was with one girl I was seeing within a year period, with a condom... after 130 women or so after her, nothing - with and without condoms. I get tested, paranoid from UTI a few times.

There are two general types of orgies, IMHO - which are also not the same as swingers parties: Swingers parties, they tend to kind of know each other or friends. Orgies means you may have sex with complete strangers and never see them again, no name - or anything. Most orgies are typically known as "Judgement free", they happen more than you think. At any anime or sci-fi convention, they ALL have 2~3 parties going on each night. .
You as a guy, may just watch or have sex with one woman, or have sex with 3 or 4. A woman, the same position. Its where you can be both a voyeur and an exhibitionist, even women like to watch. In any such party, they have rules. Have fun, be safe, don't come if you have STDs, "no" ALWAYS means "NO" - people do NOT get rapped at orgies. If someone is being gangbanged - they planned it. (More below) Being an asshole at a sex party means you don't get come back next time or worse - get black listed from other parties.

What is "judgement free" mean? If you are immature - do NOT go to JE orgies, which I think is about 90% of these parties. This means, if two guys are having sex or two women - you are not to be an asshole about it. It actually turns on women to see man suck another man for various reasons. It doesn't mean you have to be gay or bi... if its a problem, go into another room or whatever. In JE parties - its not a lot of M on M sex. Usually F on F... unless you're going to a gay orgy, in which case you're not likely to see any women having sex, maybe a few faghags are watching. I was invited to one from a married woman - which I declined since I wasn't gay. So I had the opportunity to ask her some questions about them.

I do recommend the movie "short bus" http://www.amazon.com/Shortbus-Unra...pebp=1437374242014&perid=06YWFRNNFVA3MPTP8YAP The trailer is: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H8A1dwEhSMY It is very graphic. I saw this movie before I ever did anything sexual with more than 1 girl at a time or any party.

Things I've seen:
gay men sex while other people are dancing, drinking that are not gay... even hetro sex nearby. People giving thumbs up, compliments.

A dozen men and women in line, to eat out a hot woman on a raised platform, chained to her "man" in an easter bunny outfit, drinking from a beer bottle. That was a fun line to be in.

On the outside of another party, where it was operational retail business on the other side of a fence - a nice looking women in he late 20s was on a bed for about 4 hours, with mostly guys playing with her... a female friend of hers came check on her at the 4 hour mark, her response was smile, moaning with the friend walking off to do her own thing. I did not get into that one. I would estimate about 30~40 guys or so had sex with her. Her outfit was quite sexy when the party started, didn't see at the end.

Glory holes with three women side by side with a line of guys.

And then, there is Burning man... which is beyond anything you can imagine.
 
I still don't see the appeal, unless you're on a drug that makes you hypersexual.

btw, is that what they do at Burning man?

ps
when you jack off, you aren't jacking it to lesbian porn
uh, yes it is. And when there are more than one dick, they are all belong to me because I have an octopus tentacle dick (8 of them) when I jack it.
 
No drugs are required. Its not for everyone. I've been to a few. Some do it every month, or twice a month... each their own.

Burning Man is an art / expression thingy. Its not as good as it used to be as corporate and people with money are getting involved... but no, its not an ORGY. But there are areas that are ADULTS only. There is sex and nudity... and art. Use google... like ( burning man nude art ) There are some orgy / public sex tents there... I've got friends that have gone, but I haven't. It requires time and money. You are generally cut off from the world for about a week or so...
 
Yeah I've heard Alchemy is similar in those rules.

dragonCon has some famous room parties, that I've never gotten in that are clearly orgies.
 
Im interested in already going to an orgy.
Ive considered the Psychiatrics Diagnostic Manual to go over some of the new diagnosis to make sure that I had the dichtomy to discern myself when questioned by socially aware persons about my personal morals/ethics.
I was in college prior to the 2010 article in I believe The Atlantic Monthly about Supreme Court ruling that defined the new penetration to replace sodomy.
 
My bi sexual girl mate took me to my first orgy a few months ago and im so glad she did. we met a couple of her mates both female
 
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