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Would you date a mentally ill person?

Busty St Clare said:
If I have to draw a line some where it would be never date any girl who likes to wear the skin of her victims.
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but... but...Nothing is more romantic than a lampshade made from your lovers skin. Aw:(



Lysis said:
The chronically depressed ones really get on my nerves. I feel sorry for people to a point, but I would get extremely annoyed to wake up to some guy telling me life is horrible every day. That would get old really fast.
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I feel exactly the same way about the chronically upbeat!! Destroy!!
 
Asclepius said:
but... but...Nothing is more romantic than a lampshade made from your lovers skin. :(
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LOL that's so fucked up and dark, but I laughed out loud.

I don't mean to offend anyone because I know that it depends upon the person, of course, but having lived with two women all my life, both of whom are incredibly, unbelievably mentally ill, well... it's stressful, really, really stressful and I'm just not sure I could be patient enough.
 
For some reason, psycho chicks are sort of a turn on to me.

but I wouldn't want anything long-term.
 
-=SS=- said:
Yes.. but only because it is required of me as a human being, biologically speaking (reproduction). Otherwise, no.. I wouldn't date 99% of the population, because that is really how many people are mentally ill in our society. No seriously. People put on this facade that they are normal and believe that just because they can function in society they are not mentally ill. But get talking or get to know anyone and soon enough it becomes apparent they are ill at some level. I admit that in myself too by the way.

You're all robots sleep walking into the furnace. ps: I'm in a foul mood today >:(
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Hooray. I am the 1%
 
More idealism on BL's SLR. You only think 99% of people are insane, because they don't agree with your views. There is nothing wrong with being "normal." The irony in it all is that most people want to have a happy, "normal" life and they revel in being "different" because they can't get to that point. Speaking of facades, of course.
 
Lysis said:
She often complains that she can't make friends and I don't have the heart to tell her that she is just sheer evil and mean and people don't want to deal with that shit if they don't have to.
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Sorry, obviously I don't know you're situation, but maybe that would actually be a good thing to tell her? :)
 
Tranced said:
Sorry, obviously I don't know you're situation, but maybe that would actually be a good thing to tell her? :)
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LOL You're probably right, but I just deal with it and avoid her. Mood swings are horrible to deal with, though. I don't know how anyone can deal with a bipolar person without themselves going insane. It is literally one minute happy happy joy joy and 2 seconds later it's direct abusive language towards the other person. It's not something I would want in someone I had to live with 24/7.
 
Lysis said:
More idealism on BL's SLR. You only think 99% of people are insane, because they don't agree with your views. There is nothing wrong with being "normal." The irony in it all is that most people want to have a happy, "normal" life and they revel in being "different" because they can't get to that point. Speaking of facades, of course.
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Do you always make such pathetic assumptions about people? I never mentioned anything about beliefs or views, as much as I would have loved to, because that was not the point of this thread. 99% people are ill not because of what they believe but because of how they function. Nothing wrong with being "normal" or wanting to be happy, I understand that.. but they're still ill and broken human beings.
 
No, you didn't mention views, but usually when it's everyone else (or 99% as you have suggested) there isn't something wrong with everyone else. It's you.
 
I am bipolar I and I don't tell anybody. Maybe one or two of my close friends, but that's it. I think some close friends or people at work who see me all the time can sense that there is something terribly wrong with me on the days that I am super down, but I try my hardest to hide it, but as I am told I wear my feelings on my sleeve. There's a social stigma around bipolar that I choose not to be associated with. It is unfortunate that there is such a lack of knowledge about it. It's not that I am ashamed of it, I just don't think it's anybody's business. And if I get pissed off or do something slightly out of the ordinary, just because it's my personality, I don't want somebody waving the "oh, well, she's bipolar" flag around just because it's an excuse.
 
-=SS=- said:
Do you always make such pathetic assumptions about people? I never mentioned anything about beliefs or views, as much as I would have loved to, because that was not the point of this thread. 99% people are ill not because of what they believe but because of how they function. Nothing wrong with being "normal" or wanting to be happy, I understand that.. but they're still ill and broken human beings.
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Are you House? The super doctor misanthrope guy I mean. Not the structure.

Anyway people's brokenness is the reason why they're living. If there wasn't something fundamentally wrong with the way things are then why would the first cell have tried its damned to split apart from itself, giving rise to all the horrible drama to follow (of which our conversation is now a consequence)?
That damn cell has a lot to answer for....

I guess the answer is yes, but as long as she isn't a manipulative chronic sob-story telling clusterfuck...can't fall for those again...not on this dime anyway.
 
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I have several linked mental illnesses on top of an opiate addiction, but my GF isn't bothered by the stuff I do, like how I walk around with a pair of tweezers attached to a keychain hanging from my belt, with which I constantly pull out hairs from the back of my head, hairs that feel wrong.
I don't be mean to my GF no matter what, mental problems aren't an excuse for abuse.
I just do weird things, well weird compared to what other people do, obviously not weird to me.

See I was in prison a few years back and this guy and his mates got me in the kitchen and held me down and poured boiling water and sugar into my eyes to try to blind me.
I was blind for a few months but I recovered 50% in one eye and 90% in the other.

This led to other consequences and problems for me, like depression and eventually drug use.

Ok I'm rambling but my point is that it must depend on the person and the illness and how they control it, also if you are choosing whether to get with the person, or are already with the person when their pringles develops.

I was already with my GF before my problems, would she have chosen me if at the time I had my current problems?

Who knows.
 
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^I think the more insane you are the more you want to fuck. IDK if I should make that generalization, but my cousin has some kind of developmental problem and she's horny as fuck and showed the world her snatch more times than I care to remember... she also started dating way earlier than all the other female cousins around the same age, and it was always to WAY older fucks who were mentally challenged in some way or another. It scares me because the insane have a numbers advantage, and they grow exponentially no matter what we try to do about it.
Luckily my cousin never had a kid yet though. God bless her, she's actually cooling down I think...
 
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