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worst heartbreak you ever suffered through

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xxxyyy

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here's my sad story. the only girl i was ever truly in love with cheated on me with three fucking random guys on a vacation where off course i wasn't present, then broke up after 4 1/2 years per text message. and to add insult to injury, she told everyone that i routinely beat and raped her. i mean we sometimes had pretty vicious fights, but violence was never a part of it. and that rape bit really, really hit home. to this day i have no idea why she felt the need to slander me so preposterously. i mean rape? seriously?
it's been a long while since her and that experience is one of the reasons why i haven't been laid in over 3 years, nor had any dates that were not utter shit.

god, i'm lonely.
 
She is trying to make you look bad to make herself look "not as bad". I had some words i was going to describe her with, but since you loved her i won`t.
Sorry man.... Get a younger hotter chick. Never go back... Just my 2 cents.
 
Every time I speak to my kids on the phone, or one of them says to me they wished I lived with them I get a horrible hollow feeling in my chest and the need to swallow back tears.

If it was a girl that cheated on me at least there are plenty more fish in the sea. Ones that don't cheat believe it or not.
 
I still think of this girl today. We were together for only 2 or 3 months, but no one ever made me happier. Im debating an attempt to rekindle what we had. I loved and still love her very much. Heroin tore us apart, but were both about 5 months clean now. I miss you Anna, not a day goes by i dont wish i was with you and every night wish it was you snuggled up against me and not a lame pillow :(
 
When my boyfriend since I was 12 years old died. That was the worst heartbreak ever and still is because I know he's never coming back.
 
5 year roller coaster ride w/ the smartest, most tasteful, savvy, driven, devilishly sexy, uproariously funny, painfully perplexing, unrequited love of a heartbreak I'll (hopefully) ever endure. But I wouldn't cop to still missing her an odd night.
 
well, i can think of only one word to describe, well, two: utter cunt. i would still pay good money to see a tractor slowly drive over her.
 
Boyfriend of two years who I was about to move in with, only guy I've ever loved, left me completely out of the blue for one of my good friends who I'd told about our problems a few weeks before and who had assured me that she would "try to help" and would "always support me through" this, blablabla. Then she flaunted their relationship incessantly in front of me. Then it turned out my ex had been lying to me for months about his feelings. Anyway that was like two months ago so I'm still in it. Fun times.

But shit xxxyyy, that's really awful :(
 
Think my mother's suicide. Guys come and go. You can get over it. Romantic love isn't meant to be a permanent thing.
 
My biggest heart break happened years ago when I had to choose between a once in a lifetime opportunity overseas, and leaving my boyfriend who I was madly in love with. It wasn't just infatuation, I really did care a lot about him and we were a good match. The tension of knowing I had to leave any day really created stress for us. Leaving him was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do in my life. After I got back from being overseas, a friendship rekindled, but there was too much baggage from the damage caused by our forced separation. We are no longer speaking, even though he still lives in my neighbourhood.

I am still not over it. Probably never will be. Love's like that sometimes.
 
One day you will have someone that love you the way you deserve..
My first GF was the biggest slut so I feel for you.
 
I was deeply in love with this guy for four years. All of a sudden one day he told me that he was getting back together with his baby momma. It hurt like hell, I thought that I'd never love anyone else. I was wrong.
 
The worst was the first, man.

I was seventeen years old and head-over-heels in love with this girl; we dated for eight months, and man, I thought I'd marry her someday. I thought she was just the most incredible, most fascinating, most beautiful girl I had ever seen.

Then, one day, she broke up with me. Looking back on it now, I should have seen it coming. She was falling out of love with me, and one day I guess she just bit the bullet and sent me on my way.

Being the stubborn, pig-headed young man that I was, I made things more difficult for myself by shutting myself off from her completely. The day she broke up with me was the last day I spoke to her. I wouldn't take any of her phone calls, blocked her on AIM or whatever, and that was that...

It took me forever to get over it. It began to hurt a little less eight months later, but I'm not sure that I was completely over it for over a year. I was so, so, so depressed, and to this day it was the worst case of depression I have ever experienced.
 
Husband of 5+ years thought his mental instability would be cured if he moved back near his family. A 10 hour drive away. I wasn't going anywhere. My life is/was good with or without him I could make it just fine. I gave him about 4 months to decide whether it was what he wanted to do. After a 4 month separation, he knew after 2 months he made the wrong choice and called me to reconcile. I am never going to say I told you so. I knew he would be back. After all the hurt and anger I felt, I knew I would take him back.

Don't let a failed relationship break you. Don't blame a traumatic event for your continued happiness.
Move the fuck on.
 
That is too bad xxxyyy I feel for you!!! I know from my expierience that the one person I thought who would never hurt me,totally tore my heart out...I was so co dependant on his ass it was pathetic...and to make matters owrse the last 3 years we were together and lived together we did not even have sex....I did not cheat either...his family is what tore us apart..his mom was a total passive agressive hot mess...and ofcourse she could do no wrong in his eyes but she always put me through hell...made fun of my cooking,clothes,i mean everything....I put up with that shit for years..To this day I am still getting over him....I hate him but I love him too..that makes me pathetic!!!
 
You know, whenever I go through a heartbreaking breakup, I think about the others I've broken up with and how I really don't care that much anymore. I miss parts about each of them, but I don't regret not being with any of them (well, except 1, but I still think I made the right decision not to pursue it). And sure enough, after time passes, I realize that I'm too happy with my own personal goals than to bother worrying about losing some dude who was a jerk to me. I do go through the depressed state of mind for a while, and mannn it sucks. I'm sorry you're going through it, OP. It's a horrible feeling, but rest assured someone else will come along.

Death was the worst heartbreak. You can't tell the person you're sorry every again. You can't at least see that person every once in a while or say goodbye. Death sucks.
 
thank you all for being so sympathetic, and i'm sorry also about each of your respective heartbreaks/losses.
what i forgot to mention is that my mother had died of cancer 3 months prior, which i witnessed everyday (as she died at home). talk about an impeccably sadistic sense of timing. the funny thing is i'm sure she would not have ditched if that hadn't happened.

a good clue about her utter cuntishness was that she didn't even come over on the day my mother died (23.12.), because she had christmas decorations to do with her dad. i think that should have tipped me off that she may not be someone i should be so emotionally invested in. all my friends instantly came, i mean everybody dropped much more important shit to be with me and console me on that day, only she was absent. because of christmas decorations.
 
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also i just wanted to point out that some bitch/asshole leaving you never compares to losing a loved on.
and ninae, i am very sorry for you. that goes far beyond breakups on the pain skala. how old were you when that happened?
my mother didn't commit suicide per se, but her refusal to get ANY kind of treatment for her ovarian cancer aside from all that esoteric shit she believed in was what made her death a certainty. with the common medical treatment of surgery and chemo the doctors gave her a 70% chance to survive when diagnosed. so my mother died from cancer, yes, but she also died from either stupidity and/or an uncoscious deathwish.
 
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