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women who use kids as a weapon

eireann said:
thanks lysis! im in shock i got an abusive phone call off her for liking [fathers rights ireland] on facebook. After she hung up i sent this message via text {you know its in the interest of eireann to have time with me and my family alot of dads get 2 or 3 nights a week with their kids. you are selfishly robbing your own son of bonding time from his dad and family. if i had him he would have a reasonable amount of time with his ma and your family,i had one night on own with him and one with his auntie and nanny and you ruined that for him,he loved it} i was hoping that this would appeal to her reasonable side but instead she phoned me back enraged telling me to grow a pair of balls and calling me every name under the sun,she does not have any feeling of guilt or compassion at all. i will say it again shes...EVIL!!!
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Sorry to sound so negative about this situation (not intentional) but just as a heads up - the abusive phone calls after the fact are one thing (soul destroying etc). The ones you have to pay particular attention to are - I'm running late, is it ok if you keep the child for a few extra hours / overnight (just this once). Your automatic reaction is of course, I would love to do it. Your ex can then make a phone call to the police saying you have snatch the child / failed to return 'her' child at x time and you have threatened during a phone call your going to kill yourself / child. If you receive such a phone call then make sure you protect yourself - get it via txt/email - if she refused phone your solicitor , childline or even the police to explain the situation 'upfront'.
 
8l4yh3 she wasnt like this for those years she was great we rarely argued,she turned in to a bitch after we fell out!

bearlove this might sound mad but were you on f4js face book page today? its a long shot but i had that very same argument on their page today my real names dean i was very offended with them posting a sympathetic link on fathers that murder their kids...i couldnt believe they would try to blame mothers for that.
 
awww captain heroin likes ripping the piss out of people in pain. captain heroin like kicking people when they are down.

yes sir captain heroin you are quite the lovely fellow!! enjoy sir,enjoy...oh the buzz you are feeling must be electric,haha
 
eireann said:
awww captain heroin likes ripping the piss out of people in pain. captain heroin like kicking people when they are down.

yes sir captain heroin you are quite the lovely fellow!! enjoy sir,enjoy...oh the buzz you are feeling must be electric,haha
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I asked a question... and feel free not to answer.

I just find it hard to believe you have never heard of a vindictive ex before.

If it's any consolation, the children belong with the loving parent, and your ex seems like she's devoid of any sense of love.
 
after your condom post as a solution to an already 'born' child.i will take all your questions with a pinch of salt!! thanks for taken the time to post on this thread..
i am already having the worst time of my life and dont need slagging posts on a serious thread based on issues regarding my son.
im the first to slag and piss people off on threads but i respect threads that are personal to the poster and respect threads where people seek advice on health or family issues

edit sorry captain-hindsight,you should really change your name to that by the way!!!! im just highly strung over this though man,i do love a joke though
 
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Everyone is entitled to their opinion, but I don't think people understand that people make dumb decisions or suffer through a situation out of complacency or for the kids or whatever. It's pretty easy to ask him why he stayed with the girl for 5 years. It's in the past, and I think he realizes he probably should have left early. I think we all have those moments where we're kicking ourselves for staying so long or putting up with bullshit. People do dumb stuff for love, and no one is innocent of having that one person who took advantage of us.

In other words, cut the guy some slack. :P
 
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