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Wishing I was a girl

The others have given some great advice. Talking to a therapist is a great idea.

Although I am very satisfied with being female right now, I used to hate it. Always stereotypes involved in it. Sometimes I think it'd be cool to be a guy for a bit. There are kinda "benefits" to being each gender. I think it is normal to be curious about being the opposite gender.
 
I myself am I crossdresser, and im 19. I started expiermenting heavily with crossdressing only last year, and untill that point I knew I enjoyed wearing feminine clothing, I just never knew how far the rabbit hole went untill recently. I do know that for the rest of my life, in my lesiure time I will crossdress. Not all the time, hell, not even most of the time. But its like better then the greatest drug ive ever felt in the world. I am semi-passable, and I love dressing head to toe as a female, makeup, wig, nails, heels, (boots are my favorite) etc. You dont even have to go out and do it, it takes some balls to do so. Start at home, alone in the comfort of your own room. You may even find you are indeed transexual, and not just a crossdresser. But I also know what you mean when you say youd like to be female. I like the feeling of being submissive, so in that respect I am envious of the females role in sex. I want to be the one getting fucked like that, looking beautiful. Obviously you can see im bi. But my attraction for men is only sexual. I dont feel any romantic feelings tword men. I love my girlfriend, and I love the sex that we have, its really great. And shes a squirter, do you know how fucking great it is? But my point is, just because you have these feelings that you would enjoy being female, you should thoroughly think through if you want to be female, or be feminine? I think you should explore yourself a bit while your still a kid like me. Your the only one who knows your own answers, you just need to find them within your self. A great forum to join that im a part of is crossdressers.com. They have a 18-25 section that I find is very easy to releate to, much more so then the rest of the general crossdressing forum. The rest of the site is older crossdressers, and transexual support forums. Its a support website, not a sex website, so you dont have to worry about creepers.

But I beg of you, if for only one person, you, experiment when your young now, you may see how blissful crossdressing is, and make some very nice friends in the proccess =]

I am go by Violet on the forums, hopefully ill see you on one day hun. If youd like, you can message me at any time if you want to talk about anything in private, id be more then happy to answer any questions. Oh, and please, nobody ask me to cam for you. I won't, im a crossdresser not a exhibitionist.

Also, something ive noticed, if I go without crossdressing/keeping up with my mani/pedi etc. For extended periods I get very irritable often, I feel overall less foreward looking, and rather depressed.
 
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used to get fixated on wishing to be a girl when i was a teen. pretty over it.... still i'd be a girl for a bit if the transformation was magical or some shit. swapping bodies with some hot chick and scromping with myself would be pretty fun. maybe in my next life i'll be a chick idk, til then i'm pretty content being a dude. ;)
 
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