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Wife of 2 years refusing sex, I am angry as hell!

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All the reasons have been suggested here. I have been through a similar relationship, she tried going off the pill, we tried all sorts of different things to turn her on in the bedroom, we even tried testosterone treatment and although I found out later that she had slept with a few other men on binges she didn't have a full on affair. I am definitely not crap in bed nor am I selfish or a premature cummer, she was just not interested in sex, period. I had even learnt post separation from the wife of her brother that the asexual problem seemed to run in the family....

I wasted far too much of my life with this woman, I'm no sex maniac but I do believe that sex is the foundation of 99.9% of every intimate relationship, if you are in such a relationship and you have given what you think is your best effort at making it work and it isn't working for you then it's time to move on.
 
I'm glad this got better for you. I went through the same thing for years and it burned me up in a lot of ways. After trying most everything discussed in this thread my marriage ended in divorce. The truth was, she really wasn't in love with me, and needed to move on. The upside, my sex life has never been better. The women I've dated since the divorce have really opened up a new world of possibilities for me. I should have gotten divorced way earlier. I wasted a lot of time on that project.

Being told to "hurry up" might have been one of the most hurtful things I've ever been told during sex. Ladies, if you want to really destroy a guy try that one. I don't have to hear shit like that anymore:)
 
Glad that things are working out now :)
I'm going to close the thread now that the problem is solved.
 
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