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Hi, I'm 12 years old. And I am HORNY BEYOND BELIEF! Seriously though! I started about 3 years ago, and now I'm in 7th grade, 12 years old, and I am having trouble containing it. It's like all I care about, think about, want to do... All day, every day. I would turn down my favorite video game for some good clean sex. This is not a troll post. I am very serious. And don't pull the "ask your mom or dad" crap, that crap is awkward and embarrassing and I'm pretty sure they'd homeschool me and never let me leave the house without a condom on. I want to f*** almost every girl I see. And the worst part is, I'm only in seventh grade! It's kinda illegal for me to have sex until I'm 16. Normal people don't start havibg these problems till 18 and college, I'm 12 in seventh grade and there are a ton of hot, sexy chicks that aren't dating any one and might not be mormon, so I could probably f*** them, but it's illegal and when am I gonna find time and a place for that at school?! I have to jerk off every morning and every night every day of the week just to keep me from humping everything. It's ridiculous! My d*ck is starting to hurt a little from it, yet I still can't get rid of the urges. Someone, help guide me, please!
 
You're probably not serious, and instead just being flippant. But honestly—and I know, I'm debauched and perverted—I had got a semi reading your post, and was really into it until halfway through when I discovered you weren't the gender I had imagined.

Dismayed, abashed, stunned, and no longer aroused. Thanks, man.
 
Assuming this isn't a troll post.. you're obviously chaffing/hurting your dick.. two recommendations here: Try and cut down the bishop bopping, put that energy towards something else.. put your mind to something, school work, hobbies, sport, what ever. Honestly, if you let your focus remain on sex sex sex then you just encourage it.. get a grip on your mind and your body will follow. Calm yourself down and just DO something else.

The other is if you're not using lube for god sake use some. Dry wanking isn't good for your purple wand and your sensitivity in the long run.
 
DOB said:
thats horrible advice

OP I feel your pain I was like that too in your age,actualy try to fap as much as possible that will help,thats only good solution before you can get laid.
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Actually it's the best advice, should have said it myself. Masturbation is one thing but porn messes with your neurochemistry on a whole different level. Stay away from porn OP. Go look at 'nofap' and 'rebooting' to see what happens if you pursue porn seriously, does some real damage to your brain and the quality of your arousals!
 
-=SS=- said:
Actually it's the best advice, should have said it myself. Masturbation is one thing but porn messes with your neurochemistry on a whole different level. Stay away from porn OP. Go look at 'nofap' and 'rebooting' to see what happens if you pursue porn seriously, does some real damage to your brain and the quality of your arousals!
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thats bullshit porn is normal,educational and healthy........... sure some ppl have problems with it but some ppl fill their anus with skittles and then fart them out yelling ratatatata pretending their machine gun,doesnt mean skittles are bad
 
Just appreciate and admire the beauty of a woman... No reason to be sexual so early little hommie :)

By best advice for you is that sexual intercourse is not all that important... It's over rated....... Big Time..

Just enjoy the moments when you get a chance to kiss a girl you like sooo much little bro... OR when you guys hold hands, or watch the Ninja Turtles together.

Cherish those moments and understand things like that are waaaaayyy more important.

Be a great guy to your lady and treat her right little bro. You hear me.
 
^ Great post Teabag, sound advice for a young man. I'm late twenties and I find the smaller things bring me more happiness than sex itself.. the cuddling, snuggling, kissing. Sex is something to be shared with someone you feel for rather than to indulge in just for pleasure, least that's how I feel personally.

thats bullshit porn is normal,educational and healthy..
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No, it's really not. It's not a true reflection of how intimacy works between two people, they're actors being paid to work for the camera. It's a counterfeit of the real thing that causes more problems than it solves. Porn doesn't teach a young person about emotional connection, or on a practical level getting her comfortable and relaxed enough to be ready for sex.

You should be encouraging him in a healthy way (like Teabags post).
 
-=SS=- said:
No, it's really not. It's not a true reflection of how intimacy works between two people, they're actors being paid to work for the camera. It's a counterfeit of the real thing that causes more problems than it solves. Porn doesn't teach a young person about emotional connection, or on a practical level getting her comfortable and relaxed enough to be ready for sex. .
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ok,gangbang anal bukkake dont show "how intimacy works between two people"..........theres all kinds of porn,porn that teach about emotional connection and theres tons of porn about "getting her comfortable and relaxed enough to be ready for sex" problem is many people like you,only watch the nasty kind,ok enjoy but thats just one side,on other side theres plenty realistic,high empathy inspirational porn.............
 
Actually I was never into the nasty stuff, preferred the more vanilla amateur stuff or softcore images of beautiful women. At the end of the day it's still crap and no substitute for the real thing, especially for young people who have nothing to compare to.. how are they to know what's "real" and what is just standard porn? Saying there's porn that "teaches" is just rubbish quite frankly, again it is no substitute for young people exploring together.

Anyway this is about the OP. Take Teabags advice OP.. his post was the best advice for you :)
 
DOB said:
ok,gangbang anal bukkake dont show "how intimacy works between two people"..........theres all kinds of porn,porn that teach about emotional connection and theres tons of porn about "getting her comfortable and relaxed enough to be ready for sex" problem is many people like you,only watch the nasty kind,ok enjoy but thats just one side,on other side theres plenty realistic,high empathy inspirational porn.............
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There's no emotional connection in porn. It's nothing but a figment of your desired imagination. Porn actors are paid to behave a certain way on camera, do you honeslty think porn actors create an emotional bond through cash shortage or notoriety?


-=SS=- said:
Actually I was never into the nasty stuff, preferred the more vanilla amateur stuff or softcore images of beautiful women. At the end of the day it's still crap and no substitute for the real thing, especially for young people who have nothing to compare to.. how are they to know what's "real" and what is just standard porn? Saying there's porn that "teaches" is just rubbish quite frankly, again it is no substitute for young people exploring together.

Anyway this is about the OP. Take Teabags advice OP.. his post was the best advice for you :)
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Young people should most definitely explore each other and form their own idea of a healthy, sexual relationship. That being said, you don't necessarily have to abstract from porn, it's natural to have sexual desires that you must treat.

I have reasons to be in doubt of OP's reliability, this particular sentence seems like a stereotype:
I would turn down my favorite video game for some good clean sex.
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But that's none of my business. It's possible you have immense testosterone levels. Don't do anything stupid.
 
Exosphere said:
There's no emotional connection in porn. It's nothing but a figment of your desired imagination. Porn actors are paid to behave a certain way on camera, do you honeslty think porn actors create an emotional bond through cash shortage or notoriety?
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ok,even if you were right,so what........ how it exactly works that messing of neurochemistry and why are most people normal when they all watch porn? you are nearly claiming porn is neurotoxic and makes you mentaly ill horrible person to be with in relationship psychopath kind of guy

also you said this
"Try and cut down the bishop bopping, put that energy towards something else.. put your mind to something, school work, hobbies, sport, what ever. Honestly, if you let your focus remain on sex sex sex then you just encourage it."

I can tell,you dont remember how healthy libido feels like becose if you have more testosterone/DHT than my grandma then you cant just "put that energy towards something else"
 
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DOB said:
ok,even if you were right,so what........ how it exactly works that messing of neurochemistry and why are most people normal when they all watch porn? you are nearly claiming porn is neurotoxic and makes you mentaly ill horrible person to be with in relationship psychopath kind of guy

also you said this
"Try and cut down the bishop bopping, put that energy towards something else.. put your mind to something, school work, hobbies, sport, what ever. Honestly, if you let your focus remain on sex sex sex then you just encourage it."

I can tell,you dont remember how healthy libido feels like becose if you have more testosterone/DHT than my grandma then you cant just "put that energy towards something else"
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I never said it was neurotoxic, you've mistaken me with -=SS=-, I don't have anything against moderate masturbation - I do it myself, even though I have a girlfriend, and it hasn't affected our relationship whatsoever.
 
DOB said:
ok,even if you were right,so what........ how it exactly works that messing of neurochemistry and why are most people normal when they all watch porn? you are nearly claiming porn is neurotoxic and makes you mentaly ill horrible person to be with in relationship psychopath kind of guy

also you said this
"Try and cut down the bishop bopping, put that energy towards something else.. put your mind to something, school work, hobbies, sport, what ever. Honestly, if you let your focus remain on sex sex sex then you just encourage it."

I can tell,you dont remember how healthy libido feels like becose if you have more testosterone/DHT than my grandma then you cant just "put that energy towards something else"
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Most people who watch porn are normal? What exactly are you basing that on? You don't know what's going on in their brain, their dicks, their sex lives, nothing, so to even make that statement is ridiculous. Go and look up "nofap" and stuff around that.. high speed internet porn has messed up enough guys to demonstrate there's something going on. The OP is 12.. the porn mag era is gone for his generation, now it's internet porn, which is far more damaging for the brain.

As for libido.. most people seem to do alright without exploding. I don't explode. I'm at nearly 2 weeks without releasing as my partner is away. If I get aroused I just turn my attention to something else or calm myself down. It's not that difficult. As stated in another thread the problem arises when alcohol gets involved or something else that saps willpower. If you want to believe you're that helpless than maybe that's why you can't stay away from porn yourself.

If the OP wants to masturbate that's OK in moderation, though twice a day I wouldn't say is moderate.. but the point I'm asserting is it's far better for his long term sexual health to stay away from porn altogether. There's something called imagination and just feeling the whole body sensations, rather than focusing on some random paid tart performing on camera for you.
 
i also had this problem and yes its pretty standard to be horny at 11-12 years. the way laws are set up is nothing to do with when people are naturally horny.

anyone telling you to chill out is just forgetting what it was like to be young. it does calm down as in you get better control of it BUT you never stop fancying every bit of ass you can see. at least thats my experience. sex drive has more to do with genes and personality than age and your just a horny dude.

we've all been there. i basically jumped on the bandwagon too early. i would advise you to wait for love but it sounds like your gonna pork some girl in a short time period so basically wear a condom. you dont want a baby at 14-15. no way is that ideal
 
Go ahead and take the advice of Pokerface ^^^. Watch a lot of porn and be a chronic masturbater. Just embrace your sexuality and fuck as much as you can given any opportunity. Don't listen to the conservatives. Pursue a liberal philosophy on sex and just go with the flow. Be a hippy bro! You're only 12, screw it!
 
Teabag Johnny said:
Go ahead and take the advice of Pokerface ^^^. Watch a lot of porn and be a chronic masturbater. Just embrace your sexuality and fuck as much as you can given any opportunity. Don't listen to the conservatives. Pursue a liberal philosophy on sex and just go with the flow. Be a hippy bro! You're only 12, screw it!
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where did i suggest any of that?
 
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