Hmm that's odd as even in really low doses of 50mg's Quetiapine has strong anti-histamine effects hence the sedation. I could see the XR version of the 50mg pills not making you sleepy though as that's released over 24 hours but i can't see them going through the trouble to make it abuse proof. I get the Quetiapine IR's and have some Seroquel XR laying around as well. I get prescribed 300-400mg's of Quetiapine a day but if i don't take it for weeks i will get pretty drowsy off only 100mg's of it.
Are you taking any other drugs with anti-histaminic side effects such as diphenhydramine, doxylamine, promethazine, hydroxyzine, certain Tricyclic anti-depressants, some other anti-psychotics, the atypical anti-depressant Mirtazapine which is a really strong H1 antagonist aka anti-histamine, etc. You can build a tolerance to anti-histamines which is really dangerous actually as my mom found out first hand when she had a allergic reaction and IV drips full of diphenhydramine and Promethazine barely worked. She had been taking loads of diphenhydramine for her allergies (i often saw her pop 4 25mg pills at a time) and when she had a bad allergic reaction the anti-histamines barely worked. She didn't get drowsy off them at all while the same dose would knock me out solid.
Also when i am manic Quetiapine often does not make me drowsy at all and sometimes for some reason it just does not work

. For sleep you won't need anymore then 100mg's tops though and if it doesn't work then it's not going to.