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Why More Women Are Having Sex on Drugs
By Kate Lloyd
NOV 30, 2015
For some girls, sex isn't sex unless it comes with a generous portion of coke, MDMA, or weed. We speak to various women and experts about the dangers of mixing drugs with pleasure.
When Nicola* and Matt* hooked up at a New Year's Eve party, it was the start of three years of drug-fuelled sex sessions. They would book a hotel room or go to Matt's parents' house while they were away. He'd bring a couple of grams of MDMA or coke and they'd stay up until the next morning having sex. "On MDMA, I'd want to cuddle and slowly fuck him, sitting on top in something silky," says the 25-year-old student from Brighton, a seaside town in the UK. "But on coke, I'd do anything to please Matt. It was like stepping out of myself. I forgot who I was."
Nicola explains that the more frequently she had sex while high, the more extreme it became. Coke helped her orgasm easily, but it left her confused about what she wanted—and whether she was actually consenting. "One time Matt drunkenly texted that he wanted me to fuck him with a strap-on," she explains. "I found myself pissing on his face and fucking him up the arse, in between chopping up lines of coke. Superficially, I'm sure these images are transgressive, but it wasn't me."
It was only when each sex session was over, and Nicola had sobered up, that she realized that she wasn't behaving in a way she would choose to without the drugs. "The disinhibited nature of the sex felt great at the time," she says. "But I had to deal with a lot of shame afterwards. I've got photos of myself from this period, and I've never seen a sadder girl. My eyes are begging for someone to rescue me."
People have always mixed drink, drugs and sex—from bankers and their trophy wives snorting coke in Cannes to hippies pressing tabs of acid into their mates' hessian-swaddled hands—but over the past few years fucked-up sex has gone mainstream. Pop music is full of references, from Angel Haze rapping "Can we just get high? Then find each other through each others' thighs?" to Frank Ocean crooning about "cocaine for breakfast, bed full of women".
Continued with links here https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/why-more-women-are-having-sex-on-drugs
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Surprised reg amps or even meth were not listed along with the others.
Reason more women are...? Because marathon super stim sex sessions are the shit?
VOTES ON POLL WILL BE MADE PUBLIC, MULTIPLE CHOICE FOR COMBOS*.. HAVE TO PICK THE TOP OR TOP COMBO*
*SYNERGISM OF SUBSTANCES CAN SIGNIFICANTLY INCREASE THE CHANCE OF NEGATIVE CONSEQUENCES INCLUDING OD.
By Kate Lloyd
NOV 30, 2015
For some girls, sex isn't sex unless it comes with a generous portion of coke, MDMA, or weed. We speak to various women and experts about the dangers of mixing drugs with pleasure.
When Nicola* and Matt* hooked up at a New Year's Eve party, it was the start of three years of drug-fuelled sex sessions. They would book a hotel room or go to Matt's parents' house while they were away. He'd bring a couple of grams of MDMA or coke and they'd stay up until the next morning having sex. "On MDMA, I'd want to cuddle and slowly fuck him, sitting on top in something silky," says the 25-year-old student from Brighton, a seaside town in the UK. "But on coke, I'd do anything to please Matt. It was like stepping out of myself. I forgot who I was."
Nicola explains that the more frequently she had sex while high, the more extreme it became. Coke helped her orgasm easily, but it left her confused about what she wanted—and whether she was actually consenting. "One time Matt drunkenly texted that he wanted me to fuck him with a strap-on," she explains. "I found myself pissing on his face and fucking him up the arse, in between chopping up lines of coke. Superficially, I'm sure these images are transgressive, but it wasn't me."
It was only when each sex session was over, and Nicola had sobered up, that she realized that she wasn't behaving in a way she would choose to without the drugs. "The disinhibited nature of the sex felt great at the time," she says. "But I had to deal with a lot of shame afterwards. I've got photos of myself from this period, and I've never seen a sadder girl. My eyes are begging for someone to rescue me."
People have always mixed drink, drugs and sex—from bankers and their trophy wives snorting coke in Cannes to hippies pressing tabs of acid into their mates' hessian-swaddled hands—but over the past few years fucked-up sex has gone mainstream. Pop music is full of references, from Angel Haze rapping "Can we just get high? Then find each other through each others' thighs?" to Frank Ocean crooning about "cocaine for breakfast, bed full of women".
Continued with links here https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/why-more-women-are-having-sex-on-drugs
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Surprised reg amps or even meth were not listed along with the others.
Reason more women are...? Because marathon super stim sex sessions are the shit?
VOTES ON POLL WILL BE MADE PUBLIC, MULTIPLE CHOICE FOR COMBOS*.. HAVE TO PICK THE TOP OR TOP COMBO*
*SYNERGISM OF SUBSTANCES CAN SIGNIFICANTLY INCREASE THE CHANCE OF NEGATIVE CONSEQUENCES INCLUDING OD.
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