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Why do so many of you men lie about your sexual experiences?

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Illyria99 said:
You brag about things that never happened...or exaggerate. A girl smiles at you, and you tell everyone about a night of hot sex that never happened.

So, enlighten us...enquiring minds want to know.
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Don't be so general, no one I know has really done that since they were like 15, and I myself have never lied about that sort of thing, what's the point in lying about something you won't benefit from?..
 
Well, with my current fiance, I kept my sexual experiences (which mostly were with men) to myself, unless she directly queried. Though, I told all after she confided in me of her own same-sex sexual encounters, which was shortly after we met in person (we had about 3 weeks of daily correspondence before then). She just knew for some reason.

Have I ever bragged about my sexual exploits? Nope. Don't see how anyone would be impressed by them lol.
 
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What a retarded generalization. The only way I could see this being true would be if they were 14-16 years old, and not only in males but females as well.
 
aussie101 said:
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Going waaaay back in time with this one.
 
a lot men/boys lie about sexual experiences because for one reason or another they have been convinced that their sexual history is a valid reflection of their worth in society's eyes. some people/media/art/music/movies convince some people of the "stud" myth. a man that is capable of attracting women is presented as being of higher value than men who aren't. thats why men take boner pills and will do anything to gain that extra inch or two. have you ever seen that late night infomercial where a series of women are being interviewed and the script has it that they all say how important size is. to a man who feels inadequate i imagine it would be a crushing reminder of their own perceived inadequacy. we all just want to be loved right?
 
Many times I lied just coz I was horny and wanted to fuck. Even if it was with my girl friend i'd tell lies like "if you give me head, i'll make dinner tomorrow" or "i swear this video won't go on the internet".

I didn't put much thought into the impact this would have. Pretty much if I am drunk and get an erection I am going to do what ever I need to to get my dick wet.

Society's norms have never really had an impact on me. I'm a rebel and will burn your house down.
 
Illyria99 said:
Men lie more about the quantity of their sexual experiences, hence the thread title. :p
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That seems pretty highschool.

I remember my ex ( who was a hustler ) lied about the quantity as well. He often lowered the number.

Different strokes for different folks I suppose.

People lie for a lot of reasons.
 
I don't think she was implying that women never lie, but I would say I have to agree that you generally hear more men lying about their sexual history than women. As I said in my other post, I think it has more to do with men wanting to be perceived as "studs". Of course there are always exceptions, but some stereotypes have at least an element of truth to them. I rarely have a conversation with a female friend who I suspect is exaggerating or flat out lying to boost their ego by bullshitting about how many people they have been with or by lying about sleeping with a particularly desirable person. I definitely hear more of that kind of talk from male friends/coworkers. I don't think anyone can deny that many people see a guy who's been able to get a lot of women as cool, especially when they're younger and less mature. And of course theres the unfortunate stigma that gets attached to girls who do the same thing (actually sleeping with a lot of people - or even appearing to enjoy the sex they do have). One gender is slut a while the other is a stud. One definitely has a positive connotation while the other is mostly negative. Unless you're talking to someone who's a little more sophisticated in terms of how they see the sexual world. At 28 years old, I have to say...I love sluts and definitely don't see the term as something negative. I'm all for people having a good time and sex is just about the safest way to have that much fun in this life, when you do it right and take the proper precautions and are honest with the people you sleep with.
 
Precautions? You mean like making sure she is on the pill or something similar like those rods girls get in their arms - I fucking love those rods, almost 100% guaranteed that they will not get pregnant....plus many girls don't get their period with the rod.

The last girl i slept with at Uni was full of shit. She told me she was not a virgin. Unless she underwent a hymenoplasty procedure, she was definitely lying.
 
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aussie101 said:
Its more when she was tired. I also liked to poke her in the back with my cock at 3:45am
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Win.

Also aussie, I think quesoanejo was answering your post even though it sounded like he was complimenting himself.

I don't think I've ever really lied about my sexual experience cuz I'm fine with it, I don't go around flaunting it but if someone asks me upstraight I'll be honest. Plus the more judgmental people don't really ask me about it so it's cool.
 
Hey Pagey.

LOL yes good point. I just looked at the page briefly while i was doing pore water pressure equations in my head. I'm going to have to think about not studying and mixing bluelight at the same time, because obviously one takes away from the other...

Thats good, I am really not a judgemental person so I will mostly take a persons word for something at face value unless there is some sort of loss involved. In general I have not experienced any losses through sex - from an engineering viewpoint profit is a maximum if a girl goes to bed with me. To keep costs down it is best that she is on a form of contraceptive. Thats why I love this new "contraceptive implant rod" that girls get on the inside of their arm.

If I am to consider an STD as a cost I will use a condom. However when I am drunk this cost usually goes out of the equation, I am more interested in a sensual experience. Call it risky, call it what you will. I will mostly gravitate towards first year girls because of this, before i get too drunk. I call this risk minimisation.

From a production view point I may want to further replicate my DNA at some point. This would require minimal contraceptive. I would call this maximisation of costs and maximisation of production. The profits for this have not been worked out yet, so I am not sure if it would be beneficial.

Of course from a business view point all of these also further have some sort of risk and requires some management perspective. That is what i am currently studying. So I do not yet the ability to maximise my costs and minimise risk. Yet I will at the end of this semester have the knowledge to do so. Perhaps then I will stop talking shit to get laid and get into an honest, loving relationship. I don't know about marriage though I see this as some what of a farce - i don't need God to tell me how to live my life, yet our society considers this to be normal and any offspring would be called a bastard otherwise.

That is pretty much the extent of my thoughts on this lying about "sexual experience topic".
 
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