MyDoorsAreOpen
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OP, you're asking the wrong question. It's not a matter of where we go, but what we become. 
I agree that the next life shouldn't be an object of focus lest we fail to make the most of this one -- being in the present moment and all that.
But as a student taking psychiatry right now, I have to quibble that believing in some continuation of this current sentience is a delusion. Delusions are demonstrably false beliefs that are not prompted by anything external, and are held with certainty and fixity. Beliefs taught to you by others and shared by social groups never meet the definition of delusions, because they are prompted by an external source: other people.
There are well-developed philosophical arguments for something of "I" surviving death, as well as there being some component to "I" that is not materially based. Feel free to find them convincing or not (I'm going to go out on a limb and guess you don't
). But please give them credit as based in logic and firsthand experience; they don't deserve to be lumped together with unfounded notions that come to people entirely out of the blue (a.k.a. delusions).

I see the need to ponder about ones afterlife as mechanics of the human ego (the mind) - a delusional view, which arises from the the dysfunctional belief, that we are somehow separate of the world we live 'in' or that there's something about 'us' that is separate. These thoughts about afterlife are fueled exactly by these delusional views. Since we are life, we want to survive as long as possible and when the mind comes in, it creates an individual who wants to survive, when in fact there is no separate individual, but merely an appearance of one.
But on the other hand it's completely natural and there's nothing inherently wrong with this. Just a step in human evolution.
I agree that the next life shouldn't be an object of focus lest we fail to make the most of this one -- being in the present moment and all that.
But as a student taking psychiatry right now, I have to quibble that believing in some continuation of this current sentience is a delusion. Delusions are demonstrably false beliefs that are not prompted by anything external, and are held with certainty and fixity. Beliefs taught to you by others and shared by social groups never meet the definition of delusions, because they are prompted by an external source: other people.
There are well-developed philosophical arguments for something of "I" surviving death, as well as there being some component to "I" that is not materially based. Feel free to find them convincing or not (I'm going to go out on a limb and guess you don't
