When your S/O says "not tonight"

[Lost Ego]

1) Your sex.
2) How long you have been (or were) with your partner.
3) How do you react when you want to have sex badly and your significant other says something like not tonight.
4) Why?

 

[rangrz]

1)Male
2) romantically involved for a year and a half, friends before that for like 8 years.
3) If everything is otherwise chill (no tension between us, good mood, etc) I'll just be like "kk, let's finish getting ready and head out" or whatever and carry on with no issues...I know what it's like to just be not horny/not feel sexy. If there's tension with us, then I might feel hurt/rejected and just be kind of distant n shit.

 

[pofacedhoe]

male
4months
didn't care at the time, just went to sleep
if its a one off then it would be fine but it has only happened to me once in one relationship about 2 weeks before it ended so for me it was an omen. there were other omens

 

[llama112]

1) female
2) four years
3) that's fine, sometimes you don't feel like it. I'm not going to force him
4) we'll have sex at another time.

 

[bunnymunro]

Male;
Single ;
Masterbate in bed and cum on their back. Don't ask me why I am single...

 

[Pagey]

^Hahahah

1) Female
2) About 8 months
3) No big deal
4) We'll make up for it in the morning

 

[Black Rabbit of Inle]

Male
6 weeks
Ask a 2nd time, then accept it and make up for it next time they're in the mood.
It's a rare occasion that she's not in the mood.