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When Trust Dies

FoX

FoX

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I used to know you
But now
I have no clue who you are
Or why you cower
And clutch your purse
When I come by
Apparently
You don't know me
Either
Life changes.
Love doesn't.
 
disclaimer:
this poem in no way concerns amaryllis (didn't want anyone here to worry about the status of our relationship) :D
 
I have high expectations of people too. It may not be that they don't love you, it just may be that they are not putting the same amount of thought into your feelings as you might hope that they would. This is something difficult that I am grappling with.
 
^^^^^^^^^
As usual, you are most likely right.
I think a lot of people get into trouble trying to deny that they have feelings, and expect others not to have them either.
As I noted in another thread, only when a person finds a balance between their reason and their feelings are they whole.
 
Originally quoted by FoX
I think a lot of people get into trouble trying to deny that they have feelings, and expect others not to have them either.
I didn't know you knew my boyfriend? lol seriousl you hit it on the head. his problem was his family showed no feelings towards him and hurt him so he feels like by denying his feelings, he'll be stronger since he was hurt when he acknowledged that he loved them no matter what they did to him.
thanks FoX!
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"We call that person who has lost his father, an orphan; and a widower that man who has lost his wife. But that man who has known the immense unhappiness of losing a friend, by what name do we call him? Here every language is silent and holds its peace in impotence."
-Joseph Roux
Well said, Foxy. I miss your mind.
 
The question I’ve find myself asking myself so often is not "When Trust Dies”...
But instead when is trust born? Is it something that is given out freely & arbitrarily or is it a gift that must be guarded and earned? Regardless when it’s taken from us it’s a painful experience and sadly I’m lead to believe on that we tend to in one way or another only propagate what was inflicted on us in newer situations when newer players presents themselves.
The human condition it isn’t always perfect, sometimes it’s quite painful but it never lacks a certain benign beauty and a hint of the mystic.
[ 05 May 2002: Message edited by: Dakeva ]
 
And it's no wonder that such uncertainty and vagueness rests around a man-made concept...
Sometimes I think that we hurt ourselves more by flexing this 'awareness' that we believe ourselves to be masters of. But then I think of how much we would lose without it, and how many 'man-made conditions' I don't want to be without. You have to love a good intrigue.
**Hi Dakeva :) **
 
"Our doubts are traitors,
And make us lose the good we oft might win
By fearing to attempt."
- Shakespeare
 
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