When I decide that I don't like my life the way it is . . . . .

[L O V E L I F E]

I can pout
I can cry
I can scream
I can throw things
I can punch things
I can over-drug
I can over-sex
I can over-spend
I can over-eat
I can over-sleep
I can blame myself
I can blame others
I can feel sorry for myself
I can isolate
I can rationalize
I can justify
I can cheat
I can impose
I can give up
I can change what I don't like
I can decide to be happy

 

[Dagny]

You're a good man.

 

[Flower]

 

[ice-9]

so true.

 

[Sweetpea]

I think it's just like a friend told me "stop bitching and change something"

 

[Mellabopper]

LL

 

[alykitty]

L O V E L I F E <<<----r0x

 

[Angelight]

 

[TINK]

WOW

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I love being a CRACKWHORE!!!!
FUCK PLUR - ITS ALL ABOUT HARD CORE ASS FUCKING
What about treatment for addicts? I think addicts treat themselves... they overdose and DIE!

 

[FutureAeons]

LL.. very true

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"How the fuck do you feellllll?"
AIM ~ FutureAeons

 

[Sara Tonin]

I agree that happiness IS a decision. Personally, I've decided to make a conscious effort to be happy

So far, so good

 

[StormChild]

Listen to this guy, I think he's onto something....
[This message has been edited by StormChild (edited 04 October 2001).]

 

[identity]

..wow..i really like that ending..
..well said..

this is just a crisis
this is not a breakdown
this is not un-usual
i feel okay
look at all these pictures
look at how i'm smiling
this is not a breakdown
i'm holding on

 

[SpeedLimit55]

LL <~

 

[Goddess]

lovely very lovely
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Goddess
Don't hold to anger, hurt or pain. They steal your energy and keep you from love. ~ Leo Buscaglia ~

 

[mealltach]

"whatever one loves, is"
out of curiosity, how does a person "decide" to be happy? that really piqued my interest, ll...
i really, really enjoyed this piece. it made me sit back, smile, and go, "harrumph?"

cheers.

 

[FallingAngel]

 

[E-girl]

very enlightening LL

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E-girl
IM: tiggersgurl2067
"There's a part of me, that i forgot to be. Take a look and see, the light still shines in me." ~~ Milk, Inc.

 

[Noodle]

Ditto what spedly posted.

 

[fizzygirl]

So today I was reading about the correspondence bias for one of my classes,and i thought it really fitting with this...basically, it proposes that if we see people acting in a certain way, we assume that their attitudes match those behaviors. So, in the words of william james..
"We need to only in cold blood ACT as if the thing in question were real, and keep acting as if it were real, and it will infallibly end by growing into such a connection with our life that it will become real"