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When Girls Ask How Big Your Dick Is..?? (WHAT TO SAY?)

Believe it or not, a lot of girls prefer that 4-6" range. It doesn't have to be big to get the job done. Positions, positional aids, toys, etc can all be used if needed. You can be short and girthy. That's good. You can be thinner and a little longer. That's good too. Too big it's not good. It's painful. When your girl is saying ow, ow, ow every time you thrust, it's probably too big.
And smaller guys are definitely easier to give better blow jobs to.
 
So recently I started seeing this girl.. we are both head over heels for each other. This relationship started 1/20, so we've only been dating like 3 weeks. We haven't gotten further than deep make-out sessions, and just the other day we started talking about Valentine's Day, she said "There is only one thing I want for Valentine's Day... I think you know exactly what I want ;)" So it's obvious she wants the D, earlier today she told me to ask her anything and she would answer with an honest reply, I said what's your cup size (Just because I knew she wanted a Q like that), she says "36 D hehe, what's your size?". Just to clarify, I said 36 C to mess around and she said not that, something else... So GUYS, what would you say if you got asked that by a girl? I'm only 5 1/2 @ 17, which I'm not sure is good or not, I've been laid only twice, both of which I didn't really get any complaints.. should I come straight out and say 5 1/2? She's a virgin btw, so it makes it even more confusing..
Tell her you can't describe it, she has to see it in person!!!
 
No one has ever asked for numbers (except once) but I've had a bunch of women ask me for dick pics (after they sent me pictures of them nude).

Problem is, I did try and take a couple pictures of my erect dick and it just seemed kind of seemed to graphic and kind of gross/shocking. Either that, or I'm not a good dick photographer. An erect penis is just sort of shocking thing to see. Has an aggressive feel to it almost. Also my dick, while beefy, isn't the prettiest looking penis, being rather straight and lacking that perfect upward curve of the prototypical penis.

However, what I figured out to do instead was to send them a picture of my erect dick while clothed, like in boxers. It shows the size of it without it being so graphic, while hiding the fact that its not the most handsome penis in the world, and also doesn't require grooming.

I have twice sent a dick pic of it flaccid, like right after a hot shower. Which works because I have an unusually large flaccid penis (so they get an idea what it might be like erect). But its not really a "grower" -- for instance most guys penises flaccid dick grows in size alot more than mine dose. In fact in one of those 2 cases where I showed it flaccid, the girl later remarked (after having sex) that after seeing the flaccid pic, she thought it was going to grow into something monster sized (which it isn't, it's just larger than average) . She didn't say it disappointingly at all, like she had hoped for a monster, it's just the impression it gave her.
 
Honestly, just be straightforward and own it if she asks. Most of the time, confidence matters way more than numbers. Plus, if she’s into you, that’s what counts the most anyway!
 
It took me a long time to really get why all thru my twenties it was just automatically expected for every girl to be wanting a huge 8 to 10 inch peen knocking on her heavens door. And why every girl was always throwing it out there that she liked them that big.

I always knew I wasnt tryin to get my cervix hit. I got an inverted uterus. If it’s more then 6 inches you gonna be watching me squirm for awhile. I think most women are like that then not. But now I think it coulda just been an excuse to give men a mental reference. Like reference my pussy mofo haha

Kinda like how when men just send pics of their peen out by the bulk load to random strangers on the internet without even saying hi….. Random stranger penis is just stupid. But I think men get off on just knowing that at some time it’s gonna be certain that a woman’s vision will be focused on their penis.
 
It took me a long time to really get why all thru my twenties it was just automatically expected for every girl to be wanting a huge 8 to 10 inch peen knocking on her heavens door. And why every girl was always throwing it out there that she liked them that big.

I always knew I wasnt tryin to get my cervix hit. I got an inverted uterus. If it’s more then 6 inches you gonna be watching me squirm for awhile. I think most women are like that then not. But now I think it coulda just been an excuse to give men a mental reference. Like reference my pussy mofo haha

Kinda like how when men just send pics of their peen out by the bulk load to random strangers on the internet without even saying hi….. Random stranger penis is just stupid. But I think men get off on just knowing that at some time it’s gonna be certain that a woman’s vision will be focused on their penis.
Hey, don't pick on Brett Farve. 🤣🤣🤣
 
So recently I started seeing this girl.. we are both head over heels for each other. This relationship started 1/20, so we've only been dating like 3 weeks. We haven't gotten further than deep make-out sessions, and just the other day we started talking about Valentine's Day, she said "There is only one thing I want for Valentine's Day... I think you know exactly what I want ;)" So it's obvious she wants the D, earlier today she told me to ask her anything and she would answer with an honest reply, I said what's your cup size (Just because I knew she wanted a Q like that), she says "36 D hehe, what's your size?". Just to clarify, I said 36 C to mess around and she said not that, something else... So GUYS, what would you say if you got asked that by a girl? I'm only 5 1/2 @ 17, which I'm not sure is good or not, I've been laid only twice, both of which I didn't really get any complaints.. should I come straight out and say 5 1/2? She's a virgin btw, so it makes it even more confusing..

I ask them how much they weigh and for their BMI.
 
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