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When a little girl messin' with your mind....What do YOU do?

They don't mesh is all.

Forget her and this series of interactions, because you both have demonstarted a level of inexperience and/or immaturity regarding a fairly close interpersonal relationship. You actually both probably have a lot to live and learn.

Let it go.

It isn't healthy to be in a relationship with someone that is not on the same page as yourself. That is an opinion, and not a fact.
 
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Yo guys!

Well I called her today and she answered, I told that I'm really sorry about the last monday and that I'm really pissed off that we couldn't meet cause of my phone-battery-issues, seemed to feel me :) And sounded happy that I was calling. Asked her about the tuesday but didn't get any special kind of explanation why did she fade me like she did.
Did ask also if she was mad at me or sumthing cause she didnt call me back, said that se wasnt and that the tuesdays eating/drinking situation i was supposed to be involved in got a little out of hand or something :P

Well, going to see her tomorrow! Goeng to have a talk and maby take her dining somewhere.

Wish me luck, and thanks for replying and for the advices, sure made me think.

Moe.
 
^never apologize for not meeting up with her! Unless you messed her around, there shouyld be no apologies, and even then don't say sorry, say that you made a mistake or were being a bit stupid momentarily - sorry is meant for deep deep shit.

Only offer up an explanation if the situation demands it.
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Ignore her. If she comes back around, well, then you can go from there.

She is probably just being a space cadet, and making moves without using any reason.

Females--especially the youngins--seem to act in accordance with their ever fluctuating moods and/or personal agenda. Their view is filtered through a very limited set of perspectives.

Give this some time to make happen. If she doesn't get it together or you, then move on as if nothing ever mattered.

You will be the better for it.
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Yeah - don't be manipulated by her actions, but when she's down if you ain't too busy meet up with her. Tell her if you are. If you're going thru w/d then I would concentrate on your own shit most of the time, and only see her when it's easy to do so. Do not go out of your way, if she's all over the place like that.
 
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I was apolgizing for my own will and partly for these comments like this one:
"How could HE do this to ME?"
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And IMO its not women manipulation to make me interested why she didnt call me back? :D

Rough you got a point... I should wait for my time to come but I am inna hurry to tell her about my feelings for her.... maby just to know i have to move on.

Moe
 
Hmm. She could have blown you off on purpose because she thought that's what you did to her. If that's the case then she sounds like a drama queen playing games...

But I would definitely ask her what happened the next time you talk to her.
 
Yeah, gonna see her sometime near hopefully.
It isn't healthy to be in a realtionship with someone that is not on the same page as yourself.
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That just might be true but I am more than willing to give it a try. And the page that Im stuck at the moment isn't great either 8)
 
That din't make any sense Moe.

Do you see wut I did there?

<3

Good on you; Be blessed and don't ever second guess your love.
 
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