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what would you do...

that girl is evidently waste of lifeforce,I am dissapointed you even consider getting back.... have some respect to yourself,have a wank and be done
 
W.W.I.D.?

Run like the wind. Then kick my own ass for letting it go that far, cheaters get no love.
 
lol. this thread reeks of butthurt, jealous insecurity and vindictiveness.

This is why I do my best to stay in the rarefied atmosphere of academia and as distant as possible from the unwashed pleeb masses.
 
i dunno double cheating then dumping you while you lack a social support network- if you get back together expect more of the same
 
I'd probably use him for sex but would make it clear that we are not in a relationship. Then go out with someone better when I met them.
 
True dat. I would go out with him if I was bored, but I suppose that wouldn't be a good idea if you still have feelings for the person.
 
So uh Wolfmans I just saw your pic in the Lounge, and dude I dunno whyyyyyyyyy you're letting this girl do this. You are one fine brotha, my friend. You can get plenty of girls!
 
B1tO'RoughJack said:
I have had a girl like this - luckily enough I always took her with a pinch of salt, so I was never that bothered, just mildly irritated.
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This is pretty sound advice. It's just pride that hurts at the moment, but you'll be dating a ticking time bomb that's bound to act up again if you take her back.

rangrz said:
unwashed pleeb masses.
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plebe*
 
pontifex01 said:
^ That would be my gut reaction but the OP seems (no offence man) like too much of an emotionally dependent person to make that a realistic possibility. I mean he got cheated on twice, got dragged up-country, got dumped, and is actually asking us what to do now that this disgusting excuse for a human being is asking to get back together.
You have to be at least a bit of a bastard to use someone purely for sex while leading them on and the OP doesn't seem to fit that description. Which I suppose is a compliment. I suppose...
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Haha I'm not offended. I don't know about emotionally dependent, but I am a drug addict and ppl say love is a drug so u kno... Actually I think it's the complete opposite. I've always been able to have a gf throughout my life, but I've gone years on end sometimes without a girl, or sex for that matter, bc I wasn't feelin it. I'll only start messin with a girl if I really like her, not to keep myself occupied

I know I cud probly use someone for sex, but my conscience would be fucking with me too hard most of the time. In the depths of my addiction I've done some shit to some ppl, but I've never cheated on a girl, or treated them badly for that matter. I guess I have a higher respect for women, esp since most of the ones I date are somewhat innocent, non-drug addicts

I'll clear up that I didn't move up north solely for this girl. I was addicted to h and NEEDED to gtfo of nj, cuz I cudnt get clean any other way. But I was really into her, plus I'm a sucker for redheads. But in all honesty, I found out about the first cheating the night before we left for Maine, I was just so focused on getting clean I cared more about getting to Maine than being with her. When that whole thing happened I could've just came back home but I stayed for the summer just to stay clean and such

Also this isnt my first real relationship, and this isn't the first time I've been cheated on. I was with a girl for 2 years, she stayed with me thru my first rehab and when I went to my second one 3 months later, she hooked up with some guy at a concert the first weekend I was gone. My friends were there and they saw it, but no one said shit and she continued to lead me on for another 7 months. Only way I found out is cuz one of her friends became a patient at the rehab I was in and told me what was up. Once I got home she wanted to get back together but I shot that down instantly

Lysis said:
So uh Wolfmans I just saw your pic in the Lounge, and dude I dunno whyyyyyyyyy you're letting this girl do this. You are one fine brotha, my friend. You can get plenty of girls!
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Haha well thaanks. I'm just really caught up with this girl, like bad. I have no idea why, I just am. The other pretty fucked up part of this relationship is (she's been in Maine this whole time but is coming home next week) but since she called and told me all this back in oct, she's still been with this guy despite the fact she talks shit about him and tells me she loves me and fucked up by leaving me. He's still listed as her bf on fb and spends time with this dude. It's just a fucked up situation.

The first night we got to Maine she went to jail for a DUI, so I spent every last dollar I had (even had a friend wire me some cash and got in debt) just so I cud bail this girl out so she didn't have to sit in jail, just to have her cheat on and leave me. All the $ I saved up to basically live until I found a job was gone within the first 24hrs. It made for a good story while I was there

Thanks for all the replies ppl, I didn't think this would get that much attention but I'm grateful
 
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